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Date or Don't Date


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 6:45 pm

A few of the teens at my church won't date anybody when they're in high school, b/c they think it's pointless... but some of them will date in high school; I've dated people before, but I'm starting to see the other people's pov (the one's that won't date anybody), but I really like someone, and I don't know if I should date while I'm in high school or wait like SOME of the people at my church.... any ideas?


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ughhh


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 6:37 pm

alright so me and this guy "john" we'll call him..are talking. we like each other a lot. we've prolly been tlaking now for a couple of weeks.

my best friend "anne" she is a flirty person.. and its pissing me off. shes all over him all the time - and doesnt think anything of it.

the other night she got pissed at ME because she thought i told someone i was mad at her for flirting - but i never even said it.. thats cleared up now. but it just goes to show that she freaks out when she doesnt get her way and people dont take her side.

anne and john flirt in front of my face but supposedly theyre just FRIENDS. i want to believe it, but its so hard to watch.

ive been h...

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she made him not like relationships


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 5:16 pm

i like this kid a lot and whenever we talk he always says something and it's exactly what i'm thinking. we have a lot of the same opinions on things. he's not really "my type" and my parents wouldn't like him but i don't care. ok here's the problem though. his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and now he wants to be single for a while. they went out for like 4 or 5 months and they broke up at the begining of the summer. i really like him and i want to show him that i'm worth trying a relationship for because all of my past relationships have lasted more than 6 months. how do i do this?

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My boyfriend's ex.


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 4:08 pm

Alright well I've been seeing my boyfriend for four months now, and he is in the army. We are very much in love, and he has asked me to marry him, but we don't really consider ourselves engaged yet, we probably will in December when we are going to tell everyone we want to get married. Anyway, he dated his ex for almost two years, and she cheated on him twice while he was at basic training. They broke up a few weeks before he met me. Well we'd been dating for about a month before she started problems. She started telling people they were still together, threatening me, leaving me messages, etc. She told me he always calls her and tells her that he can't wait to come home for Christmas and see her and make love to her. I know none of this i...

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internet + guy= trouble


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 8:11 am

hey there okay heres the thing I got talkin to this guy on Bebo and we were writing to each other every nite and stuff which was gd but then he asked for my msn so I gave it him knowin that wed get bored of each other anyway.
So after wed been talkin for like two weeks I posted a pic a me and he was like whos that I said me He said are you gonna change ur profile pic on bebo as well I said why dnt u want me to??
he said is that a trick q I said explain and he hurted me big style by sayin that he had learned not to say anythin bout a gals looks which i logged off at leadin to him basically blaming me sayin that I was over reactin and that he didnt wanna talk any more!!
wot do I do I cant get him outta ma mind still and t...

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how come i dont like kisses?


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 3:20 am

even though guy i like kisses me on the cheek I HATE IT and i dont like kisses from my family or friends or guys whats wrong with me? but when my pets kisses im okay with it but not them
please help >.< i dont like kisses and i dont like giving one too cheeks and lips whats wrong with me?


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Loveless


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 12:55 am

When I was younger I didn't know what love was so I just dated because...well I really don't know. I've only had 3 bf's. (I'm a girl) & that was between the ages of 8-13. At 13 I got a reality check and figured out what love was. Since then I have not found anyone personally appealing which pretty much means I haven't had a crush on anyone in 3 years. Sure I think some people are visually attractive but that's not a crush. I'm sick of being lonely. To the point that I might be depressed. What do I do???

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kissing?


Posted Monday October 22 2007, 12:11 am

so me and my boyfriend and whole bunch of other people are going to the fair this weekend, and i want to kiss him. we have been going out for a month now. how do i go for a kiss though, i mean really. just be like BABY LETS KISS? haha. im joking. but really, how do i go in for a kiss?
thanks!



