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getting away from everyone else


Posted Monday May 28 2007, 10:53 am

to get this question you kind of need some backstory. . .

last friday we were at her house with a few friends. after we all watched a movie, my girlfriend and i went into another room and talked for a while, then started making out really passionately . . and i kinda would've preferred what happened next didn't: one of her best friends started trying to spy on us. . . . and she told my brother (the other person there *we're twins*) all the details

so essentially, they already knew what was going on but they came and screwed with us anyway.


anyway. now this friday night the same group of people are coming to my house. how can the two of us get away from everyone else for a little while. ....

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Tarot reading


Posted Monday May 28 2007, 10:40 am

[I am a highly spriritual person]
16/F
I had been in a relationship for two years. I really loved this guy. He was 18 and called Dan. For me though, the grass was always greener, and I kept leaving him for other people. It was awful. I always went back to him when I realised he was all I wanted, but then someone else came along.

We broke up about 2 months ago. For the last time we agreed. No more getting back together. It was long over due. I started seeing this guy, Matt. We went out a few times during mine and Dans break ups. We had previously been out a few times before me and Dan knew eachother.

Matt was going out with this girl, Liz, when me and Dan broke up. I told Matt that I liked him. I...

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Posted Monday May 28 2007, 12:25 am

13/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. He has been asking me if i could go places with him over the weekends. But the big thing is i CANT! i am not allowed to go anywhere with any guy until im 16! Its a religous standard. But i dont know how to break to him. I am afraid he might break up with me. I dont know what to do! He keeps suggesting going to the movies, hanging at his house, watching a movie at his house, or going to a relay for life walk. i feel like crap for canceling. Also i dont even want to go, im to scared it would be completly akward and stupid. But also im not aloud to. Im scared and lost. haha

thank you for all the advice.
it really helps thank you :D

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this one guy..


Posted Monday May 28 2007, 12:11 am

ok so i like this one guy
and when i talk to him online and on the phone and stuff
hes always so cute and stuff
hes like i wanna cuddle with you
or give kisses
or like whenever i talk to you i cant stop smiling
and he gets speechless when he talks to me
and then he says i love you
but idk if he just saying that to lead me on?
or just a flirty kind of way?
or a liking kind of way?
because before we got like this he said he likes this other girl
and i asked him about her hte other day and hes like yeah i still like her but she likes someone else
so im like oh?
and then one day i asked him what he was doing and hes like nothing on my trampoline wi...

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Jeanette


Posted Monday May 28 2007, 12:07 am

Jeanette is this girl i rly like and she likes me too because she has told me, but we havnt gotten around to goin newhere or nething... so how should i ask her to go to like the movies or somthin? I asked her b4 and she couldnt go...

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tell some1 u kuv them


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 11:12 pm

13/f
how do you tell someone you love them and cant stop thinking about them in like a cute way but without using the specific words "listen i love you and i cant stop thinking about you." and like poetry form would be good too because he loves my poetry.
please helppppp !!!!



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what are guys looking for in girls?


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 10:21 pm

basically my subject. what is most appealing in a girl to a guy? and why do guys like really slutty girls?

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About this guy...


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 10:21 pm

I have this problem, me and this guy used to date it has been about 3 years since we have broken up and I just cant get over him. I mean I have tried to move on with other guys but all I can think about is him. How do I get him out of my head 24/7? I dont me thinking about him ruin a potential realationship but if I keep thinking about him non-stop, it will ruin the relationship. Does anyone have anyway of getting over a guy? I really dont understand it I have been in other realationships and got over them I just cant get over this one.

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Waiting


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 10:05 pm

15/f

Is it worth it to wait till I'm done high school to start dating again?

I got this idea from my friend, since most guys in high school ( in mine/hers anyway ) are absolute idiots, whether it be logically, academically, or just in general.

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rasist boyz


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 9:33 pm

okk im 31 now and i know it sounds like im a lil hoe but i havent had a b/f and i want one really bdly...i mean all my other friends have one and they try to get me hooked up wit other guys..i think the problem is a go to a skool tht is basically only whites and i have black in me and they know it and the boyz are rasist (sp?) i jus moved to this skool and want to know how can i get a b/f without him bein rasist toward me..i have had other guys hit on me b4 i mean like smack my butt even 19 yr olds ask me out to a CLUB!!! im not lik tht but i do want a b/f tht i can hug and him not be embarrased about my skin color i just wanna be normal

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im confused


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 9:14 pm

ive been going out with this guy for 2 months and its been okay but hes in a different grade and i hardly get to talk to him. my mom took my phone away before i went out with him and i still havnt gotten it back but he has a cell phone. the problem is my parents wont let me talk on the house phone so i have to call him when my parents arent around which is hardly ever! the problem is that every time i get to call him(which is hardly ever)he ethier has his phone off or he wants me to call him back. the longest phone conversation was maby 16 min and then he said to call him tomoro.every conversation we have ends with him saying can you call me later and its so annoying.i called him today and he asked could he call me later and i told him he c...

