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for the love of relationships =(
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 6:03 pm
okay so i'm a girl to start this off
oh by the way this is a really long and confusing question
I have a crush on this guy we will call B and he is one of my best friends. Apparently i am a really easy person to figure out because everyone knows i like him. so yesterday i was talking to B's best friend who we will call J on myspace and we get on the topic of B. J keeps telling B that i like him and i want to go out with him which is true but i don't want to tell him that because it might ruin my friendship with B. So J says 'nicole stop denying it everyone knows already that you like him so just admit it'. so i told J that i don't like B like that and if i did it wouldn't matter because he doesn't like me like that anyways. I ...
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ug, boy problems?
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 5:39 pm
Sorry if this is long.
So last year I met this boy. And I thought he was hot. But we weren't friends. But then as the year went on me and him became friends but he always had a g/f well he liked me and I liked him and during the summer we would talk all the time. And he was going to ask me out but then got to scared. Well I stopped taking to him for about a month. Then on the first day back to school he was like really happy to see me and same for me to see him. And well he expected that i'd go out with him in a blink of an eye. But I said no. So then he ended up going out with one of my new friends which pissed me off. after they broke up he still tried and go out with me but I still really like one of my friends so I wont go out wi...
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my love life sucks
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 4:04 pm
i still love my ex. i am dating someone though. and today i finally talked to my ex since our break up. he got into a wreck adn got a dui and mip. he is in job corp and on probation and may be going to jail. while we were talking he told me that he thinks about me quite a bit, and i told him that i stll love him. i don't know how to tell my new bf cuz he loves me adn wants to get married soon. but i was engaged to my ex when i told him that i had feelings for another guy, we broke up and got back together, then after a lil while he broke up with me. i tried getting over it and got with another guy, who is great and everything i could possibly want. but really all i want deep inside is my ex, how do i let my bf know this and let my ex know t...
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how come he didnt want to talk about his exes?
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 3:30 pm
okay i like this guy and he likes me too we were talking on the phone and we were getting to know eachother more and th conversation was going good but when i asked him how many exes he had and suddenly it took forever for him to answer that question he keep saying i forgot but he finally told me he had 7 and i jokingly called him a player and i think he said"im not" in a serious way and i was asking about his exes and he didnt want to talk about it how come he didnt want talk about it?
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How do you makeout?
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 2:30 pm
Seriously,I really dont know how.I mean people tell me it will come naturally but I need some explaining,anything will help.
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not friends anymore
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 1:56 pm
my boyfriend and i have been together a year and this past month has been really bad, we have stopped really talking and such(and yes we are intimate)but last night was homecoming and we just stood there it fely really weird, i was wondering if yall have any ideas on how we can rebuild our friendship.(breaking up is not an option) thanks :]
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makingout.
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 1:21 pm
Can you name some good places to makeout at?
I already took my boyfriend in a elevator and we went to a park and yes it was fun! I was just wondering if you know any good places. So sorry if this is weird...THANKS!
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Is she playing hard to get?
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 1:04 pm
So this is how the conversation over facebook went...
me:We were having such a good conversation in the courtyard, i was hoping we could continue it with an exchange of numbers.
her:ohh really?..wellllll maybe you'll be brave enough to ask me for it next time.
me:haha ouchh, i was brave enough to walk up and talk to a good looking stranger, that deserves at least the first 3 digits...
her:hahah.. oooh a compliment and everythingg im gunna have to think about that
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cheating?
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 12:51 pm
How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you? See, my boyfriend has this MyYearBook thing, and I don't think he knows that I know about it, but I don't know. He's friends with all these girls..and he told me on his myspace all his girl friends are from school. Well, on his myyearbook he has girls from other states and there in bra's & panties, and it's so gross. I'm so scared he's cheating, but I know he'd never do that to me. But I don't like that website...and that he's friends with those girls..like the half naked girls you know. So what do you think I should do? Confront him about it?
sorry this was long, I don't know who else to ask.
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DEPRESSED
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 11:25 am
ok so look i really like this guy and i thought he liked me to but the other day i found out he got married and now i dont know what ot do i am so depressed i really want to forget about him for good what should i do.GELP ME!!!!!!
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i dont know why im holding back =/
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:46 am
13/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month now, and we still havn't kissed. We've made out before we were going out at a party, but since we've been dating we havn't.
It's really weird because we spend a lot of time together and we're comfortable around each other but I just can't bring myself to make that move and kiss him, and he hasn't tried to kiss me either.
When I met him around six months ago I thought he was the most amazing person I had ever met, and would ever meet, but he was in love with someone else, and it made me so depressed. However, I figured I could be friends with him, but now, I'm worried I became too close friends with him, maybe too comfortable around him.
