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i'm in what you could call a love HEXAGON. there's 5 boys and i'm not sure what to do i'm 15 by the way.. guy #1-he's cute sweet blahblahblah he's 19- yeah i know about the age okay? he just turned it this month. but i've called him beofre & 3 times a girl has answered his phone.. & i've chewed him out for it before plenty of times before. i was talking to him the other night & i layed down the law of how screwed up that was & he made this deal that if it happened again he wouldn't blame me for not talking to him anymore. well lastnight we were on the phone & someone sent him a wierd text message from a number he didn't know so he 3 wayed them while i was on the phone. it ended up being a girl & the convo lasted longer than it needed to so i hung up. HE DIDN'T EVEN BOTHER TO CALL ME BACK. so i sent him a text telling him i didn't want to talk to him again and that he was a jerk. he's been at work all day so i'm not sure if he's read yet or not.don't get me wrong, that is screwed up what he does, but he can be sweet.
guy #2- he's the PERFECT guy... in my dad's mind. he plays football, he's tall, goes for auburn, good head on his shoulders, & attractive. i just don't know if he's the perfect guy for me.. hes 16(just turned in may) & drove 20 minutes to see me for like 2 seconds before he got in trouble.. he really likes me and always calls & asks to hang out but i just don't know..
guy#3- he was my little 3 grade boyfran:) hes 15 he's too cute. we get in little fights and he just gets me. we're so alike and have so much fun together. the problem? he moved in 4th grade & we didn't talk until this year we happened to stumble across eachother. the bigger problem, he lives a good 30 min away so we both know we cant have anything.. but i know we would be perfect for eachother if we lived closer..
guy#4 he just turned 18 in may. hes not at the top of my list.. but something always drags me to him. we've been on and off for about 4 months now & i still smile when he calls or texts me. i just don't think he could be ready for a real relationship (hes sort of a manwhore). hes met my parents, first guy to in about 2 years & they liked him and stuff but i just don't know anymore..
lastly, guy#5- wow, he's been around since last summer. hes 16 & been my bestfriend since 6th (we were together in 6thgrade- cute right?) & we've both told eachother we love eachother blahblah but i got tired of waiting for him to ask me out. so i moved on to guy #4 in jan. now hes back & we're hanging out again, but i just don't think i have strong feelings for him anymore..
& let me just say i am NOT a whore. i do not "hookup" with all of these guys... & plus.. ladies is pimps too, right? but i think i'm just ready for one... but.. WHICH ONE?? HELP!
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Okay well, guy #1 is someone I would be someoen I would normally go for, but he seems like a jerk, especially about the three-way call. And I know you know about the age thing, but believe me, I couldn't make a 3 year age difference work, not saying you can't though, its just a lot harder. Guy #2 seems perfect, but very predictable, ya know ? But very sweet. Guy #3 seems more like the "best friend" type. Sorry, there's not much to say about guy #4. And guy #5, you told eachother you loved eachother and he still didn't ask you out, so I don't think he wants a relationship, maybe I'm wrong, not sure?
Guy 2 seems perfect, and I would go for him. But hope & helped, and good luck with choosing!
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Close your eyes for a second (or just focus lol) and think not on how practical really each guy is, on who you feel you "should" like based on the kinds of things we like to rate in guys ( well he's on the football team and gets good grades and he's funny). I think it's important to have standards and certainly it's important for the guy to be reliable and like you back, but it's about you, right? Which one do you like, and I mean honestly like. Which one send butterflies to your stomach? Which one hooks you every time you look at them?
If you don't feel that way about any of them, then they aren't worth considering them, no matter how nice they are. You don't really need to go out with a guy, and you certainly don't if he's hot funny and likes you when you don't like him back. You can't force it, just do what feels right. Oh and also remember that if you feel like someone is betraying your trust then you're to good to put up with that (see boy #1)
well good luck thinking your way through this =]
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Obviously, no one can really help you out on this one. People can tell you who they think is better, but you're the one that's going to date him, not us. To me, the guy who sounded more appealing & the better choice would be guy 2. Not because he's an attractive football player, but if he drove 20 minutes just to see you for 2 seconds, he truly likes you. Guys would not just do that. That's just my opinion though. What you do need to do is make a list & carefully analyze it. You aren't a whore for liking a few guys at a time. You just should make your decision so they don't get hurt. You should realize that you need a guy that will be your friend, be there for you physically or emotionally when you need it the most, is trustworthy, loyal, kind, sweet & funny. You have to be good friends with him. Going by just a few things, you can narrow your decision down. Sit & talk with all of them though.
-hope that helped!♥
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