i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?
karenR answered Friday July 8 2005, 2:11 am: If shes your best friend I think you should talk to her. Why not? Its real easy to get out of touch and loose someone for a long time...time has a way of flying by! So don't wait for her to contact her, jump in there and do it yourself! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Thursday July 7 2005, 7:15 pm: I think you should talk to her. Just start up a conversation and maybe ya'll can work out your differences, and become closer again. Hope I helped, and good luck! [ x0oLoViNiTo0x's advice column | Ask x0oLoViNiTo0x A Question ]
Sum41bizzyd504 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:22 pm: well... she might be just moving on with other friends...
CheerGurl1064 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 1:58 pm: what you should do is think for a second do u want to be friends w/ her or could you live w/ out having to be friends w/ her if you want to be friends w/ her then talk 2 her [ CheerGurl1064's advice column | Ask CheerGurl1064 A Question ]
X_Amanda_X answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:38 pm: If I were in your shoes, I would im her. Tell her how you really feel. Tell her that you feel like you are being disrespected since she started hanging out with her new friends. Hopefully she will understand where you are coming from. If she gets mad or upset about it, then shes not a true friend.
soccerplayer5674 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:21 pm: I think that you should talk to her first only if you still want to be friends with her. And it has been a while since you talked to her right? So it might seem kind of weird to act all friendly and such so you might want to just say hi and maybe ask her why you havent been talking lately, did you do anything to offend her or something? If you didnt then she is just being a real jerk, but if you do want to be friend with her talk to her on aim because thats always eisier than face to face Hope i helped! [ soccerplayer5674's advice column | Ask soccerplayer5674 A Question ]
curliecue answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 6:48 pm: Go ahead and talk to her. Just because she's got other friends doesn't mean she's abandoning you. If you talk to her, it'll probably bring you closer again. [ curliecue's advice column | Ask curliecue A Question ]
Irishdude405 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:48 pm: Well the best thing to do is talk to her. I have lost touch with many close friends of mine and this is how it started. But if you talk to her and let her know how you feel and listen to how she feels then maybe you can save your friendship. Many people go through this becaus many peoples personallitys are changing right about now and people are beggining to figure out or wonder who they are and what kind of person they want to be. But i'm here for you if you need me!
Sammerz619 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:24 pm: Well i think you need to let this girl know how you feel. If you guys are as close of friends as you say, she will understand. Sometimes at this age people feel like they need to do things and hang out with certain people in order to be cool, but they dont realize in doing that they are hurting the people around them who care about them. If you ever wanna talk for more advice or anything just IM me at Sammerz619. I hope i helped [ Sammerz619's advice column | Ask Sammerz619 A Question ]
deathwillcome answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:22 pm: I think you should try talking to her, you see. The wonderful thing about friends is that they can grow seperately and yet not grow apart. Ask her if she's mad at you and if not stirke up a conforsation. If she is mad, then ask her why and try to fix it. I hope I helped. Please rate! [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
x_shes_electricc answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:17 pm: thats what my best friend was doing. i was like what the heck. its so annoying. just IM her and be like hey whats up..and just be like oh nothing im in flordia or something. and just talk to her. be like i havent talked to you in a long time...
and see what she says. just be like i feel like you dont want me around anymore since you got all those new friends. and just take it from there. [ x_shes_electricc's advice column | Ask x_shes_electricc A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:12 pm: Aww, I would definitely definitely message heR, if I weRe in youR shoes. If this is some you seldom get to see, why would you pass up an oppoRtunity to get togetheR? And even is she acts the same, at least you know you'Re the biggeR peRson by TRYING to open up the lines of communication.. :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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