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My Confuzzed love life </3
Ok, so i have this friend and she can kind of be the 'in ur face' type. And the other day i was at her house and she was curling my hair, and this kid in the grade below me, who has a crush on me, called me while she was doing my hair for this huge party. And she told me that she wouldnt finish the other half of my hair unless i asked this kid out. And we had to leave for the party in like 10 minutes so i just asked him. But i realllyyy dont like him at all. And so now hes guna tell all his friends hes 'going out with me' but i actually have feelings for this other kid. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO-I DONT WANA HURT THIS KIDS FEELINGS, BUT =O!!
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Wow, that was such a terrible thing for your friend to do. You should have said no, no matter what she did with your hair. It's better to deal with that than seriously mess with someone else's emotions. What's in the past is in the past though, so you're going to have to take care of what has been done. As soon as you can, talk to this kid in person. Tell him that you changed your mind and that you don't want to go out with him. It's probably going to hurt him, but it's best to do it as soon as possible. The longer you wait the worse it's going to be. After you "break up" you need to tell your friend that what she did was terrible. You don't need to chew her out about it or anything, but stick up for yourself. Stand firm and don't let her try to laugh it off. What she did was very wrong and she needs to know that. Good luck. <3
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Learn to stand up for yourself and do your own hair...it is not worth being manipulated by this pushy girl. You have already hurt this guy by using him to get your hair finished...being dishonest about your intentions. The best thing to do is to own up to your mistake and have more integrity in the future. He will get over it, believe me. I am more concerned about you and your lack of self-esteem. Practive being assertive and telling others "NO." I mean it, this will make your life miserable if you continue to let others make decisions for you. Practice several ways of saying "NO", like "I don't think so", "Not this time", "No Way", "Not feelin it!", "Not now", "No Thankyou.", and just "NO!"....Be kind when you tell this kid you were feeling rushed and feel bad about letting someone else pressure you, but that you just can't commit to a date. Or whatever sounds best to you, Good Luck!
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