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my love life sucks
i still love my ex. i am dating someone though. and today i finally talked to my ex since our break up. he got into a wreck adn got a dui and mip. he is in job corp and on probation and may be going to jail. while we were talking he told me that he thinks about me quite a bit, and i told him that i stll love him. i don't know how to tell my new bf cuz he loves me adn wants to get married soon. but i was engaged to my ex when i told him that i had feelings for another guy, we broke up and got back together, then after a lil while he broke up with me. i tried getting over it and got with another guy, who is great and everything i could possibly want. but really all i want deep inside is my ex, how do i let my bf know this and let my ex know that i love him and would do anything to get him back. ps, i fucked him over a lot adn he fucked me back, but i know we can get over it. please help
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what you have to do is break it off with your boyfriend before you do anything else. If you continue dating him, while you have feelings for your ex, then thats not fair to him.
so let him down easy. but dont lie to him, tell him truthfully, but in a nice way.
then continue talking w/ your ex. if things go the way you like, maybe you should date him, but if you find you dont really love him, then its okay, you can stop talking.
Good Luck!
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Although it may hurt you're new boyfriend, just tell him. You need to focus on your happiness first rather than the happiness of someone else as selfish as that may sound. Just tell him that you're sorry and that he's a great guy but you still love your ex. It may hurt it but at least you're being honest. And for your ex. Just tell him EXACTLY how you feel, no one can tell you what to tell him because we don't know how your relationship with him was and how you feel about him. All in all the only answer is to be completely honest.
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