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whats wrong with me?
So ive had a few grlfriends over the years, and i feel like each one has taught me something diffrent about what i like and dont like about relationships.
But what i can't figure out is,
why do i always get broken up with?
Im a good boyfriend!! I remember dates, i bring them flowers, i call to see how theyre doing, i do my absolute best. i really do. but they always end up breaking up with ME! i dont know whats wrong with me!
Like my last one, broke up with me RIGHT after i told her happy one month and gave her a ring. right after to my face! am i ugly or something? i dont think so. i like to think im fairly good looking.
this is probably just me rambling and ranting but id like some advice as to what i should do diffrently :)
thanks
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i think alot of girls like the idea of having a boyfriend like you. when you ask a girl some might say they like those types of things but then when it comes down to it they realize they dont. i think that maybe it was a little too much, which i think is funny considering the sterotype that girls are the ones that liek to have those nice relationships. but anyways just tone it down a bit and see what happens. im sure you a good looking guy.
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Dude, I would kill to have a boyfriend like you.
but anyway, It sounds like your girls are extremely shallow. But It takes practice to find the right person. Just don't give up on it. You'll find the right one soon enough :]
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Well, here are a couple of things to think about:
1) Were you smothering? Were you killing them with kindness?
2) You're only 16 (which I can see because I have a special account). You are going to date girls and it won't work out for a while, likely. Relationships at that age are rarely great for the long-term because teenagers are, by necessity, busy and they're learning the things they need to know for life. They are self-centered because of the pressure to develop into successful human beings, so they tend to think of their goals. Most relationships at that age are more temporary. Or they are just for show.
You'll learn as you grow older the difference between being attentive and being annoying and you'll begin to understand whether a relationship broke up because of you or because of the girls you're attracted to. I hope the last girl, who broke up with you, gave you the ring back. That's very insensitive.
Sabine
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hmm..well i can tell you that its NOT you,
you sound like an amazing boyfriend
and i would kill to have a guy like that..
but those girls probably just have something wrong with them.
well i know this guy and he does all taht stuff you do too..but the girls tell him that hes too much "like a brother..not a boyfriend" ?!?!..idk what that is.cause hes really nice. but that could just be it. maybe they just view you as a friend.
dont get too worried about it..not all girls are like that.and eventually youll find the right one who likes you for you.dont change for them. they should like you the way you are. if they dont, thats obviously their loss.
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Girls are stupid. If they can't accept the things you do for them, then let them find a guy who treats them like shit. It sounds like they deserve it.
But for the record, I'd kill to have a boyfriend like you. You sound amazing.
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You sound like a brilliant, amazing guy.
I would love to have a boyfriend like you.
Girls these days always like the bad guys
I don't know why, but it's like "cool" to have a bad boyfriend.
Don't ever let yourself think it's you.
Because it deffinetly isn't.
If a girl doesn't appriciate you for how gentlemen like you are,
her loss.
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