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i'm not sure whether i'm straight, bi, or lesbian. I go to an all girls school and i have crushes on girls, but when i'm outside of school i'm generally attracted to guys. like once i know a girl for a while i form a crush, whereas if i meet a cool, hot guy i am immediately attracted.
it's hard to meet people because my school is so small.
any suggestions on where i should go, what i should do to meet people, whether it be guys or girls to figure out who i'm really interested in? i've done random stuff, but never been in a relationship, which is kinda pathetic, but i'm busy with school, soccer etc
please help!
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i think your bi or straight. its probably just cause you go to an all girls school so you look at girls constantly and think of them maybe as guys. or cause your around girls too much so your attracted to them
if you don't want to be bi or are scared tell your parents you might be coming bi and then see if they will move you to a public school
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try going to a place where you can see both girls and guys...since its the summer or getting close anyway..go to the mall,movies,park,swimming, with a group of guys and girls..see who you are more attracted to
i think that when you start to get crushes on girls..youve just known them for so long you feel like you can trust themm...?idk.
but just try being in an environment with both girls and guys.hope that helps!
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if your really confused try both girls and guys. Possibly because you are surrounded by girls all the time thats the reason. Maybe what you are experiencing with the girls are just a friendship kind of love and more than anything you want love so you look for it in your girl friends because they are always there for you. You could just be loving anyone who shows you love. As for activites you could do how about getting people together to go to the movies, the mall, etc just so you can talk. Get involved in some kind of after school club meeting new people. Take a friend with you and go to a concert, local skate park, the park, or activites going on in your community, its a great way to meet new people. Also some places offer clubs for lesbians etc if you truley feel that way try seeing if there is one in your area. GOOD LUCK.
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