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I told him I <3 Him


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 10:54 pm

Hi! I told my bgf that i love him but not in love with him and not exaclty romantically but we were talking alone. I had hugged him bye and then was like wait 1 more thing and then i said I love you but im not IN love with you..." He was just like ok during this my hand was gently in his not exaclty holding hands but i had my hand in his which was cupped and i hugged him again and left. The other thing is we're not exactly friends w/benefits but he can't date until his next birthday (may!) and I don't even know if I want to date him (but prob. will) and we've kissed and I feel totally confortable with him. I dont know if everyone gets that but like when he held my hand i didnt even realize it. And he flirts with me sometimes overly and...

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Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 10:45 pm

how do you get a boy to like you? honestlyy

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me nd my boyfriend


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 9:26 pm

ok my boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob right nd i would nd everything except im really not so sure how ur supposed to do it can u pleaseeeeee give me some advice

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Nicknames


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 8:53 pm

What are some cute Nicknames for my boyfriend?

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guy and his gf


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 8:39 pm

this guy has a gf but he likes me 2. I lke him back and he wants to hookup and stuff and cheat on her with me. yah i no its wrong but i really lke him and were gonna go out anyway after they break up . BUt they might not breakup for a while. shes also a "friend of mine" but i dont rlly like her. idk what to do bc i like him alot and dont want to wait but if anyne finds out my life is ruined.thanks!

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confused about boys


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 8:32 pm

so theres this boy and he told my friend he likes me, but not to tell me.
???
and hes sending me mixed messages so idk. we dont go to the same school, so i havent seen him in a while.

what do i do??

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What Do I Do When I See Him


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 8:23 pm

My boyfriend is getting me really mad, becauze me him and a couple of frendz are supposed to go to a teen club on saturday, and when i told him about it he sed " oh im gunna go wiht my ex girlfriend " now im not gonna hav a fun time and im gunna worry about them, he mite even ignore me that nite. what should i do, and i need advice quik because saturday is coming up and i need to know wuht to do ahead of time, thanx

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I dont know if he is intrested!!


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 7:58 pm

There is this guy I have been like in love with every since i met him, witch was about 2 months ago. The first two weeks of knowing him my cousin texted him from my phone saying"Will you go out with me"? He said no i barely know you, but now its been longer.I have never kissed a guy and scared to, because i'm afraid i will mess up.I am a freshman and he is a junior..so what do i do? I think because he is a junior he will want me to be experienced if he ever did say yes to being my boyfriend.. please help me

'please help me

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He's going away to college. =[


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 7:02 pm

I'm 17 years old, and so is my boyfriend. He'll be 18 in February 08.. and here's what's going on.
sorry if this is kinda long
Well, we've been together for a year and 3 months and we're both crazy about eachother.
Because of what happened with his parents he doesn't want to get married until his late twenties.
He's a senior this year and is leaving to go to college next year. The colleges he's applying for are all at least 3 hours away. Neither of us know what to do. I can't move away with him. So he said I should wait for him, and we'll see eachother a few times throughout the 4 years he's in college.. But school is his number 1 priority, I mean, he's not happy unless he's getting straight A's. And in college h...

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a guy that broke my heart


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 6:59 pm

15/f

i liked this 18yr. old around the beginning of the yr. [dec.-feb] he broke my heart but, we never fooled around or had a relationship, it was more of an emotional thing. but yea, he ended up breaking my heart in the end. from time to time we talk, like probably every other month over myspace. well last nitght, we were talking and he asked me how did I break your heart..and i told him how. then he asked if we can move on together?

what does that mean? and should i still talk to him?

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Gay?


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 6:32 pm

I honesty believe my boyfriend is gay (he just doesn't know it yet). I'm not gonna go through and list the reasons why, because it really doesn't matter. I know many guys who claimed they were straight until they couldn't hide it anymore and I'm just about positive my boyfriend is hiding behind me. I have absolutely no idea how to deal with this or if i should say anything or not.

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Crazy for me!


Posted Sunday October 21 2007, 6:02 pm

Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!


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