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I really am frustrated A LOT! This illness or whatever you want to call it is making me lose my mind
It's been present for quite a while (1year) yes quite a while huh..
The thing is some red stuff... Really dry and dead skin that brushes off when I rub it , I simply rub the skin, it's yellowish colorless kinda skin that falls off when I rub it off my face or below my earlobe
And now it reached the space between my freaking eyebrows since the redness and dryness is present under my eyes and on my nose and it climbed up to the space between my eye brows. My entire face is kinda red now...
Also, this dry dead sorta skin is present on my sideburns now..my sideburns (both of'em) itch and when I rub they fall off.
Some people also told me I got white stuff on my hair in the bottom of the back of my head..
I attached this picture of the redness/dryness http://oi57.tinypic.com/wlq0ao.jpg
By the way this redness/dryness disappears when I rub it with some cream and wake up the next morning gone.

Thank you SO much ! For donating priceless time for someone else.
Thank you. (link)
You need to see a doctor. Don't freak out, it could be small or something big. You'll never know until you see the doctor. The longer you wait the more serious it could get.


Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
Maybe next time dont send the nude. Not the brightest idea.


I'm a 14 year old boy. I felt my my penis was small then I got bored and I measured it today. It turned out to be 7in long. Is that good for a 14 year old. I'm not gay or bi. I also have a 6 pack ladies ;) (link)
Ahaha nice try love. This isn\'t exactly the place where you meet girls.


Hi, I'm 19/F. I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but our relationship has been kind of private due to my parents. They are not allowing me to start dating until I get at least a bachelors degree but I love my boyfriends so much. He wants me to tell my parents about us so do I but I'm scared that they'll get mad and start drama. His mother knows about us and I just want to be able to tell my parents about anything. What should I do? (link)
Alright, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Now don\'t get me wrong I absolutely love him. I broke up with him because neither of our parents knew and I didn\'t like lying to them. He WOULD NOT tell his mum and I did ask him several times.. I ended up telling my mum about him after we broke up. Please, please, please do not make the same mistake I did, tell your parents. I swear its worth it, love.


I want to fuck a girl I really want to fuck her because she is very pretty girl (link)
Well your just lovely aren't you?


In my dream I was having a regular school day, except that morning I forgot to wear my pants and underwear, and no one noticed? What is that supposed to mean? (link)
Usually, dreams are just short memorys of things that happened during the day. Dreams often happen when your about to wake up, this is why people almost always remember them. If it was something that happen in your childhood, the brain will fill in the things you can't remember. Often, the "memorys" it uses make no sense at all. It is normal if dreams make you uncomfortable since society today makes no sense either. Dreams can mean something, be something you badly want to do, or be funny and completely random. Its okay babe, we all have those odd dreams.


I was texting my boyfriend last night and I asked him why he hadn't been talking to me much. He downright told me that he wasn't sexually attracted to me because of my weight. What should I do? Should I break up with him? (link)
Most definitely break up with him! Boyfriends should love you for your true self and who you really are. You should not have to change yourself or anything of that nature. Now I know this sounds like the 'perfect guy' and there is never anyone like this.. But I can promise you, there is someone out there for you. Specifically for you, no one else.


There's a boy in my class named Brian. He always sits with me and my friends and makes jokes and always makes me laugh. He always pokes and tickles me in the side a lot, pretends to take my stuff and just mess with me, and recently I've started to like him. I always can't wait to get to school to see him and talk to him. One day he was telling me how much he liked my best friend (she doesn't like him) (she doesn't sit with us) I felt crushed when he said that but didn't say anything. I also get mad with another "friend" making fun of me and saying if he did like me, he'd just want to sleep with me. I don't want to ask him out because I'm afraid that he'll hate me and not want to be around me anymore. How can I get him to like me? (Btw I'm almost 16) (link)
If you want him to like you, be yourself. I'm not just another one of those "type" of people either. I'm just saying if your not yourself and you start going out you still have to act like that person your pretending to be.. Now thats hard right?


im 18 and a girl. i hate feeling horny almost everyday. if i do this will the feelings go away? i hope so cause i dont need to feel horny as i cant see myself in a relationship for years. at least 5-10 years. so theres no reason for me to be horny. i feel so dissapointed with myself every time i cave into the urge.. like once every 1-2 days. but if going cold turkey for a month will solve it i'll commit to it (link)
Hi.. Don't have advice for this.. Sorry. I just wanted to say that I feel the same thing sometimes.. I don't like giving in to it.. But anyways, I just wanted to let you know because it feels good to know your not alone. The names Savannah by the way (:


I met him online and the first time he saw my picture he said I was pretty and afterwards, would call me pretty when necessary. So we started talking and asking each other sexual questions. Once, I asked him what he would choose and he said "of coursr you! I think you're beautiful!" That wad the only time he called me beautifull and afterwards, he started using the term sexy.
He usually initiates contact.
The question here is: does he mean what he says or is he just saying it for his own benefit?
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Ok, im sorry.. But im honest.. This is my opinion and usually applies to me, may not be happening to you.. Guys on the internet are total jerks. They send you pics of their stuff and flirt with you, make you feel good about yourself, blah, blah. For example: I started to date this one guy, he was cute, nice, sweet and all that.. I was busy one day and didnt text him. I wake up the next morning to find he blocked me. Didnt say bye, love you or anything.. I thought it was a common mistake and waited a while to see if it was a mistake and he would unblock me.. Never did. I soon got over it but still wonder why he would block me... I never knew and never found out.. That's just my story though...


