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boys are weird and this is long
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 4:08 pm
so i know this kid and we'll call him tom. tom flirts with me a lot. he desont try to make it subtle or anything, either. he gets in my face and tells me that we're going to date one day, and he's going to kiss me, and hugs me every chance he gets. im not a flirty person, and as much as i actually like tom's advances, it;s hard for me to flirt back, especially when people are watching. i mostly end up laughing it off and backing away. last weekend though we were at a party and i told him to stop. i was laughing when i said it, and it's not like its the first time ive ever said it, either. i was jsut nervous because he was telling everyone how i liked him and wouldnt admit it and everyone was looking at me. so after i told him to stop, he ba...
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How can I trust him??
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 2:27 pm
im 15/f. my boyfriend and i have been going out for two years, but several months ago he cheated on me. he admitted it, and apologized, and told me it was the worst mistake he ever made, so i gave him another chance. since then things have been pretty good, but im having a hard time getting past that. he flirts with girls all the time (even the one he cheated on me with), and even though he swears that he loves me more than anything, i cant help feeling jealous and suspicious. i few times ive talked to him about how his flirting hurts me... but i hate doing that because i dont want to drive him away by being an overpossessive gf. plus it makes me feel guilty for not trusting him, because he tells me that im the most important thing in his l...
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should i wait for him?
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 2:09 pm
im 14/f.
sorry this is going to be long..
okay well theres this guy and i really like him but its been really confusing lately. he is 16 years old and the sweetest guy ive ever met. i met him through one of my friends who used to date him.. she doesnt know that we talk as more than friends because im scared to tell her.. my friend and the guy i like have had a really complicated relationship because she hasnt really been to faithful.. they broke up but he told me that he still has feelings for her.. the thing is that she has a new boyfriend now who she really likes.. but her ex(the one i like) says he still likes her a lot.. he told me that he also likes me a lot and wants to be with me but doesnt think that it would be fair ...
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playing hard to get?
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 2:03 pm
Ok this is the same person that asked that freakishly long question about this guy named drew. This might be kind of long too, but not as. Please help hahah!
But anyway, I finally told him how I felt, not that I was crying about him all night, since I didn't want to freak him out, but I did tell him I really liked him and all. I wasn't sure if I was bothering him, so I apologized for the randomness and if I was bothering him.
And he said hahah it's ok, don't worry about it. i'm just not interested in a relationship right now, but I do like being friends, so friends?
So I said that was fine, that I liked being friends too. I never saw him in school after that, since we [the seniors] were only in s...
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last night
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 12:31 pm
so last night my sister [17] had a bunch of her friends over. i'm 15 [turning 16 in september] and one of her guy friends [17] likes me. i just met him last night, and he apparently really likes me. but he was sweet about it and didn't say i was hot, but said i was very attractive. and we sat next to each other and he was very casually putting his arm around me and kept moving closer.
i could tell that he definitely wanted to make out with me, but i just felt weird about it since i just met him. i mean he's really nice, and i kinda want to make out with him, but i just felt weird at the moment about it.
he's coming back over tonight, and i can't decide what i should do. should i make out with him tonight? i m...
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Should I ask him to hang out?
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 12:17 pm
I am 15/f.
There is this guy who I almost went out with... we hung out almost every weekend for months...then he went out with someone else and I got over him. We stayed friends. He just turned 18.
Yesterday I saw him at his graduation, and he asked me to hang out. It was already around 10, and he was going to be hanging out with a few other guys, and that he would take me home. I said, "I don't know..." because I felt it would be awkward with just me and his guy friends. (Not that we would do anything bad, at all.) He said, "It's ok if you don't want to."
So I didn't, and I kind of wish I did.
But anyways, i am going to have a boring weekend.
So should I ask him to hang out?
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Guys
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 11:57 am
Hi, I am 15/f. This will be long--sorry.
I have never had a boyfriend, first kiss, etc. The thing is, I always thought I would, by now.
Many people have told me I can get any guy I want, that I'm pretty, I should be a model, etc. But when I look in the mirror, I don't see a pretty person. I see a person who has to wear makeup to look pretty.
I'm tall (5'7") and I think I'm smart too (2nd in my class of 400).
A few guys have liked me and I have almost went out with one, but then he went out with someone else.
Some of the guys I push away (not intentionally, but I'm not sure) by being mean to them if I don't like them. And unless a guy I like is outgoing and talks to me first, I usually ignore him and p...
