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a bit long but its making my life hell :( please help me


Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 6:21 am

hiii
sorry its a bit long..
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirtin...

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orgasim


Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 6:18 am

What is the difference between orgasim and cumming

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Wrong?


Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 4:04 am

So my boyfriend was hitting my face with a shoe [sparring gear] He didn't realize it was hurting me. He didn't stop after I gave him a look to. So when he stopped a few seconds later, he did it again so out of nowhere, I slapped him. He got really upset and later said it was disrespectful. I don't know what to do! He didn't even think about what he was doing to me. I know what I did was wrong, i quickly realized that. I did something before thinking but it wasn't a hard slap. What am i supposed to say or do? he's completely pouring this out on me. i just want it to stop.

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Really Shy Boyfriend.


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 8:00 pm

My boyfriend is really shy. In general. So i was really amazed when he asked me out. Here's the problem. I'm getting really bothered by his shyness. He doesnt do anything a boyfriend should so. He hugs me occasionally. When he does they are really stiff hugs and very quick. I feel like he hugs me because he has to not because he wants to. We dont hold hands or kiss. He never compliments me. He acts like a friend even less. He doesnt flirt or anything. I want him to start acting like my boyfriend and not like my friend. I at least want hugs that mean something. My friends with boyfriends all have held hands and hug and do normal things like that. I want him to start doing that but i dont want to talk to him about it. What should i do? Is the...

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Cheating


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 7:37 pm

15/f
ok i kinda like my boyfriend best friend and one night i had called him and we was talking for a while then our conversation got deep and we started talking about sex and what will happen if he comes see me cuz hes coming down here for christmas im very interested in him b/c hes different but i love my boifriend and i dont want to cheat so do you have any ideas on how to stop liking my boifriend best friend thanx

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me and my boyfriend


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 7:36 pm

Ok I am a 16 year old female and I love my boyfriend to death but sometimes I feel like he pressures me into thinking we are gonna be together forever and get married. I don't want to assume anything im just living life for now. Does anyone have any advice for me?

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Birthday Present


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 7:32 pm

Ok so my boyfriend birthday is the day before christmas so i want to give him one big present so do you have any ides mot too expensive and not cheap i dont want him to think im a bad girlfriend all ideas will be helpful thanx

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kinky


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 7:11 pm

what are some kinky things to say to a guy?
anything.

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QUICK!!! PRESENT IN NEED!


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:45 pm

I need help fast.

My boyfriends birthdays coming up and I don't know what to get him. he's turning 16
hes into:
bmx
cars
video games
photography
music


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Is he interested?


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:23 pm

14/f
Ok, so I like this guy (R). He's really funny, but he's not the brightest crayon. But that's not the point because I don't really care about that. My friend (C) is friends with one of his friends (M) so I asked her if she could try to ask M if he could find out if R liked me or something. What she got back was: M said that, when he asked R what he thought about you, R thinks I'm cool, but we don't talk that much (e.g. I'm guessing he doesn't really know me that well). Today, during class, we're doing mock trial (Political Science) and he kept looking at me. He also says hi to me in the hallways now.

Does this mean he's sort of interested in me? Because it's not like he's looking at me because he thinks I like him...

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I like this boy, but...


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:23 pm

Ok, well before you read this and go "Another pathetic girl who has a bad love life" listen. I like this boy, say Jim. Well my friend has liked Jim for like 2 years and has asked him out so many times and Jim always says no. She doesnt know that i like Jim.
Also my friend Jen is Jims Best Friend, but she always is like laying on him and like almost giving him a blowjob. I mean, come on, your my best friend, dont be giving the boy i like a blowjob.
Me and jim are such good friends. He like tells me everything. I have liked him one time before, but hes said no, but it was a year ago.
I dont want to tell him i like him and him say he doesnt like me and well be all messed up and lose what we had and have Jen an...

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what to get him for christmas


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:09 pm

I have a boyfriend over the internet... and i don't know what i can get him for Christmas.
it has to be something i can give over the internet. PS. he's the love of my life
any ideas?!

