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ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away? (link)
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OF COURSE! It's called emailing darling! lol but yeah I mean you can still talk on the phone and internet and stuff..and emailing is good too for long-distance and stuff..hope this helped!
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hey i have a tough decision to make. yes its tough for me. tomorrow (tuesday) i can either go to bible school or my softball leagues party. i really wanna go to both but they are at the same time. i already said id go to bible school but i also said id go to the party with my friend. will someone please help me decide and give me good reasons y i should go to what you chose? (link)
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Nobody here can decide for you what you should go to. Does bible school come every week? If so, then your softball leagues party would probably be a better choice. But whichever one you will have an oppertunity to go to in the future would most likely be the better choice. Hope this helped!
xoxo*london
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By the time people are around 20, do you recon they expect sex as part of a relationship? (link)
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most likely. If they have a strong relationship.
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Sometimes I feel like I'm being really rude to people, but I never know. When I say hello, it's kind of under my breath but I smile and I wave to whoever said hello to me. Sometimes someone will say hello when I'm out biking and I'm not sure if someone said hello to me or to someone else on the street, so I only turn and smile. I realized this at the supermarket when someone I didn't like too much said hi to me, and I said hi under my breath and gave a little wave. They moved by quickly, so it looked like I was waving over my shoulder. I want to seem less rude, but how? Am I even being rude? (link)
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your not being rude trust me! that's completely normal..if you think that you ARE being rude than try lifting your head up when you speak to them and say something like hey instead of hi and talk a little louder! hope this helped!! :)
xoxo*london
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welp, im going to ask this really hott guy out tomorrow and im so nervous...but i kno this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell people, wish me luck. *if we do start a relationship, our annaversery will be June 2nd! lol) WISH ME LUCK! i dunno why, but whoever wishes me luck, will get a rating of 5. :) (link)
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aww..good luck I'm SURE you'll do fine!
xoxo*london
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ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.
i rate high (link)
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I think that it sounds fine! Maybe a little childish but guys dont really usually notice that..go for it! :)
xoxo*london
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I really like this guy that I'm friends with already. He was dating my friend, but she broke up with him and said she wouldn't care if I asked him out. So I did, but he said no. I was heartbroken! Should I still be friends with him even though he broke my heart? (link)
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yes! it's just a good thing that this did not ruin your friendship with this guy! watch out though and if it get's to be weird than just take a year or two off from being friends and try to pick it up after a while..who knows, maybe he'll realize that he really does like you! good luck!! :)
xoxo*london
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ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
sincerely,
brokenlover (link)
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aww..that is perfectly understandable and normal! dont worry the feeling WILL pass! In the mean time just do anything that you enjoy to get your mind off of the subject..dont seclude yourself and spend hours at a time thinking. This will only make it worse and make you depressed most likely. You should try to focus on the things in life that make you happy! Hope this helps! :)
xoxo*london
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Every year our school has this "End of the Year Award Ceremony" thing, where you get awards for certain things from throughout the year, and some people perform. I am one of those people. My friend is playing the piano and I'm singing to Amazing Grace. I am so nervous!! Does anyone know of a way I can become less nervous and more comfortable when I go up to sing so my voice isn't cut short?
Signed,
Nervous Performer (link)
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Try right before you go onstage lay down in a dark room and relax. It really helps. Or if this helps you then you could try meditation before you go onstage..you dont have to do this in a religious way..just do it to relax.
xoxo*london
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me and my freinds are going to a really really fomal party tonight, i have a black gown im going to wear, andi think they are going to make my hair all curly, but what else should i do, like what sort of jewelry, how should i do my makeup, etc... thanks in advance!! (link)
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If you are going to do your hair curly then you should spice things up a little by adding some colorful jewlery so you dont look too plain. Try a turquoise/aqua blue color that color is very "in" this season..or try a red as another possibility. :)
xoxo*london
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would it be better for a brunette to go to a red shade? most of my friends are saying red instead of blonde...what do yall think is better? (link)
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Right now at least, the very red hair and pale skin is the style for models and runway designers. but you can never forget that the classic tan and blonde hair is always a beauty as well. for a brunette I would suggest a red tone but if you like both colors try going for a strawberry blonde! :)
xoxo*london
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alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it? (link)
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If you are going to try to change your reputation then you should:
-pick a goal on what you want people to think of you as
-start taking small steps to show people you are not a hooker and not ever going to be
-i would suggest getting an adult mentor to observe you and help you in the process of changing your reputation.
