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boyfriennd and his X.


Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 7:13 am

mmkay my boyfriend is still in lovee with his X from 8 years ago and is still not over her. i trust him and all. but i feel when hes talking to me hes thinking about his X kori. instead of me. and when we have a conversation like him and me and some of my frriends. at lunch we will be talking about the cheerleaders [not in a bad wayy. i am a cheerleader!] but yeahh and he will be like oo TCMS cheer people is so muchh better then NJMS and then we will be like yeahh cause you used to go there and he will be like oo yeah well kori is better then EVERYONNEE on the cheer squad at NJMS cheer squad. and i act like it doesnt bother me cause we went out before and like 1 year ago and then he basically cheated on me with kori. and now its just they g...

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moviee ideas?!


Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 7:12 am

okayy. my boyfriend is supposed to cumm to my house like saturdayy. && we were goingg to watch a movie. now what movie should we watchh. i told him i would pick the movie out. and mee i would get like the gayy'est movie out there, haha and we would be boreddd as CRAAAZY. so if anyone knos of a good movie "informm me!"
thannks muchh! :D

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....lifesux...


Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 3:27 am

why do i always fall for people i cant have?
ahh i hate that about myself i never like people my own age.. and the people i like never like meback.. they probably take me as thyre younger sister i realy hate that rite now i like this boy whos 3 years older than me i duntknow if he likes me. is there something wronge with me i mean like im not a wierd person alot of ppl love me in my life i just dont know.. helpp


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Girlfriend keeps bringing up ex-wife,why?


Posted Thursday October 11 2007, 12:02 am

I would like to forget my ex-wife, but my girlfriend keeps bringing her up;even though she knows it upsets me and I don't want to talk about her - I'd rather just forget about her all together. Example. we passed a add for the add with a girl with big breast,I said dang. then whe said I have a comment but it's gonna get you mad. I said then don't say it. She then told me that I already knew what big boobs felt like since my ex had big boobs. My ex-is short, fat and ugly. new girlfriend is short, thin and beautiful. she turns heads everywere she goes. Why does she keep bringing my ex up in conversations? she said because she doesn't understand why I don't want to talk about her? please advise. we are all about 35's uears in age.

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Got her number after 2 years, now what?


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 11:47 pm

So i was on msn and someone told me this girl(an ex classmate) i used to like just broke up with her bf. i msned her and asked for her number which i got. now should i ask her on a date? or did she just give me her number cuz we r ex classmates and she din wanna b rude? fyi the time gap thing doesn't work with her, she goes into a new r/s 2 days after the prev one is over.
Thanks for any help

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2 guys, which oneeee ?!


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 10:48 pm

okay.so there are two guys i like, guy number one, is so goofy, and i really like him. but i don't talk to him as much as i'd like. and he might be moving,but i'm not forsure yet. guy number two is a big dickhead,but he really isn't that mean to me. he can be so sweet at times. but the thing is he has an on & off g/f of like a year. and everyone has told me he isn't gonna leave her for good. they are broke up at the moment, but they still talk. and he tells me he don't wanna stop talking to me culz he really likes me. i really cannot decide who i want more. i like both of them alot, helppppppp !!

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Does he like me?


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 10:26 pm

(14/f 8th grader)Sorry for this being long!Also sorry if this will sound stupid or anything but I've had a crush on this guy since the last days of my 7th grade year.Anyways,lately hes been staring at me or when he makes joke he all ways turns around(or look at me when i turn towards him)he looks striaght at me with a smile.I like the fact that he does that(of course)but I'm not really sure if he likes me.Also,my friend(sorta like a best friend)keeps telling me hes looking at me when hes in the lunch line.She also likes him too,but not as much now cause now she likes another boy shes obsessed with.I do take a peek amd see if he is and HE IS but i'm not sure if its me or something or someone else...Also i caught him 3 times looking at me an ...

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I am ashamed and embarrased of my past


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 9:18 pm

me and my boyfriend are seriously in love. Not just teen love, but love love. Anyway we talk a lot but nver about me and that's the way i like it because there are things in my past i don't want him to know about. now all of the sudden he is curious. he wants to know about my past and childhood. The truth is i was sexually abuse by my stepfather as a child, and my mother - who my boyfriend thinks lives in New york with her husband - is in jail because of drugs. I am ashamed and embarrased of my past. What should i say if he ask again??

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flirting in class (:


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:56 pm

im not very experienced with flirting, but me & the guy i like do tease eachother all the time in class .usually i feel stupid because i dont know what im doing and sometimes what i say to him backfires. his friend who sits next to him laughs about it lol . and sometimes they talk about what i just said and make fun of me ): but theyre not honestly being mean , its all funn.


he sits behind me, so its a little hard to talk to him and stuff without making it totally obvious that i like him.

how can i flirt with him , while hes sitting behind me, in class, without having it be a giveaway ?

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SWIMMMINGGG


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:48 pm

hey so in my profile i want to put in a quote or something like a saying. any ideas?? THANKS SO MUCH!!