I like this guy and we've known each other for a LONG time. This year he asked me if I liked him and I said no because i was nervous, and I'm NEVER nervous around him. This year he's been confusing. I joined a sport this year, and I noticed he's been hanging on with the jocks and trying to be like them. I don't like it.I liked the guy who had time to talk to me, and was always there for me in times of need. I don't understand him anymore. But just before everything got confusing I asked if he wanted to go to six flags with me.. He said he did. And it was supposed to be my "birthday gift". He kept asking me when my birthday was but I know he just wanted to talk to me cause he has the MOST WONDERFUL memory. Should I tell him I like him before, during, after the amusement park? Or never? ( if it helps I'm in middle school ) (link)
Haha just so everyone knows this question, is from my account.. Yeah.. I forgot the password..



hey there, ((sorry if longg))
my name is jess and i have a little problem. i have always liked my best friend as more then a friend..well i do not like him...i am in love with him (link)
Well.. Since he is your best friend, you would know him more than anyone else.. If he still talks to you today, thats good and means he was true and was not just "caught in the moment". If he doesn't talk to you anymore... Well then you know what that means babe.. But I take it from the way you talk about him you are still talking today (: (i know this wasn't the best advice but that's all I got, haha sorry..)


I'm from the Philippines and I'm 13. Sorry If I have some grammatical errors.Sometimes in school I just feel like I'm no one. No one ever talks to me unless it's really important. I can't understand. I tried my best for them to notice me, but they don't. I have a few friends, but I they aren't just the friends that can really 'understand' me.


So let me describe myself. I'm pretty (others say) but I'm short and chubby, I can draw well (one of the best in my class I think), I can play the guitar and piano,and I'm an honor student. I think I have a good attitude, but sometimes I'm just shy. I also love books and I'm in different 'fandoms' like I'm a Directioner, a Swiftie, and fans of fiction books like Harry Potter and Percy Jackson. I'm really not the girly girl, I don't like girly fashion like others do.


I just can't understand. Are they avoiding me because I'm shy? Or is it because I'm chubby? Or because I don't like fashion?


I also hate it when they compare me to my sister. She's a year older than me and she's pretty to. We are exactly the same except I'm into fandoms and books and she's into girly things and love stories. I can say she's kinda popular in our school and my classmates adore her. I can't understand why they don't act like that when it comes to me. Not that I'm jealous, but sometimes they don't treat me as me. When others see me they're all like "You're Anna's(not her real name) sister right?"


I tried to be into these girly things, love, etc. But I just can't. I don't really like those stuff.


Sorry if this is kind of confusing. >.< So what can I do to have friends? To make them notice me as I am? Should I change? Please. I need advice. (link)
Hey.. Before I start I just wanted to let you know I am the same age too (: First off, DO NOT CHANGE YOURSELF. You should never change yourself because someone wants you to. I used to be shy until this year. No, I did not change. I simply started to open up to people a tad bit more and more, then they started talking to me. Yes, I am still known as "the shy girl" but it was worth being myself. Ok now I'm going to tell you how shy and reserved I was.. Last year and years before, I would literally sit in a corner with a book, with no one, and stare at people. I would examine and observe them to see if they would make good friends.. And I found my true friends that way.. Now.. This year I throw grapes at people when I'm bored.. ( and yes it is very fun, mostly because no one suspects the "shy one" to be throwing fruit (; ) Anyways though.. My point is don't be afraid to show your true self.. And babe.. Your beautiful in your own way. People put you down to put themselves up, don't let anyone tell you different. Believe it or not it is sometimes best to stay away from people but keep at least two or three good ones. Haha at least that's what I do (;


Hey,
15/f
I have known this boy since I was a little girl. I guess you could say were friends.Now in high school I have got feelings for him. He is kind of popular now and I think he likes one of the perfect girls in my year.

I really like him and want to ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection. (link)
I am in almost the same situation right now. What I would do is I would start talking to him. Not about anything sexual unless he brings it up though. If you talk to him then you will become closer to him. You will know each other better. Show him that he can trust you with anything. And when you say that you'll keep a secret, that means you WILL keep it. You can't tell anyone not even your closest friend. He will start two tell you more and more.. It might be a good idea for you to tell him things also (obviously) You'll know when the time is right and you should tell him your thoughts about him..


I am a 25 year old female who is still a virgin and I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now and he is 26 years old and the other other day he asked me how I felt about having sex with him and I told him I would but I said I think you need to know that i am still a virgin and then as soon as I told him that he said he didn't think it would be a good idea after all and I asked him why was that ? He said he didn't want me to regret losing my virginity and wanted me to keep it as long as I could so then I explained to him that I have done everything else I just haven't gone all the way yet so he said I still want you to wait to make sure it's what you want to do . I told him I was sure that I wanted him to be my first he said I know you say that but what about after you lose your virginity ? what's the big deal ? why won't he let me go all the way when I really want to ? I mean I know he explained it to me but I have never had a guy tell me before that they didn't want to fool around. why is he different from the others? Thanks for all your help in advance everybody . (link)
That is very good that he is asking you if you want to have sex. He is not saying that he is not interested in you, he is saying politely if you really want to have sex. If you do then just tell him I'm sure and have fun but if you don't he is the type where he will still go out with you if you refuse sex. Now that guy is one in a million. Choose wisely and be sure to ask him what he wants too.




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