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admitting i like him
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 11:47 am
how do i go about admitting to a boy that i actually like him when i've turned him down about fifty times? he's a tenacious kid and he hasn't given up and i think that's why i like him. but i just CAN'T imagine actually admitting to him OR my friends that i'm actually interested in him. help. :(
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falling in love
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 11:42 am
unfortunatly, ive fallen in love again. im 13/f and can thelp the way i feel. the guys name is matt. hes a grade above me, and school is going to end soon, so how do i get him to notice me? the second i saw him i felt some kind of connection. hes really nice and sweet, but im not suure what to do? all help is appreciated, and if you have any questions ill clear them up
thanks<333
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I seriously need help, is this boy playing me?
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 9:59 am
Okay this is the deal I've been dating this guy for a month and a half now.. we've been really close. BTW I'm 14. I've been to his house he's been here.. I've met his family so and so. Last year we went out for 4 months but ended up breaking up beacause my friends were jerks. BUT ANWAYY....last night he called me like he usually does and asked me if we could take a break. I asked him why and he said because he has so much shit at the end of the year to do. He said because he has baseball, regions , tests, and doesnt want to deal with a girlfriend untill summer. Summer is 2 weeeks away and I like him a lot so I figured I would give him his space. But theres this girl down the road from him and once or twice while we were dating he would go ...
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man drama
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 9:34 am
hey ok well my boyfriend is soo protective and well i someitmes like talk to my ex bf on the computer but the thing is im good friends with him and soo funny and i lost my verginity to him so its like i cant not talk to him. my bf told he he doesnt want me talking to him online or in public bc he thinks hes gonna take me from him. how can i settle this where eveyrones happy bc i love talkin to my ex as a friend but my bf doesnt and im not gonna let someone tell me what to do but idk if im making the wrong choice.
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Boyfriend Trouble
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 9:33 am
Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
Thank you!!
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so theres this giy
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 8:34 am
ohkay so theres this guy and he likes me. all my friends are telling me to give him a chance, and they are all friends with this guy so there on his side, they arent taking in to consideration that i like somoeone else. they really dont care. so i ended up giving this guy a chance and to find out he kind of annoys me. hes trying to be soemthing hes not. or trying to act liek the guy i like. i dont know but i dont like him. so what do i do. hes gained the confidence (from my friends) to ask me to places such as the movies and dances. idk i dont liek him what do i do????
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toronto nightclub
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 2:46 am
does anyone who live in toronto near york street or that area know any night club like where you can dance or anything that you can go even if your underaged (17) just that they won't sell any alcohol to you??????? thnkx
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i dont know About her
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 1:38 am
ok so me and my girlfriend broke up because all we did was hug but we only went out for two days
so monday im going to show her how far i will go with her by doing something... but i dont know if we should go out because were realy good freinds but i think she takes things to fast so if we went out eventualy she would get bored of me and break up to go out with someone else right someone please help
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my 2 bffs dating and really in love
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 1:36 am
i understand love but my 2 bffs are in love and dating. but their my 2 best frinds and their dating(girl and guy). im 13/f. i dont want then to break up and fall apart and me be in the middle which i think theyll never hate eachother. but their soooo lovey i guess. and they have alone time but around me or on aim or the phone their so 'oh i love you sooooo much and ooooo stop that there tickeling eachother and kissing and they always lick and suck on eachothers ears wats up with that. anything anywhere like ill say when we go out as friends can u stop kissing long enough to get in the car gawd. i dont want them to end up hating eachother. and i dono what to do to keep them together or as friends. and i dono what to do when their so gushy. what do i do? im lost?
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boys answer this plz!!!
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 1:05 am
Im 13/f
what do boys do when they like a girl?
how are you supposed to know?
if they come behind you and tickle you sides is that a sign or just something you guys do?
last one .. how do you know when you touch a guys spot i mean every 1 has one but how do you know when you touched it and how do you know what your spot is? ....plz help
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so theres this boy and ....
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 12:35 am
okay so theres this boy and i really do like him and i have for a while but he doesn't like me and i know that for a fact. i cant get over him he's everything i ever hoped for. what should i do. by the way im 13 years old and im a girl
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I'm the other girl and I dont know how to handle this.
Posted Saturday June 2 2007, 12:33 am
Okay so...
I have this really good friend that I've known all year and he is truly my best friend. Aaand, he's been going out with this other girl for about nine months now. And for about the last 5 months or so we've kind of...done some stuff. I really don't want to get too specific but we are definitely not 'just friends' anymore. Lets just say...I've finally seen my first penis >_< but we haven't had sex at all. I really, REALLY like this guy and he knows it, but I know he's completely in love with his girlfriend he has now. I don't even fully know how he feels about our thing, but I know that the only reason I let myself start doing this was because I figured it was the only chance I'd ever get to be with him. :( I'...
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flrity too much
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 11:26 pm
so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
14/f
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