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Keep Trying or Give Up


Question Posted Wednesday October 10 2007, 7:00 pm

Ok, here's the situation. I really like my friend Mike because he's so sweet & is extrememly nice to girls. However, he doesn't like me as a girlfriend, just as a friend. I tried to get closer to him, but it feels like I'll never be special to him because there's always someone else that he likes more. I try not to get jealous, but he has a lot of friends, so sometimes I wonder, what makes me so special? Since this relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere, should I just give up & leave him alone entirely (so that I don't get hurt again) or should I keep trying to get close to him & see where it goes? Thanks

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Buttacup answered Thursday October 11 2007, 9:19 pm:
Keep trying to get close, 'cause y'know, if he ever feels that his relationships are all failing, he can turn and see you, right there beside him!

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SweetGuyBrokenHeart answered Thursday October 11 2007, 5:04 pm:
Keep trying, tell him how you feel. He may love you so much that it hurts him to even ask you out. Im in the same place right now, my heart is so broken and shes the only one who can fix it. Dont let this happen to you, be with him!

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Elcee answered Thursday October 11 2007, 9:40 am:
I think that you should stop trying to get so close to him, but keep seeing him as a friend. I also suggest that you widen your circle of friends and see him a little less often. He may well just see you as 'one of the boys' for now but you never know one day he may just see you for who you really are. There is always hope, but you have to live for today so date other guys and have enjoy life as a teenager. All the best.

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blackrose13 answered Thursday October 11 2007, 9:21 am:
well. why would you leave him alone? after all he is ur friend... but just try to let go.. if you already know that hese not into you just forget it and go look for somone else.. or maybe be single for a while ..
-hope i helped..

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