i was textin` my boyfriend.. and then he had a problem w/ my top at first.. since he was number three.. but he had to understand that no guy can go before my bestestest friend.. and that i couldnt make her number 3 either.. and he didnt care about that, i think.. O.o and then it turns out that he didnt like the person on my top 1.. and stuff like that.. but he doesnt know her well enough to say things about her and all. and then later on he told me that he was going to miami next month for a week, and he said "it wouldnt be any difference.. we never get to see eachother anyways, we can js text." and i was lik` "i see you every week" and he said "haha yeahh.. wait lemme correct that, once a week." and he doesnt understand .. cause i have alot of things to do.. depends on the weather, my sister sometimes cant take me.. and my parents dont like me being w/ him and stuff.. and hes the only person i get to see every week since my friends live kinda far away from me. and then i said "is something bothering you?" and he said "no nothing at all" >.< and he says that hes thinking about the past.. and i told him that hes worrying me. and he said "whys that?" and i told him to reread that he said.. and yannoe what he said? "-_- whatever.." >.< idkk whats going on.. i wanna stop texting because im scared whats going to happen. he says he wouldnt leave me cause he loves me so much.. but idkk >.< im getting scared.. and worried. please help me!!!
dropkickCathyy answered Friday June 8 2007, 10:24 am: First of all, stop worrying yourself so much over it. If it's something big or anything like that, he'll tell you eventually. Thinking about it so much and worrying yourself about it is not going to make you feel any better. If he says nothing is wrong, just listen to him, even if you know it's not necessarily true. If he isn't telling you then he obviously doesn't want to. Don't keep asking him though. If you have to know though, don't talk about it over text, wait until he comes back and then talk to eachother about it. If he still won't tell you and you're worried, just ask him it's anything you should be worried about or if it has anything to do with the two of you. If he says no the only thing you can do is take his word for it. But before he gets back next time you text him just ask him if he wants you to just talk to him when he gets back seeing as how he said he's thinking about the past. Let him think. Give him the time to. In the meantime, just stop worrying yourself about it so much. And try not to think of what could be wrong because it's going to make you worry that much more. [ dropkickCathyy's advice column | Ask dropkickCathyy A Question ]
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