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Posted Friday June 8 2007, 11:36 am

I posted a question on here a couple days ago saying that I had this friend who I liked but we live extremely far away from eachother and I didn't think it would work out.. Well anyways I went to a boarding school this year and I met him there, we became instantly friends. I had an eatting disorder this past year and he stuck with me the entire time. We still kept in touch after I left school, and he wanted me to come visit. Well yesturday he was going to fly home he lives in Washington and I live in NY. So I left him a message on AIM, thinking he would get it when he got to Washington. Well his away message comes up, and it says "I love you Alyssa and I can't wait to see you" (by the way my name isn't Alyssa). So I guess he's had...

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i`m worried/scared.. idk whats goin` on


Posted Friday June 8 2007, 6:17 am

14/f

i was textin` my boyfriend.. and then he had a problem w/ my top at first.. since he was number three.. but he had to understand that no guy can go before my bestestest friend.. and that i couldnt make her number 3 either.. and he didnt care about that, i think.. O.o and then it turns out that he didnt like the person on my top 1.. and stuff like that.. but he doesnt know her well enough to say things about her and all. and then later on he told me that he was going to miami next month for a week, and he said "it wouldnt be any difference.. we never get to see eachother anyways, we can js text." and i was lik` "i see you every week" and he said "haha yeahh.. wait lemme correct that, once a week.&...

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FOR THE GUYSS


Posted Friday June 8 2007, 1:44 am

do you like it when girls have their hair a mess and are just wearing sweatpants instead of jeans?
and if a girls pretty, but doesnt talk much in the beginning is that a turn off or do u want to know more about her?
what would classify someone as a good kisseri n ur mind

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Too Soon?


Posted Friday June 8 2007, 12:21 am

Kay I met this guy today. He's a year older than me. Well today after school we all decided to go to the elementry school thats next to our school. It was me, 3 of my friends, and him. I have seen him around school before, and he and defenatly seen me. Today, he kept sitting next to me when we were hanging out and he kept smiling. I really like him too, but since I JUST met him, would it be concidered "slutty" if I ask if he likes me after one day??

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should i beleive it?


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 11:29 pm

how do i know if my bf is cheating on me???its driving me crazy!!!im not in the same grade with him so its not like i can watch him.i only have one really good friend thats in the same grade as him and she tells me that he flirts with alot of girls but shes not really specific about it.i was talking to a friend and she told me she talked to his half sister and she told her that my bf was cheating on me with this girl he was going to go to the movies with this saturday. when i went to go talk to his half sister she told me she didnt think they were going out and not to worry about it!so now i dont know what to believe!i asked one of the girls that my friend said was one of the people he flirted with(and they flirted back) and she says that t...

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Guy next door


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 11:02 pm

There's a new guy that moved in next door. He's in my grade and my age and all that. I want to get to know him but I'm too shy and don't know how to introduce myself. How can I introduce myself in a way I'm comfortable with?

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now i'm paying!


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 10:25 pm

My boyfriend (19) is amazing. He has a good job and also goes to school. He basically takes care of his mom, since his salary is good. All of a sudden, he became broke. He owed people money and car bills added up but he still never let me pay on dates. He finally let me pay and now, I found myself paying alot. He used to be the perfect gentlemen and had money at all times. What should I do? He's already really insecure about his money problems.

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like him, likes me, taken


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 10:13 pm

I like this boy, he is my neighbor, i go to his house and we hang out but just as friends, and we can talk hours on end on our cells. He recently asked me out and i said no. but he has a girlfriend and they aren't that close because i think he just got a girlfriend to get back at me. i think he likes me when he is taken because everytime i look at him he is already at me, he sits at the frint of the room in class and i sit all the way at the back and he turned around and asked me for a pencil when his best friend sits by him, and he always texts me calling me dork is he covering up his feelings. dont be afraid to tell me if i am going about this all wrong. i actually want to truth. thx bunches!! <><ALLI

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lesbian or no??


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:58 pm

well me and muh boiifrined jusr broke up and i rally liked him. lets just say i was really hooked. and i think he left me for another gurl but i aint sure. and this is like the third time i get muh heartbroken this bad. and im so thinkin bout becomin a lesbian. wut should i do??

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my boyfriend


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:26 pm

My boyfriends a good guy in just about any situation, but he becomes a complete jerk when his best friend is around. i want to talk to him, but everytime i see him these days his friend's there. i don't know what to do.

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between 2 boys..why is he so mean?


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 9:06 pm

13/f 8th grade.

sorry in advance for this being long.

in 6th grade i used to be best friends with this guy..lets call him "jeremy". jeremy is two years older than me..so when i was in 6th grade he was in 8th grade..we were best friends and we always used to talk..but then i liked him.i told my best friend to tell him i like him because i thought that we were such good friends that nothing would change. he was okay with it for awhile but then he kinda got annoyed at me and we stopped being friends. i was so upset! =( i never thought that we would be friends again.

when i got into 8th grade [[jeremy is in 10th grade now]] i met this really cute guy..lets call him "roger". ive li...

