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if i stop masturbating for a month will i stop feeling horny so often
im 18 and a girl. i hate feeling horny almost everyday. if i do this will the feelings go away? i hope so cause i dont need to feel horny as i cant see myself in a relationship for years. at least 5-10 years. so theres no reason for me to be horny. i feel so dissapointed with myself every time i cave into the urge.. like once every 1-2 days. but if going cold turkey for a month will solve it i'll commit to it
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Hi.. Don't have advice for this.. Sorry. I just wanted to say that I feel the same thing sometimes.. I don't like giving in to it.. But anyways, I just wanted to let you know because it feels good to know your not alone. The names Savannah by the way (:
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It will make it worse.
Hormones happen. And "I can't see myself in a relationship for 5-10 years" is really you saying "it's scary and I don't want to go near it"
You will regret not getting into any form of relationship until you are 23 because it's scary new territory. I have no idea why you feel disappointed in yourself. That's not natural. Maybe you should examine your perspectives instead of trying to find any way you can to stop having natural and normal urges.
Aka go get laid or something, jesus.
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Avoiding masturbating is not going to make it go away, if anything it'll be more intense.
Masturbating does not cause it to occur or occur more often. You are normal. The only thing to take care of the feelings is to masturbate if you are not ready to find someone you trust for just a friend with benefits situation. Lots of guys may not be ready for a commited relationship but need a sex partner too. If you were you, I would devote more time to masturbating, and read up on how to and toys may help with that. achieve better more fulfilling orgasms. Having orgasms is good for our health in many ways, lowers stress for one. So there is nothing wrong with taking care of our need for orgasms and good sex before we are ready for a relationship....you just have to be very careful about a partner. Insist on both of you being screened for STDs. Rely on something other than condom for prevention of pregnancy. The most cost effective, especially if you are waiting 5-10 yrs to get into a relationship is the IUD which lasts 5-10 yrs depending on the brand. Read up on them, one is hormonal based, the Mirena and the other is not, copper based, the Paragard. Good luck dear
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Probably not. Stop worrying about it though. You are a perfectly normal & healthy 18 year old.
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