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Could this female be digging me too?
i'm a 19 year old female and i like this female in my math class. i attend a community college so the ages are very broad. i saw this pretty girl. i assumed she was 21,22 i was staring at her and she saw me. the next class she's sitting at the table behind the one i sit at. when the teacher did attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her staring at me when he called my name and i responded. the next class she came when eveyone was leaving. so as i'm passing by her i see her turning her head to look up at me, i played it off as if i didn't notice. last week i turned around to look at the guys dirupting the class as i'm scanning the back of the room i see her looking at me and to me it appeared as if she pushed herself outward...? i held her eyes for a a few seconds and then i turned around. i wanted to laugh out loud at the idea of her staring at me the whole time i was turned around. she always stays behind in class and now that she sits in the back near the door i have to pass her (i know) i managed to pass without glancing in her direction which was really hard. the last time i glanced at her but she sat doing her work as if she didn't notice. now i'm wondering could she be digging me too? since i saw her staring at me would it be okay to assume she colud possibly feel the same way? what do you think?
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Don't miss the boat here. It sounds as though there is some interest on her part. Rather than jumping to an embarrassing conclusion, start by noting that since you two share classes, you thought you'd introduce yourself. If she seems open, maybe ask her to join you for a soda or something, start a conversation, and find out what her story is. Keep your main goal friendship (at first, at least) so if she's not really into you, you can play it off as just being nice. If she is into you, just keep it cool, and get to know her so you can figure out what's really going on. Good luck!
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Anything is possible but also remember it could be mere coincidence. Maybe you stick out a little being the only one turned around? Anyway, something you might think about trying that always has worked for me. No matter who you're talking to - every girl of course loves being complimented even if they disagree with what you say. Try complimenting her in passing on your jolly way by! Non-chalantly checking her reaction as well. When you get the balls, you might even try just sitting near her to where she can see you better and get her attention. *Wink*. Or if you really have big balls try sitting next to her and striking up conversation. Casually of course. If you have to you can make an excuse why you changed seats. She probably won't mind. Do you ever see her outside of that one class? Anyway, hope to hear everything turns out lovely! (Another good trick: smiling can be a real heart-stopper.) Hopefully she's gay! If not you can always make a new gorgeous friend!
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Maybe.
Say hi to her & see where it takes you.
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Well, you're in the same class, and you never know unless you ask! :-) I would suggest just stopping and saying hi, and seeing where it goes from there. If there is one thing I know, it's if you sit back and do nothing, nothing will ever happen, and if you take a chance you'll get somewhere. At least you would know where you stand, and she could be digging you too! Good Luck.
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