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girl problems


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 4:23 pm

i am 14/m i am mature for my age and get along with people older than myself most of my close friends are seinors in high school and freshmen in collage this i a dilema because the girls that i like are all seniors so they wont go out with me i also have troble geting started with a girl they alwase become close friends. my friends have all got girl friends but i never reaily had a girl friend

please help

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my boyfriend is self concious.


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 4:19 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he is SOOO down on himself. And no matter what I say to him, his thoughts don't change. I never lie to him about what I think of him!! and i think he thinks i do. and i think he thinks im going to leave him for someone better.. AND IM NOT!!! he's the best ive gotten (i think) but he's so low on himself. I find him hott!! lol and really attractive, and i tell him he's always hott not because i wanna make him feel better but it just comes out of my mouth!! and when we do stuff (sexually) I act like myself I dont PRETEND to want him.. I don't know how to realize how special he is and how good looking he is. One of the reasons he thinks hes ugly and fat is because of his mom.. and i hate h...

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In love and confused


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 3:10 pm

Well this boy I love Lany said that we where friends but he never talkes to me and the girl he likes Gianna but she will never go out with him.So ya my real problem is I am not sure if I should be friends with Lany or not or should I tell Him how i feel and than the whole friendship will be runed or is there anything else that I can do.Please help me I cant handle this.

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Could this female be digging me too?


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 1:31 pm

i'm a 19 year old female and i like this female in my math class. i attend a community college so the ages are very broad. i saw this pretty girl. i assumed she was 21,22 i was staring at her and she saw me. the next class she's sitting at the table behind the one i sit at. when the teacher did attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her staring at me when he called my name and i responded. the next class she came when eveyone was leaving. so as i'm passing by her i see her turning her head to look up at me, i played it off as if i didn't notice. last week i turned around to look at the guys dirupting the class as i'm scanning the back of the room i see her looking at me and to me it appeared as if she pushed herself outward...? i held he...

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hey hmm..


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 11:11 am

i like this boy but he doesnt know i like him,,
we say hi and smile at eachother andd stuff
but like sometimes i dont know how to bring up a conversation and when we leave skool i regret standing there and not saying anything
i dont know what to bring up
can somone like gimie something to bring up
thanks



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Will last.


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 9:32 am

I met this guy who is exactly like me, we've been going out for about 2 weeks, and every day he tells met that he loves me.

He is always complimenting me, and we are ALWAYS together.

Do you think we'll last long as a couple? Or would same interests drive us away from each other?

Btw, he isn't a player type, not über outgoing or anything like that. He is the nicest guy i've met in my life :)

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i get that ppl always ask this question but...


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 6:38 am

my bf and i were dating and it was the only relationship I've ever had that was serious. I've dated like 7 other boys, but they meant nothing to me compared to the way I feel about my last. Since we broke up I can't seem to be able to focus on anything, school work, sports,i can barely sleep or eat anymore. I know I'm still in love with him and I've told him how I feel but he doesn't feel the same way. Is there anything I can do just to get my life back?

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Relationship help


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 2:35 am

17/f. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 2 months or more. We have both been a little down lately and had a talk the other night about how we are both concerened that 90% of our relationship is based on sex. For example; we have had sex on a number of occasions up to ten times in one day, we have sex pretty much anywhere, in public, or in private, you name it. It's really great and all but he says we need to stop having sex all the time because it may wreck what we have and he really wants to experience our relationship on a deeper level. So I asked what he suggested we should do. And he said maybe we need to start doing more things together as a couple. So yesterday we decided to rent out a couple of movies and have some chips and...

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straight girl likes gay guy.


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 1:34 am

what to do? well actually it's my Gaiaonline crush.. and I've never liked anybody on Gaia before cause most people are weird but one day he just said hi to me and i said hi back and like we have so much in common.. then on his profile it said he likes guys so im kinda dissapointed........ and he's really hott! haha so should i just give up? :/ i wish he was straight!!! ugh. well i've barely talked to him and i didn't know what to say to him without sounding stupid so now i'll be totally clueless or should i just try to be his friend first? :/

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what do I tell the other boys?