I hope this helped!
xoxo*london
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This guy who's friends with my ex really likes me. I told him I just think of him as a friend. He calls all the damn time and whenever i do pick up, he tells me, "Hey i was going to come over to your house today." Practically inviting himself over...i thought...wow..so i have no say in it at all
I told him i was stepping out and hung up.
But later on he called 8 times and the next day he showed up at my house, looking for me (so my brother tells me) while i wasn't home.
This has been going on for a week now.
The constant calling and coming over to see me and leaving me messages on the machine about wanting to "spend time with me" and "date me"
IT NEVER ENDS!!! I was wondering what anyone else thinks i can do. Anything that means he'll go away!!! (link)
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You should tell him STRAIGHT OUT that you dont like him. Say I dont like you and do not want to date you so please stop calling me and stop showing up at my house. Dont worry about being mean you just have to be firm about it!
xoxo*london
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ok there is this guy who is really nice and smart...we dont really talk and i havent thought of him as a love interest until recently..hes going to my parrty im having in a couple weeks..any advice on how i can see if he likes me too?any ideas of how i can flirt with him? (link)
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You should just be yourself. Make eye contact with him and make an effort to talk to him..find out what interests you and him have in common from his friends, family, etc. Then talk to him about whatever interests you both have in common. I hope this helped! :)
xoxo*london
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Ok I dont know how this happened but I am skinny with HUGE boobs! I'm not kidding all the guys go up to me and just stare I feel to uncompterble (sp) I wanted to get a boob reduction, but my mom wont let me! What should I do please please Help! (link)
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where big jackets..ANYTHING that will cover your boobs.
xoxo*london
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i really like this guy, but he said i need to talk to him more... what are some ideas to talk to him about.. like on the ohone.. i honeslty think we've coverd every topic!! but any ideas would be great!! thanks in advance!! (link)
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movies..upcoming events..anything interesting..
xoxo*brandi
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I need a new word to substitute for "amazing" because I use that wayyy too much. Any ideas? (link)
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glamourous, super, fabulous, perfect..go to www.dictionary.com and click on the little bubble under it that says thesauraus.
xoxo*london
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I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...
Please help.
[«3] Just Me (link)
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You seems like a girl who is responsible and goes with her inner feelings. If you believe in waiting on sex before marriage then wait...there's plenty of time for that when your married..and if you dont then go with whatever feels comftorable for you..and him..and good luck with his family!! :)
xoxo*london
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How do I get people at school to see the real me? Everybody judges me except for my friends. I love listening to hip hop and rap and people are give me a weird look when I tell them I just got the new 50 cent CD or whatever. They also drop there jaws when I cuss. They say, "Wow..I never knew you cussed! I thought that was against your religion or something!" Just because I'm a christian doesn't mean I try to be perfect or anything...I am just like everybody else. And people also think that I am really reserved and I'm not AT ALL! I'm very gregarious and open..at least when I'm around my friends. They see the real me but most people just judge me. What can I do so that people won't be so judgemental? I was thinking that maybe it would help if I was a little more talkative at school w/ people who aren't necessarily my friends so people can see my other side. It just really pisses me off when people judge me this way! (link)
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whenever somebody says that just say well I guess I just proved you wrong! and smile. Be confident and dont let anybody know it's getting to you and soon enough you will feel that it's not getting to u anymore either.
xoxo*london
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Theres this guy...we'll call him bobby...and hes new to my school(a couple of months) and he's admitted to me that he liked me but the other day i found out that i wasn't the only girl that he said that to (actually about 7 other girls). I really like him though. Should i still date him or just try to forget about it all? (link)
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no if he liked you so much than he would think of you as the one and only. it's not genuine. You deserve somebody special and he's obviously not.
xoxo*london
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