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4 years of singleness
Okay, I have been single for four years & I have the hardest time with it. I'm starting to like someone & I really want this guy to like me as much as I am liking him. I guess I would just enjoy advice on what to do in this situation so I don't screw this up like I have for the past 4 years of heartbroken chaos.
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You should talk to him about it. First, relax. You're only 15 & are not even finished with high school yet. A lot of guys/girls your age are single. Do not try to go for a boyfriend yet, try to go for a friend. Talk to him whenever you can, joke around, be nice, ask him questions, etc. After he gets to know you for a bit, ask him on group dates. For example, get a bunch of your friends together [girls & guys] & invite him with you. Maybe out to eat, movies, mall, just hanging out, etc. That way it won't be awkward & weird. You can't expect him to like you right away. If you worry about screwing up, you'll most likely make yourself nervous & will. Take it slowly, there is no need to rush. Get to know him better & let him get to know you. The more you guys talk/hang out, the closer friends you'll be. You can't jump into a relationship with someone you aren't friends with first. Technically you can, but in most cases it won't go anywhere. Once you guys are closer friends & go on a few dates, then you can let him know how you feel. Don't tell him right away. Some guys do not like that sort of thing. Once you get to know him you'll be able to tell if it would be a good idea to let him know your feelings.
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