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Black and White Ball.
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:38 am
he doesn't notice me. i'm his best friend, yet, im not there when it comes to relationships. i like him. "he" is spencer. i've known him probably forever. hes so easy to talk to, and yet, when i like him, which i have off and on, i trip up things. i say things i soon regret, and i act weird.. so he knows. but then the attraction goes away.. disappears. after that, its like he loves me-- but not in that same way. he loves my company, me being there. but not in a relationship. this has been going on for as long as i can remember.
sometimes we hang out. we walk home the same way almost everyday, so we talk a lot.
sometimes i hang out and watch TV with him.
sometimes i talk to his mom.
we act like ...
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I still love my ex :S
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:05 am
Well im 17 and female, I split up with my ex 6 months ago, tried dating other guys but I dont have the feelings for them like a do for my ex!
Everytime I see him my feelings become stronger. I tried tellin him how i felt but he wasnt interested! We still see each other and speak as friends! Recently he has started taking driving lessons and he told me I would be the first person he would take out in his car, does he means as friends? or is he flirting??
I get the feeling his is regreting us spliting up, should I tell him again how I feel? Or just leave things as they are?
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I still love him
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 5:46 am
I'm 17 and female. I know this probably sounds really stupid, but I was dating this guy for 2 years and then about 9 months ago we broke up. I started dating loads of other guys and everything was ok, but then last night I saw him with his new girlfriend and it destroyed me. I still really love him and I dont know what to do. Do i tell him? Or do I just tell him I'm happy for him. I should have forgotten him by now... Thanks.
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boyfriend is coming home
Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 12:43 am
my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much!
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My friends are really mean :(
Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 11:04 pm
15/f. About a week ago, my friend [A] told me that she was going to set me up with the guy that I like. I knew this wasn't a good idea, because we're not the BEST of friends. I was VERY reluctant, but since she was all "Oh, don't worry...It'll work out ;)" I couldn't help but wonder and let her go on with it. So, I didn't mention anything to her about him. We only see him in one class. The thing is, this guy doesn't even know me and we never talk. Now, here comes the problem. My friend A told her other friend B that I like him. SInce I'm friends with B, I thought nothing of it. I just moved on and ignored it, because I knew it wasn't going to work out and didn't think she was serious about setting me up with the guy. So, two days ...
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our one year!!
Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 9:46 pm
my boy friend and I are having our one year october 9th but theirs just one problem we dont know what to do for it! we are deeply in love and want to remember this special day. We dont have money for jewelery or anything and its on a school day but we're taking school off so please give me some great ideas thank you
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Guy... yet another...
Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 9:23 pm
Ah, yes. He is amazing. He's so sweet, and funny. He has brown hair and these chocolate brown eyes, and plays guitar. I once san for their band when their singer was sick, and everyone teased me forever because i was staring at him the whole time and forgetting the lyrics! But... the problem... He dated my friend Hannah to get to my friend Leila. Leila is probably the prettiest of my friends, and is stick thin even though she eats sooo much. She is quite the unoriginal, though. Anyway, he likes her. And she likes him. They won't tell each other that, though. They dance every time at the school dances, while i just sit there and watch them, because no one asks me to dance. I really want him, but what can i do??? I need help!
Signed, Lovesick For an Off-Limits.
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me or her?
Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 8:00 pm
My ex and I have being talkin for over a month. He gave me a password to his MySpace I read the messages they were all from his exs he even told each and everyone of them that he wanted to get back with them. We got back together for about a week now. There was this message he send recently saying to the girl to call him asap. I want to break up with him so he can keep doing his flirty thang so it wont hurt me no more. WHY WOULD YOU SAY YOU WANT TO GET BACK TOGETHER WITH ME IF YOU WERE ASKING ALL THOSE OTHER GIRLS OUT?! right? plz help!!
he even told me that this girl was just a friend that gave him advice about love but when i read the messages he said that she was pretty and ect.. on and on. and the password thing i had to ...
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My Confuzzed love life </3
Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 7:56 pm
Ok, so i have this friend and she can kind of be the 'in ur face' type. And the other day i was at her house and she was curling my hair, and this kid in the grade below me, who has a crush on me, called me while she was doing my hair for this huge party. And she told me that she wouldnt finish the other half of my hair unless i asked this kid out. And we had to leave for the party in like 10 minutes so i just asked him. But i realllyyy dont like him at all. And so now hes guna tell all his friends hes 'going out with me' but i actually have feelings for this other kid. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO-I DONT WANA HURT THIS KIDS FEELINGS, BUT =O!!
<3
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