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Member Since: June 2, 2007
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wrong category, sorry :(

in the morning my hair is fine, but by the end of the day the ends get all frayed out and my hair gets all knotty and tangled and stringy. is there anything i can do to help this? i have hair thats of medium thickness, if that helps. (link)
Maybe you should get a haircut....srry this isn't so good but it might help....


Ok this is the same person that asked that freakishly long question about this guy named drew. This might be kind of long too, but not as. Please help hahah!

But anyway, I finally told him how I felt, not that I was crying about him all night, since I didn't want to freak him out, but I did tell him I really liked him and all. I wasn't sure if I was bothering him, so I apologized for the randomness and if I was bothering him.

And he said hahah it's ok, don't worry about it. i'm just not interested in a relationship right now, but I do like being friends, so friends?

So I said that was fine, that I liked being friends too. I never saw him in school after that, since we [the seniors] were only in school for the 1st 20 minutes, before going to the auditorium for graduation practice [got to leave at 9:30 each day!].

But I saw him on Thursday, because after I graduated, I went up to the school to talk to some of my friends, since a lot of them are in band and chorus, who were part of the graduation ceremony. I went up w/ my best friend Sam and waited while he gave his robe back to the chorus teacher.

And who happens to show up, but Drew. I was a little embarrassed and all, so I looked away and pretended I was very interested in the opposite wall. Well, he actually came up to me and gave me a hug and said an excited hi. And then he jokingly made fun of me, because he's a senior and I'm a freshman now. So we laughed and then he went to turn his robe in.

Then Sam came out and Drew followed. Sam, being a little crazy, pushed me into Drew. So we were both like, whoa there hahah. But then he picked me up and gave me a spinning hug. [:D] And then me, Sam, and Drew talked for a little bit, and I had to leave to get my actual diploma in the cafeteria, so as me and Sam were leaving, Drew was saying goodbye, congratulations, and then he said he'd text me. Which I thought was great, because the last time we texted, way back in November, we texted for 3 days straight and almost went out, so I was pretty excited.

I didn't think he'd actually text me or anything, so when I got home, I put my purse, with my cell in it, on the kitchen table and went on the computer for a bit before going to bed. And it turned out, he actually did text me, saying hey. And I didn't realize until an hour later, 12 midnight. I didn't want to text back, in case he wasn't awake, so I went to bed.

So yesterday, we went to the local amusement park in Pittsburgh for the school picnic. I was walking around with Sam and he saw Drew. So he dragged me over there and we talked for a bit, and he hugged me again with another excited hi hahah. But his group was leaving, so that's all that happened and I didn't see him anymore that day. So when we were going home, Sam started texting him [Sam's a guy, in case I didn't clarify]. I'm not gonna write the whole convo, but first, Drew told him to tell me he said hi. And then he told Sam that he didn't know what to say to me, that he should've rode something with me. So Sam was like, yes, you should have, and Drew texted back that he was sorry. And I told Sam to text him back saying I said it was ok and maybe next time. So he texted back, yeah that'd be cool. But he had to go to bed, cause he had SATS this morning, so they stopped texting.

And that's about it, to this point.

Just one more side-note. I texted him a few times during the day yesterday at the park, but he ignored 2/3 of them. Although he ignored Sam for a while when he first texted him, but finally texted him back 1 1/2 hours later.

So what does this whole thing mean? Is he trying to show that he does like me-like me even though he's not ready for a relationship yet? Or is he just being extra friendly? I don't know, and Sam told me he found out from someone that Drew likes it when a girl plays hard to get. And if that's true, how do I go about doing that? Especially when I've already fallen this hard for him? And then, what if I do play hard to get, and he forgets about me? Ahh help!

Sorry for the length!!

Erin (link)
I didn't really care about the lengh (although in the middle i'm like wuts ur point!!) I don't think you should change at all because it would be pretty weird if you suddenly change after someone said that...Maybe you should just be yourself and tell him you like him in person not text.


im 14/f.
sorry this is going to be long..
okay well theres this guy and i really like him but its been really confusing lately. he is 16 years old and the sweetest guy ive ever met. i met him through one of my friends who used to date him.. she doesnt know that we talk as more than friends because im scared to tell her.. my friend and the guy i like have had a really complicated relationship because she hasnt really been to faithful.. they broke up but he told me that he still has feelings for her.. the thing is that she has a new boyfriend now who she really likes.. but her ex(the one i like) says he still likes her a lot.. he told me that he also likes me a lot and wants to be with me but doesnt think that it would be fair to me if we were together and he still had feelings for her..
oh yea..
because he is older than me.. my parents dont really approve of us being together.. everything is so confusing.. i really like him but i dont know if i can wait for him to decide who he wants.. :/ (link)
What kind of friend are you if you date your best friend's ex? You're still growing up, trust me you'll find someone better.


im 15/f. my boyfriend and i have been going out for two years, but several months ago he cheated on me. he admitted it, and apologized, and told me it was the worst mistake he ever made, so i gave him another chance. since then things have been pretty good, but im having a hard time getting past that. he flirts with girls all the time (even the one he cheated on me with), and even though he swears that he loves me more than anything, i cant help feeling jealous and suspicious. i few times ive talked to him about how his flirting hurts me... but i hate doing that because i dont want to drive him away by being an overpossessive gf. plus it makes me feel guilty for not trusting him, because he tells me that im the most important thing in his life and that he cant live without me. so why cant i just believe him? sometimes i just get mad and act mean to him without telling him why im mad, which i know is stupid because thats just gonna push him away too. but i hate seeming like im nagging at him or dont trust him. i love him so much, and i really wish i could trust him... but for some reason i cant. how can i get over this?
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I don't think he's the right guy for you....You say you love him but maybe if you brake up with him and find someone new, you might feel a little better...


my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my cousin traci always bosses me around and she's 15 years old and if i don't do what she says she says she won't speak to me again what should i do? (link)
Okay, well you guys are related so you're gonna have to talk to her anyways. and you should just say "well i already did listen to you so you should listen to me for once or else i'm never speaking to you again"


My boyfriend likes another girl form Depew nad asked for her number behind my back. I reall like this girl nad i dont know what i should do.. (link)
I think you should brake up with him and find someone better.


i'm 13/f.
i never babysat before but i really want to.
my brothers on a soccer team and some of the kids have little brothers and sister, but like i'm kindof shy and i dont know what to say to the parents.

how do i get sarted with everything.
like i need all the information & everything about babysitting. (link)
Maybe you should ask your parents to ask their parents.




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