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3 boys + 1 girl = uh oh
okay, so me and my boyfriend are kind of on the rocks right now. were in a long distance relationship and it was going fine until recently. im 16 and hes 18. then me and my ex are like best friends and hes going to be in town next month for the cowboys vs. packers game and he wants me to go w/ him. were both in different relationships now nad happy but i dunno whats going to happen when we get together. then there is this guy i know at my school that has just started talking to me recently, but seems to really like me. so heres the problem. boys fall for me too easily. like im not being arrogant or anything, its totally true. my ex told me that once you get to know me its practically impossible not to fall for me. im worried that when he comes home something might happen or that this guy at my school might fall for me as well. and i dont know what to do because of my situation with my boyfriend at the moment. im in love with him but sometimes i dont know if our long distance relationship can really work out. any guidance? thanks so much!
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If you want to be with your boyfriend, you need to tell these guys to back off.
If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, then you need to tell your boyfriend that.
That is really all it comes down to. It doesn't matter what you think or feel about these other guys so long as you still have a boyfriend! They might as well not exist right?
Deal with one relationship at a time. Forget about the other guys, and deal with your guy first and formost. After you have done that, then you can put your mind to other possibilties.
Other people don't matter when it comes to your relationship with your boyfriend.
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aww hunny.. Im in the same situation with my boyfriend.. Im 16 and he is 18 and is at college which is 2 1/2 hours away from where we live. If you love him, you really have to trust not only him, but yourself. I have a lot of guys I find cute, funny ect.
But then I think, can they really give me the relationship I want? My boyfriend now is truely the best and I know in my heart no one can compare to him.
Ask yourself that question. Can those two people give you a relationship like the one your in, or better? If yes, then try taking a break from your boyfriend. Whatever you do, dont cheat. That to me is the worst thing anyone could ever do. I would rather be dumped, then cheated on. And Im sure your bf feels the same.
Also think about your ex's gf. Im sure she doesnt wanted to be cheated on. You cant do that to someone you dont know.
I hope I helped && I hope everything works out!! =D
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I think you are headed for problems since you seem to have 3 boys wanting you. I think the smart choice would be stay with your current boyfriend and not to hang out with a ex because relationships never workout with a ex boyfriend or girlfriend. I have seen things like this before where someone has a current boyfriend then someone else comes along who they thinks better but that 9 out of 10 times never seems to be the case. I think you are having a little problem right now with your boyfriend but i'm sure things will come around and get better for the both of you. I have been in a long distance relationship now for 2 years and i know for a fact they can work if you make it work. It takes a lot of work to make a long distance relationship work most people think there a waste of time but if you think about it helps you and your boyfriend or girlfriendbecome more close and be more vocal. Which means alot if you want something in the future with this boyfriend you will be 1000 x closer with them. Best of Luck!!!!
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