how do i know if my bf is cheating on me???its driving me crazy!!!im not in the same grade with him so its not like i can watch him.i only have one really good friend thats in the same grade as him and she tells me that he flirts with alot of girls but shes not really specific about it.i was talking to a friend and she told me she talked to his half sister and she told her that my bf was cheating on me with this girl he was going to go to the movies with this saturday. when i went to go talk to his half sister she told me she didnt think they were going out and not to worry about it!so now i dont know what to believe!i asked one of the girls that my friend said was one of the people he flirted with(and they flirted back) and she says that they never flirted with each other.finnaly i asked him and he said all of it was a lie.im mad because theres a good amount of people that are telling me hes a scum bag who plays all his girlfriends and hes probably cheating on me.on the other hand there are some people saying that hes not cheating on me and not to worry about it.i want to belive him but its so hard because i dont know if hes lying and trying to play me,or if he is really telling the truth!i hardly ever get to talk to him and now school is over!im going to try very hard to go to the movies this saturday. i dont know what to expect.should i brake up with him before i see something that will brake my heart.i know people say dont beleive in rumors but its not just one rumor and its not just one person telling me.i havnt seen him for myself so i dont want to go and brake up with him if he really wasnt cheating.someone please help!i dont know what to do and its driving me crazy.i really like him but i dont want to get my heart broken ethier!
Brandi_S answered Friday June 8 2007, 12:03 am: If it were me, I would wait to catch him at the movies. I would catch him red handed, and let him know that I did. THEN I would break up with him. Because I then would have PROOF.
Yah, I know you don't want to get your heart broken, but those people are right in saying you shouldn't believe in rumours.
If there is suspicion of cheating, then get proof somehow, and go from there.
If you do happen to catch him at it, I would kick him in the ass and ask for my shoe back as he's walking out the door. Meaning, I sure as hell wouldn't put up with that BS. You deserve better than that.
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