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I am confused.


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 8:59 pm

Okay, so theres this guy I like. He's a year older than me. Today we were hanging out in a group and he kept staring at me and every time he did, he smiled. My friend said he was about to ask me out, but im skeptical because she is jealous of me [haha not to sound stuck up]. Should I believe her, or just ask him myself??

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WOW.


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 8:42 pm

i'm in what you could call a love HEXAGON. there's 5 boys and i'm not sure what to do i'm 15 by the way.. guy #1-he's cute sweet blahblahblah he's 19- yeah i know about the age okay? he just turned it this month. but i've called him beofre & 3 times a girl has answered his phone.. & i've chewed him out for it before plenty of times before. i was talking to him the other night & i layed down the law of how screwed up that was & he made this deal that if it happened again he wouldn't blame me for not talking to him anymore. well lastnight we were on the phone & someone sent him a wierd text message from a number he didn't know so he 3 wayed them while i was on the phone. it ended up being a girl & the convo lasted long...

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my best friend likes the girl i like


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 8:33 pm

hey i am guy. i like this girl and so does my best friend. Ill give you the full story . me and my friend are good friends with her. hes slightly more with her and he really likes her... he wanted to make out with her but he didnt in a spin-the-bottle game....anyway, i made out with someone then. hes really protective of her, but hes shy around her. ill give u an example.. one of his other friends, a guy, was coming to stay at his house from a different town, hes like a real jock and had been talking to her on msn too. my friend told him not to make out with her. also recently hes been saying every girl i ever was close to was really hot and we should get back 2gether again. i think hes trying to put me off this girl? anyway we r both singl...

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i cant stop thinking about him


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 8:31 pm

ok so what do you do when you cant someone out of your head who shouldnt be there in the first place??

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most embarassing thing ever


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 7:56 pm


so i was at work, my friend came to visit, and i started talking about the boy i like. next thing i know, i go into the main part of the store and his mother is standing there. of course i was humiliated, but she seemed really nice and everything and my friend was positive she didn't here us talking about him. however, his mom was at my work again today when i arrived (she was picking something up) and my boss said she mentioned that she did here me talking about him. i pretty much assumed that, but my boss says the way she knew was because i mentioned he was a twin...now i am freaking out that she may have heard me say that the boy i like was cuter then his twin brother (and that his twin was sort of weird looking). i have no idea ...

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parents called it out


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 7:52 pm

so im 15 and my boyfriend JUST turned 18 and im about to turn 16 in october. i finnally told me parents he was 18 after two months but he turned 18 in may so yeah. well when i told me mom she was a little upset but when i told my dad he freaked out saying he can never come to the house agian or call me ever agian. We both are in love ive been crying ever since my dad told me that and so has he. we have summer school together which will be over in a month and he said he will wait for me to turn 16 to go back out. we are pretty much broke up but we are still talking. i plan on going behind my parents back and keep dating him but i can only do that for so long. well my question is, is there any way i might can get my parents to let me date him...

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what am i doing wrong?


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 7:50 pm

heres a convo of me (m/13) and a (f/13) what am i doing wrong im trying to get her to like me..

me says:
hey

she says:
heya

me says:
u gd?

her says:
yip im aighht yew?

says:
yep

her says:
... wt tim eis it, i justt woke up laugh out loud

me says:
laugh at loud

her says:
shit kik

her says:
*lol

her says:
guy was trying to go all night but i guess it failed

her says:
haahhaha

her says:
we wer talking to girl nd girl

her says:
hoo?

her says:
...

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most embarassing thing ever


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 7:49 pm

so i was at work, my friend came to visit, and i started talking about the boy i like. next thing i know, i go into the main part of the store and his mother is standing there. of course i was humiliated, but she seemed really nice and everything and my friend was positive she didn't here us talking about him. however, his mom was at my work again today when i arrived (she was picking something up) and my boss said she mentioned that she did here me talking about him. i pretty much assumed that, but my boss says the way she knew was because i mentioned he was a twin...now i am freaking out that she may have heard me say that the boy i like was cuter then his twin brother (and that his twin was sort of weird looking). i have no idea if she ...

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You said you'd help:


Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 7:29 pm

Okay, you said you'd help so here ya go. Oh And you don't have to type all proper, I will read anything. :)
1st guy- Tyler [14 years old] Prep, HATES emo people, cusses, is bad but really sweet to girls, hilarious, likes to fish etc., thinks he's all that, wears certain shoes and shorts, skater, MAJOR MAJOR PREP, reallreallyreally nice to girlfriends, likes the fast heavy metal music, is a drummer, use to be fat but now really toned up and muscular and skinny and hot, has had sex 5 times (so he says), kinda lies alot, told me he loved me (few months ago) but then got a girlfriend (who just broke up with him), talks/sees his girlfriends everyday when he's dating someone. Doesn't go to church alot, but is a christian. likes girls who ...

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