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Okay I'm a female & I'm 14 turning 15 in a few months. Don't even start talking about my age cause I already know y'all are gonna be telling me I'm too young but I feel like I'm ready, so keep your hate to yourselves! My boyfriend is 17. We've been on and off a lot but lately things have been good. We both want to have sex. He's not a virgin but I am. We've done stuff before like fingering , hand jobs , blow jobs ( sorry to describe ) and whenever he does too deep with the fingering I usually bleed a bit. I feel like its because he's tearing my hymen a bit. Well we were going to have sex but I'm kind of scared to bleed a lot. He's gonna have a condom so I don't care if it goes on him but I don't wanna bleed a lot. Is there any way I won't have to bleed a lot? Also I'm embarrassed about my body. I have stretch marks in my thighs, sides, and my lower back kind of on my butt. He says he's gonna love me no matter what but some of those scars are from self harm. Also my inner thighs are a grayish blue color & I feel like he'd be disgusted. Any way to hide that? Or what might it be and is there treatment? Thanks.  (link)
im your age... I have the same problems, stretch marks, self harm scars, and embarrassment... me and my boyfriend want to have sex too but im holding back because of the same reason... but to be honost im ready, you just have to get over the embarrassment and do it... I think that's what is going to change your mind... and if afterwards he leaves then just realize that hes not right for you... if he does leave though youll have regret! and there is no treatment for the coloring on our legs im pretty sure it will end up going away as we age.... if you have any more questions feel free to ask me.... and I forgot if you want to cover up the coloring, stretch marks, or scars I use BB cream it works for a little but u have to reapply.... feel free to ask me anything thanks hope I helped!


I really want my period but I know nothing about it cause no one ever had the talk with me. I took some online quizzes and they said any day now but I need info about it. I don't know if this helps but I'm already wearing a real bra!
Btw I'm 11 (link)
okay this will happen eventually im 13 and i had my period in the 3rd grade...its not something you want... but it will happen just talk to a family member about it....(mom,aunt) they will help you and awnser your questions


Hey guy's got a serious question here. I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years we are expecting a baby girl in march. I am not ready for this type of commitment and would like to not piss away my twenties. Should I stick it out with her or break it off? it gets hard turning down girls and not being able to do the things I want. I will be there for the baby if we do break up though. What do you guys think? (link)
stay with her if you truley love her.... shes having your kid for crying out loud dont leave her thats just wrong... and normally no ones ready for a child you just have to prepare yourself... dont put her through that it will cause sooooooooooooooooooooo many problems stay with her


She has a boyfriend...I know I'm such a bad guy for this and she's such a cheating girlfriend for this too but we have sex almost every week. We're classmates, we eye contact like ALL the time in school during class or recess time. During our sexual activity we always pause. And have this frozen romantic moment. We also kiss each other in a very cheesy way after we're done.
Last night we were smoking after sex and I mentioned our moment and she said she loved it. Then we cuddled lying down on bed all night long and went to school together the next day.
I NEVER get enough of her. During school we're like 24/7 eye contacting and flirting or talking about our sex and stuff...
I don't know if she has feelings for me but I do for her. A lot! She means a lot to me. I think she'd pick her boyfriend over me though...
Any clue if she has any sort of love like feelings? (link)
if shes having sex with you she has feelings for you


I Have a boyfriend but I haven't kissed him yet, I want to practice on something but I don't know what. Any good ideas???? (link)
b4 i kissed my bf i thought i needed practice and it turns out you dont bc he took control and it was easy i just did the same thing he did to me its not hard you just have to focus no practice is really needed


Hey everyone. Well my boyfriend and I will be dating a month next Wendsday and I want to get him something for our 1 month anniversary but since we have only been dating a month I don't want to go overboard mabye something small . Does any body hsve any ideas? (link)
well my one month anniversary was today ani made him something... i took a deck of cards and cut index cards in half i glued one on the face and one on the other side... i wrote why i liked/loved him on the face side of the card then i numbered the other side... and when your all done hole punch the top corner and tie them together with ribbon he loved it you can even decorate/color the half of the index cards... hope youll try it!




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