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i'm so confused
I have a boyfriend that I've been going out for almost 4 months. Yet, I still have feelings for my "first love". We went out for 14-15 months [8th grade into highschool] It ended due to some problems. A big one was not being able to see each other because we are not in the same grade or school. He was still in middle school when I went into high school.. so he had limits to hanging out with me. Now he doesn't. He still likes me..
i really don't know what to do. I do like my boyfriend, not love.. because that is too soon [in my book] He's probably the best one I've had because we are in high school and there's no middle school drama.
Whenever I see my ex.. I get happy and I want to hug him.. never let go. I'm afraid of what may happen. I did kiss him while I was with my boyfriend. I have a feeling it might happen again.
I don't know what I have is infatuation for my ex or for my boyfriend. Maybe I'm blind. How can I solve this problem?
I'm afraid to go back to my ex because we were on and off about 3 times.. but those problems are fixed now.. Is it too late?
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it is never too late and it's better to break up with your current boyfriend now then to be with him and be unfair to him and have those feelings for your ex. i went through the exact same thing and im still in love with him. It is never too late especially if he wants to also get back. If he's a good guy and you think you can really make it work out go for it. There must have been something special hence you guys went out for a little over a year. I would recommend breaking up with this guy your with it's better to be fair to him if you're still in love with your ex.
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well your stuck between two guys you obviously still care deeply for your first love and you said that the problems have worked out are you sure and its clear to me that you care for ex more than you care for your current b/f but do him and yourself a favor if you feel like you wont get past like with your current b/f than be fair and end it its not right to lead or be lead on and like you said about your ex you really dont see him but do you think that that can be changed and i know you care for him but if it doesnt work out and if all your orignal problems werent really solved do you really want to keep falling for the same mistakes if it doesnt work out this time maybe its time to say goodbye to ex once and for all you know because although you guys arent together he's running your life you know decide can it work out or just say goodbye you live and you learn its hard but nothings ever easiy i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if needed
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