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a couple guys


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:47 pm

16/f
so i like 2 guys and i dont know which one to focus on or which is even worth going out with.
guy number one:
-he's a very close friend
-i know him much better than the other guy
-we talk everyday
-we say hi in the hallway
-we "play fight"
-he's rich! but im not materialistic
bad stuff:
-he is possibly getting back with his ex who has only caused him pain and misery
-i don't think he likes me
-he has anger issues

guy number 2:
-he's really nice
-he flirts with me
-in class he asks me to sit near him
-his friends were teasing him about liking me and he was like "shut up go away"
-he's...

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ahhhgh, ?


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:40 pm

okay,
i like an 18-soon-to-be-19-year-old.
:/
i am unfortunately a 13-about-to-be-14-year-old.
i was wondering the legal age of DATING him in TEXAS would be,
please?
thanks in advance.

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Theres this Guy...


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:21 pm

there`s this guy that i keep going back 2 weve never gone out but weve talked about me liking him but he never said he liked me back...i really like him but i dont no if he likes me back...we always hangout 2 gether @ parties and fieldtrips...and we flirt all the time sometimes he puts his arm around me but her flirts with a lot of the girls but somethings he only does to me or at least ive what ive seen...sometimes hes really sweet but sometimes hes a jerk :( hes really out going and i just wanna no how i can find out if he likes me back or if it sound like he does...your advice plez!

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Keep Trying or Give Up


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:00 pm

Ok, here's the situation. I really like my friend Mike because he's so sweet & is extrememly nice to girls. However, he doesn't like me as a girlfriend, just as a friend. I tried to get closer to him, but it feels like I'll never be special to him because there's always someone else that he likes more. I try not to get jealous, but he has a lot of friends, so sometimes I wonder, what makes me so special? Since this relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere, should I just give up & leave him alone entirely (so that I don't get hurt again) or should I keep trying to get close to him & see where it goes? Thanks

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othaa stuff


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 6:57 pm

i have a bf and we dont see each other much, but im seein him in another month. i want 2 go further with him, but not much. maybe like him feelin me up or somethin. but how can i make that happen w/out me sayin anythin at the time? how can i give a hint? other then puttin his hands on me. i just wanna go a little furthur then makin out (which i still duno wat 2 do w/ my toungue, so if u could help w/ that 2, that would be m-azing.) advice? thannnkx.

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Showing I'm interested...


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 6:50 pm

Ok, so I'm going to a football game this week and I'm going with a few friends, probably 3 guys and 2 girls including me.
One of the guys going is the guy I like.
What are some ways I can show him I'm interested at the football game? We'll probably be walking around a lot, and it'll be cold, so any ideas? :]

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Confused


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 6:45 pm

Well I have a huge problem this guy I liked last year liked me to.Are best friend is the same person! Toward the end of last years school year she new he liked me and I liked him. But I new any day he would ask me to go out with him. Plus he kind of isn't the most trustworthy guy around. He was going to a different next year(present day this year)and he finally asked me the last day of that school year I told him no I wouldn't that I wouldn't really see him that much(he might go out with another girl).Today I just called him after talking to my best friend we talked and I think I like him again.How do I tell my bestfriend that,should I just remain friends with him,and how do I have a conversation with him just to see if he likes me?

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toooo long, but please read


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 6:41 pm

20/f

I became depressed and never liked myself because of who I am I want to run away from every one to keep them away from my depression. But I couldn’t hold it in, I told them what was wrong and they said I should tell Lara how I feel. I deny it for 7 years to not tell her but it got to the point that I was about to blow! So I told Lara that I am bi sexual and I am in love with her. Lara was in shocked but stayed there by my side to listen to me. She respected me and will try to help me as much as she can.

After I told Lara how I felt 10 months ago I went to a party and met this guy, nothing happen but I told Lara about it. She then got mad, she said she was not sure to be happy for me or pissed. I didn’t...

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I can not stop thinking about him he was so sweet and amazing.


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 5:35 pm

I had sex with this one kid this weekend. and yeah it was good and everything but He said that he liked me and I just dont want a realtionship and anyways on of my friends liked him for about 5 years even tho she said she was over him and said she didnt care i was drunk so yeah. And well I we hung out all weekend. And it was funn. And well he found out i didnt like him or got told i dont. But I feel so horriable becuase I did lead him on alot and I know there is this plan that this other girl is gunna lead him on and I feel horriable about what i did to him. But I just really dont know I can not stop thinking about him he was so sweet and amazing. and well We do go to the same school he just a year younger then me. And on top of it he is my...

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Homecoming


Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 5:21 pm

I'm sorry but I really didn't know what topic to put this under... Anyways my parents won't let me go to homecoming unless I have a date. It's all kind of complicated and hard to explain, but I'll do my best. My sister got pregnant at 15 and I think there holding me accountable for it. Like I get punished because she messed up her life. Which still doesn't make any sense to me because if I'm not going with a guy, doesn't that lessen me getting knocked up by like a lot??! Anyway I've already beat my sis. I'm 17 and still not pregnant. But if somebody could please help me I would really appreciate it. Any advice to talk to my parents about this is good. I don't even know where to begin when I'm talking about situations like this. It uberly pisses me off.

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