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confused.


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 5:12 pm

alright. so i have a boyfriend. and weve been dating for almost 2 months. things are going absolutley great. but theres just one problem.
in the beginning of our relatesonship, we would be all kissy kissy all the time. not just like pecks on the lips, like passionate kisses. or longer kisses.
now, we dont do that. i mean, i try, and he just doesnt do it.
i tried talking to him, twice, and still nothing has changed.
i know he cares about me, otherwise, we wouldnt be dating, but im just so confused.
i dont know what to do.

please help?
-<3

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me and my ex


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 5:03 pm

I'm 15, female.
I like my ex boyfriend still. We were taking "break" from each other, and he started like hating me cause he THOUGHT I was talking to another guy, but I wasn't. Well, then he started talking to another girl, but we all know he didn't really like her. He's around a lot, and I really know he still likes me even though he hasn't said anything, but we have had a thing for each other for about 4 years now. When were together I want to be with him so bad, and I know he does too, I can tell. Neither one of us will make the first move, but I feel like I can't because I don't want him to have that power over me, knowing he can get what he wants without dating me. I want to talk to him but he answers "I don't kno...

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Christmas gift for boyfriend


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 4:44 pm

I'm 15/f, he's 16/m

I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now... well by Christmas that will be 7 months. I have random little ideas for a gift for him, like based off of inside jokes we have and stuff. I'm not really into generic gifts, like chocolate etc... The problem is just that, though - all the gift ideas I have are LITTLE. I don't think they would really amount to anything, I've only thought of a few. Is there a way I can tie small gifts and a bigger gift together in a way that they would make a good gift? And what can that big gift be? I want to make him happy with this but I have such trouble being creative.

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Just friends or more than that?


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 2:01 pm

15/f

i've been in love with this guy since i was 9 (never knew if he loved me back, but we were good friends) and we're seeing a movie together in about a month. (alone) The thing is, I like him soooooo much and in my mind it's a first date- but I don't know if he thinks it's just a friend thing or not... how can I know wheather or not to kiss him/hold his hand or anything?



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AHHHH HELP??


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 11:25 am

okay wel my love life has never been the best. i always fall for the wrong guys. so now u have two guys that i care aboyt but i can obvioously can only have 1. okay so guy #1(we will just call him that) is amazing, he knows what to say to me and i know he really cares. but he lives like two hours away.. and me and him are very realistic and know that it wouldnt work. but i still want to be with him. then there is boy #2 who knows also what to say and how to touch and all of that but the problem is he hasnt always treated girls the best and my younger sister likes him. now i want both of these guys but i dont know which one to go too.... it seems that i really cant be with either of them :( and i want them both!!!!!! so if anybody can help i...

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xmas


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 10:57 am

Alright, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months. When christmas comes, it will be almost 5. We've been together for a long time and we talked for awhile before we became officaial. I really don't know what to get him for christmas. I'm really the type of person to go all out, because that's what he's going to do. For his birthday I got him a build-a-bear, but that was before we were even going out. For our anniversaries, I always make him something, buy him something, and usualy write him a heart felt note or a poem. I'm really really good with words, and he loves when I write to him. I want to get him soemthnig nice. Writting just a note won't be enough, becuase I write to him all the time. We always wrtie to eachother.
...

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I think he is cheating


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 10:27 am

My boyfriend is not coming home right after work but he calls me and stuff and recently he hasnt been coming over. I feel like my heart is tearing apart but I cant leave him because I love him to much. His attitude has changed a lot and its like i am alone. Someone help me i want to be loved. Do you think something is up? Oh by the way his ex is back in town.

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boyfriend coming over my house for the first time..


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 6:47 am

14/f/freshman

and i'm like nervous ha. he's going to be meeting my stepdad and i don't know. i don't know what were gonna do, should i rent some movies? should i get them before or like have him come with me? ahh i know i sound like a dork, but everything i do turns into an awkward situation.. any ideas and advice would be awesome :D
thanks

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