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should i wait for him?
im 14/f.
sorry this is going to be long..
okay well theres this guy and i really like him but its been really confusing lately. he is 16 years old and the sweetest guy ive ever met. i met him through one of my friends who used to date him.. she doesnt know that we talk as more than friends because im scared to tell her.. my friend and the guy i like have had a really complicated relationship because she hasnt really been to faithful.. they broke up but he told me that he still has feelings for her.. the thing is that she has a new boyfriend now who she really likes.. but her ex(the one i like) says he still likes her a lot.. he told me that he also likes me a lot and wants to be with me but doesnt think that it would be fair to me if we were together and he still had feelings for her..
oh yea..
because he is older than me.. my parents dont really approve of us being together.. everything is so confusing.. i really like him but i dont know if i can wait for him to decide who he wants.. :/
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well one. thats not being a very good friend :/ why would you date your best friends ex? i dont know about you and your best friend, but me or my best friend, would flipp out. sooo, one point to not go out with him.
your parents dont approvve that will tottally complicate things. and make it hard for him and you. i agree with your parents though, i mean, even though you dont think thats a big age gap, hes alot more experienced.
then i dont think you should go out with him also, because hes not only liking you. you wanna be the only one. your only 14 theres plenty of guys you can go out with, and might i add, that are your age.
he may be sweet and you really like him, well a few months from now, or probably even sooner, youll meet someone who is sweeet, and you learn to really like.
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What kind of friend are you if you date your best friend's ex? You're still growing up, trust me you'll find someone better.
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It's a waste of time and you shouldn't wait:
A)Your friend has history with this guy. And with any girl you're going to have drama because of this. It's wrong, no matter if your friend says she doesn't like him anymore because as soon as you guys start going out, SHE WILL GET MAD!!(No matter how much she says she doesn't care).
B)If this guy is saying that he still has feelings for your friend, then he's not worth the wait.It's either he's into you, or he's not. Sweetie, you are so above all of this. Your worth more than the drama you're about to endure. Find someone who's ready to be with you, and doesn't come with all this baggage.
Hope I helped, Potential....~<3
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