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13/f ~ Much help needed
Ok, so my best guy friend and I have gotten together 2 days ago. He was always kinda shy even when we were just friends, but when we IM each other its like we can talk about anything, ever since we got together we have been talking for almost 3 hours, on AIM, but we don't seem to have that kind of convo in person. What kind of topic starters could we talk about in person.
Secondly,
He is shy but I want to hold his hand or hug him so much, (I am not really wanting to kiss him until we can have a good convo in person.) but I don't know if I should make the first move or if I should wait for him, should I say something about it on AIM, or not? Help please!
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i have been in your possisition many times.
this guys isn't very manly or he would be able to carry on a convo in person. but i can tell you he likes you ALOT because the only reason he can't confront you and talk to you is because he is nervouse.
and you should take things slowly.
continue talking on IM, and AIM, and maybe he will gradually feel more comfortable with you. when you are together just bring up common topics, that he likes to talk about, and that will get him going.
and dont say anything to him about wanting to hug him. he'll make the first move when he is ready.
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okay i like this guy and he likes me too we were talking on the phone and we were getting to know eachother more and th conversation was going good but when i asked him how many exes he had and suddenly it took forever for him to answer that question he keep saying i forgot but he finally told me he had 7 and i jokingly called him a player and i think he said"im not" in a serious way and i was asking about his exes and he didnt want to talk about it how come he didnt want talk about it?
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if i was you i wouldn't be worried.
boys are dumb.
and they dont usually like to talk about exes.
ignore it.
maybe he had a bad or sad expireince with one of them or something.
dont worry about it.
you wouldn't want your good relationship to be ruined over something so silly now woudl you?
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i still love my ex. i am dating someone though. and today i finally talked to my ex since our break up. he got into a wreck adn got a dui and mip. he is in job corp and on probation and may be going to jail. while we were talking he told me that he thinks about me quite a bit, and i told him that i stll love him. i don't know how to tell my new bf cuz he loves me adn wants to get married soon. but i was engaged to my ex when i told him that i had feelings for another guy, we broke up and got back together, then after a lil while he broke up with me. i tried getting over it and got with another guy, who is great and everything i could possibly want. but really all i want deep inside is my ex, how do i let my bf know this and let my ex know that i love him and would do anything to get him back. ps, i fucked him over a lot adn he fucked me back, but i know we can get over it. please help (link)
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what you have to do is break it off with your boyfriend before you do anything else. If you continue dating him, while you have feelings for your ex, then thats not fair to him.
so let him down easy. but dont lie to him, tell him truthfully, but in a nice way.
then continue talking w/ your ex. if things go the way you like, maybe you should date him, but if you find you dont really love him, then its okay, you can stop talking.
Good Luck!
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