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He's going away!


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 7:46 pm

19/F

I'm currently in a relationship with a great guy, and it's been about 8 months now. We're living together.

I have to go away to work for the summer, and so does he; he's in the army reserves. We'll be apart for 3 months, which I was okay with.

This morning, though, he dropped a bombshell on me. Apparently he was asked if he wants to go to Afghanistan to work as a duty officer (it's an on-base job, pretty much staff rotation). We talked it over, and we agreed that it might be a good idea for us. The money will allow us to start our lives together, and it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

I just can't get over my sadness at him being gone. He'll be gone for about a year a...

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Boyfriends House.


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 5:20 pm

I'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow. BTW I'm 14/f. We've only been dating for 2-3 weeks.. but we've been on and off for about 3 years. I've never been there before by myself... can you give me some tips incase things get awkward?? About 3 months ago I had this other guy at my house and it was totally weird so I want this to be different. What are some things I could do if it gets weird?

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hickes


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 4:30 pm

my boyfriend wants me to give him a hickie .
how do i give him one?
do you just suck on his neck with your lips
or is it just like making out ?

helpppp <3

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been single for WAY too long


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 3:54 pm

13/f
Ok first, anyone who wants to answer this and tell me I'm 13 and too young to be worrying about this kind of thing, please just don't answer.
I've been single since the beginning of October and I am so sick of it. I always get upset cause I miss having a guy to kiss and hold.
Another problem is I happen to REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy who is two years older than me and who I don't get to see very often and who I'm pretty sure doesn't like me.
What do I do to
A)get over this guy
and
B)find a relationship and stop being single
thanks!

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More than friends


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 3:32 pm

Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time plus i dont know if he likes me and i like him alot..? Plzzz help

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my boyfriend


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 1:51 pm

Ok so i'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend and i have been going out about 2 weeks, he is really sweet and nice and i always feel completely comfortable around him but when it comes to holding his hand and stuff i kinda get nervous and freak out and start rambling on about random stuff. How do i kiss him and hold his hand but not be like freaking out? How can i still stay flirtatious and cute?

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I just can't be 'nice'


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 1:10 pm

I've been having a lot of problems lately.
Like my mo mthinking I'm a depressed pyscho and making appointments for a shrink.

And during this whole process, my boyfriend Derek has been there.
He's amazing, so supportive and funny, and let's me just be with him.

But lately becuase of all this presure I've been really bitchy to everyone including him, and I just can't seem to shake my bad mood.
I love him,but i just can't show him.

How on earth can I shake my mood, and show him I care so much?

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Ex-boyfriend dreammmm


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 12:34 pm

My boyfriend of 8 months dumped me on monday. We're 16 and we're eachothers first's. In our relationship, we really never went far but we had an emotional attachment, or atleast I did.

I had this dream last night:

I had a dream that I sorta invited my self over to theo's Memorial-day party. His grandma opened the door and she invited me in. (in real life, theo lives with his grandma, grandpa and aunt &&& none of them know that we've broken up). So theo(my ex) was upstairs apparently with a broken leg or something, he had no idea i was at his house.
Then i found Hope (Theo's aunt) and She gave me a big hug and she's like "hey sarah! How have you been? i haven't seen you in so long!! :)&q...

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friend's friend


Posted Sunday May 27 2007, 12:06 pm

k i posted this last night but i checked today and it still hadn't been put up so here

hey
15/m
k so i spent literally about....10 hours with my twin brother, his girlfriend, and her best friend yesterday at six flags/brothers gf's house and before yesterday i had began to think about trying to ask this girl out *i always get REALLLY nervous about talking to girls/asking girls out* and so i had intended on trying to make a move yesterday, and by the end of the day i still hadnt done anything...so i sat next to her in the car on the ride to my brother's gf's house for dinner and a movie, and it was about a 20 minute ride...and i STILL never made a move on her...
so we had some imo's pizza and then went dow...

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