k i posted this last night but i checked today and it still hadn't been put up so here
hey
15/m
k so i spent literally about....10 hours with my twin brother, his girlfriend, and her best friend yesterday at six flags/brothers gf's house and before yesterday i had began to think about trying to ask this girl out *i always get REALLLY nervous about talking to girls/asking girls out* and so i had intended on trying to make a move yesterday, and by the end of the day i still hadnt done anything...so i sat next to her in the car on the ride to my brother's gf's house for dinner and a movie, and it was about a 20 minute ride...and i STILL never made a move on her...
so we had some imo's pizza and then went downstairs to the basement to watch legally blonde, so i sat next to her on the couch, and still after about 30 minutes i hadn't made a move...
then i got up to go get another soda since i was done with my pizza, and when i get back my brother and his gf had taken over the couch, where me and the friend had been sitting...so i never got to make a move AFTER 10 HOURS!!! am i totally retarded for this? i mean, the girl seemed to like me, but i'm not really sure...i sat next to her on like...every ride...and we talked a lot all day, and all that stuff, but i don't know...should i have made a move, or should i just ask her to go see a movie and do it then, or what? was i stupid for not trying anything all day?
thanks guys
McC
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? thecatspyjamas answered Monday January 31 2011, 4:33 pm: Right, this is happening to me at the moment - and kinda in reverse I think with a guy I like!
Being quite nervous about asking people out also I would suggest biting the bullet and going for it the next time your with her, don't delay because you only get more apprehensive, am I right? From a girl's point of view I know that we prefer it if the guy makes the move - as old fashioned as it sounds! For her to spend a whole day with you sounds as though she reciprocates your feelings so i'd say you've got a good chance! :)
I feel a bit hypocritical writing this, seeing as I haven't got the guts to make a move myself so I wish you luck, I hope it all works out for you!
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