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hey hmm..
i like this boy but he doesnt know i like him,,
we say hi and smile at eachother andd stuff
but like sometimes i dont know how to bring up a conversation and when we leave skool i regret standing there and not saying anything
i dont know what to bring up
can somone like gimie something to bring up
thanks
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Ive been in that situation before, you have to the person feel important and get to know them. If you rush into a relationship saying i love you you wont get far, keep it to like, tell the person how you feel. I was with a girl one time at my house when we where hangin out and i blurted out, i really like you and i think your awesome. It was the best thing i ever did, most people will never say what they feel out loud, it feels great to get it off your chest and that person will fall for you slowly. And for talking to the person, try not to make everything about you and try to ask them about how they are.
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That's a good question actually, and while you're standing there trying to think of something to say to him, he's probably trying to think of something to say to you as well. Just make a comment about anything that's nearby. It's easy to talk about something that you're both seeing, hearing, etc.
For example, if he has a skater/basketball/hockey/etc. sticker, patch, etc. on his shirt, shoes, backpack, say something about it. Like if you know what team he roots for in football (since football is in season) see who they're playing and mention the game to him. Say how you can't believe how they missed that pass(this works much better if someone actually did miss a pass); or ask him the score of the game(just make sure there was actually a game on).
To tell you the truth, guys will pretty much talk about anything, especially if they're bored (which he probably is right after school waiting for the bus or whatever). I can attest to that. I got tongue-tied whenever I was around this guy I had a German class with and could never think of anything to say and pretty much always made a fool of myself whenever I talked to him. Like, one day I started talking to him about how all these rock groups lead singers were dying their hair blonde after dying it black for so long, and we somehow ended up having a long conversation about which bands we liked and which ones we thought sucked and how I wanted to learn how to play the drums, basically because I knew he played. So he offered to give me drum lessons if I helped him with his German.
See, guys can end up liking you even when you think you're coming off as a total wackbat.
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school work (i no i sounds lame but it worked 4 me), halloween plans, parties, wierd teachers..
hope i help
xoxo
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