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 1:17 am

16. F.
I've been single for about a year now. I've given my number out to plenty of guys, but only liked them as friends. So most of my guy friends like me and that's how I met most of them. Well I jus got back with my ex and I don't know how to tell them I have a boyfriend. I don't want to say it out of the BLUE! Like one wants to meet me at Six Flags, but I'm going with my boyfriend that day! Another asked me to go to homecoming as a date with him, but I just want to go as friends! The thing is, they always think I like them, I guess because I'm so "nice." I don't TRY to flirt. Oh gosh I do not. I don't say straight out flirty stuff (I would never!)... but I just need the best way to tell them! Thanks!

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Kissing


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 1:13 am

I'm kind of confused cause people keep telling me different things i was wondering

When it comes to kissing in a relationship as in your first kiss in the relationship who's ment to make the move first ?

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confused


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 12:14 am

I am 16 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years. Lately me and him have been fighting a little bit. He tells me that I don't think about him and that I only think about me and that I never take him into concideration when I want to do things. He tells me that I treat him like crap sometimes. When I feel the same way only about him. He never really seems like he cares about me like we use too. Like when he says I love you he doesn't sound like he means it. And I just don't know what to do because I don't know how to tell him because i'm afraid that he will blow up in my face and say that it is my fault. Please Please Please help in any way I just don't know what to do anymore because I love him so much and I don't wa...

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3 boys + 1 girl = uh oh


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 11:33 pm

okay, so me and my boyfriend are kind of on the rocks right now. were in a long distance relationship and it was going fine until recently. im 16 and hes 18. then me and my ex are like best friends and hes going to be in town next month for the cowboys vs. packers game and he wants me to go w/ him. were both in different relationships now nad happy but i dunno whats going to happen when we get together. then there is this guy i know at my school that has just started talking to me recently, but seems to really like me. so heres the problem. boys fall for me too easily. like im not being arrogant or anything, its totally true. my ex told me that once you get to know me its practically impossible not to fall for me. im worried that when he co...

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b-day gift.


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 10:29 pm

okay well my boyfriends birthday is comming up i had a real cool thing picked out. a minnasota vikings jersey but with his last name on the back instead. but i guess he already had a million jerseys so that wont work.
any ideas on what to get him i can spend like 50 bucks.

he likes sports but NO jerseys.
please help ik i should know what to get him but its so soon and i thought i had it figured out now im just really in need of quick help.

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advice from boys please !


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 10:08 pm

say you liked a girl and you knew she liked you back and you talked and had been talking for a while and nothing was happening. would you find it annoying or anything if she asked you if anything was ever going to happen between the two of you. please boys get back to me on this because i really need to know ! thanks in advance

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kisssingg.


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 10:03 pm

how should i make out? like wat should i do with my toungue? how should i move my tounge? thanx in advance.

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danceee


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 9:50 pm

okay my boyfriend's party is coming up soon. hes my second bf, and i have no experience going to partys with a boyfriend. since its his party, its more pressure. I CAN NOT DANCE FOR MY LIFE. dancing tips. remember that i cant dance. at all. what do i do. its coming up soon.

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jealousy. why is it still there?


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 9:22 pm

hah, this has been puzzling me for quite some time ...and I figure, since a lot of people probably know more than me here..

okay, so...why is it...that everytime you THINK you get over a guy, and you say to yourself after waking up in the morning "I don't care about him...he means nothing to me..." Why is it that even though you say that to yourself..that icky feeling of jealousy is still left even if the guy gets a girlfriend...and even if you don't like him for his looks OR personality? How would YOU overcome this? :/ I'm like biting my hands here..lol

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ahh there's this cute boy


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 9:12 pm

lol okay so im nikita im a 16/f at seven lakes high school. and i have a crush on this boy named Alejandro. he's this r eally cute hispanic sophmore!!! lol well my friend Eva is in his class 5th period but she doesn't know and doesn't talk to him. so i couldn't really get her to introduce me to him. well today i kinda talked to him. i asked him if he raps because his friend was. it was funny.. and i asked what class my friend was in and he said w. history lol and thats it haha.. well anyways i don't really know him that well. and i just don't want to go up to him and start talking to him. becuase i use to to do that alot and guys think thats weird. so yeah what should i do? like how should i start talking to him??

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=D


Posted Tuesday October 9 2007, 8:18 pm

okay some advice i need:

when are you supposed to give the guy
presents. like i kno christmas, b-day, valentines day and idk what else. HELPP!

andd okayy me and this guy have been now going out for 2 weeeks and havent kissed. can the girl kiss the guy or whatt? :/

&& if yes what can you do? i just dont want to kiss him out of the blue. WHATT DO I DO?!!

thankkks. :D

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