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Question Posted Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:07 pm

I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?

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Trppnclark1167 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 11:15 am:
Woah, thats crazy, i say the next time you see her, hit her in the boobie, that always hurts

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l3fty14 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 6:36 pm:
PsYcHo!! jeeze man that girl has some issues. it sounds like it was kinda random. she mustve been mad at you for something. yuo should ask her what the deal was. but she doesnt sound like a very good friend.

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xOmAnDaH answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 6:01 pm:
Punching madeline back would just cause more trouble..tell the principle or something..ask madeline why the hell she punched you?!

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Turc answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 5:38 pm:
Violence is not the answer. :-P

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BeautifulLiarMM answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 5:13 pm:
You know what I think... I think you should know when to keep your mouth shut and not to tell everyone things that arn't supposed to be said. I trusted in you time and time again and you always go behind my back and blab to everyone and that gets me into some deep trouble in my own life and I'll be damned if my life gets all screwed up because someone doesn't know when to talk and when not to talk.

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Tarebear109 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 4:52 pm:
well.... im kind of seeing it both ways.. 1 since u didnt punch her that just makes you look stronger and 2 you should've punched her.. it would of been self defense i dont talk to her and she hits you again throw a punch maybe coming in a different way will knock some sense into her.

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 4:32 pm:
she's not ur friend if she punched u!!!! i would've punched her bal....but tawk 2 her and tell her y she did dat!!!good luk...

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RedNeckShOrTy answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:54 pm:
I think you shouldn't have hit her back. Because if you hit her back what does that fix? It would only cause more problems.

Sit her down and ask her what caused her to hit you. Maybe then you can try and fix your friendship. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah~***

P.S...she was bragging about it today in gym. she said it was the first time she hit someone and she was happy she hit you. idk y! i think she is mad at you but idk y!

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Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:49 pm:
You did the right thing by not touching her back, but wow. For no reason? Tell the principle because thats a big offense, and i know tattle tales are stupid but if she wants 2 do the crime, shes gunna pay up some time. Shes just a useless bitch, get her in trub trub.. lol

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:00 pm:
yeah you did do the right thing by not hittin her baQ... sumtimes the right thing doesnt feel right at the moment...

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AskMegan answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 2:50 pm:
You did the right thing. The old cliche "two wrongs don't make a right" applys here. By hitting her back, you could have ruined everything between the two of you. Meaning, SHE'D have to apologize in order to be friends agian and you wouldn't.

Maybe you should ask what caused the anger-induced punch-maybe she misunderstood something you did? It'd be best to figure out what you did...before you do anything else, and plead your case. If you don't believe you did anything wrong, ask her what the hell is her problem, and tell her she needs a more mature way to exert her anger, rather than flipping out on you.

The best of luck, dear.

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BlackAngel answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 1:17 pm:
Physical violence won't solve anything, so don't get revenge by hitting her back, it won't help anyone.
Do try to find out why she hit you, then confront her about it. There's no reason to hit someone, ever, and especially not friends.

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Christine answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:42 pm:
No you shouldnt have punched her back... if you have to.. turn her in. that shouldnt happen. Do you know y she punched you? find out y she hit you and atlk to her about it.


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