about

The name is JESSiCA but known as Jess, bunni or blonde. I stand 5'4. I got brown hair and brown eyes [glasses].


I'm always in a good mood, always smiling and laughing. I like meeting new people. I have an EARRINGS fetish. I love music, and I like listening to it REALLY loud. I like being random. I am hyper 98% of my day. I like late-night T.V. I absolutely LOVE when it rains, the smell is sooo awesome. I love to stick my toes in the ocean whenever I get a chance. I love to be kissed, and held. I'm not much into fashion, or the latest 'trends' I prefer to wear whats comfy to me. In my silly little head, almost every thing is goooorgeous.


I'm a VERY indecisive person, one day I'll want to save the world, and the next I'll be soO lazy. =]p I'm a nice person, sometimes TOO nice. I can't help it, I have a huge heart and I love [almost] everyone.


I may look like an innocent chicka, but believe me, I got my wild side ;) I love partying, clubbing and having fun!


Got any questions? Just leave it in my inbox and I'll get back to you.

advice

what are sum programs to download any type of music?

bearshare works

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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.

thanks. i rate 5's

first use an anti-frizz serum. the straighten it with a flat iron.

hope i helped. please rate.

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okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.

well..if ur a virgin then yeh it will hurt a lot at first...but the more you do it..the better it gets.

hope i helped. please rate =]

--jESSiCA*

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my boyfriend wants to have sex. but i don't know if i'm ready for it. what should i say to him?

you should just tell him your not ready for it. plain and simple.

hope i helped. please rate =]

--jESSiCA*

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me and my dad always fight. he hates my boyfriend and all of my friends. what should i do?

talk to your dad about it and tell him that no matter what you love your boyfriend and all of your friends. if you didn't think they were good to hang out with then you wouldn't be hanging out with them anyways so it really doesn't matter.

hope i helped. please rate =]

--jESSiCA*

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I have a boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 6 years
Were both virgins and our realonship is great
But the other day everything seemed right and we went to have sex
But when we were going to do it my mom walked in
It was very embaressing and everything
We didnt even know she came into the house
But its been about a month now
and he doesnt try anything sexual anymore
Even if were at his place or anywhere
And if I try anything he pushes me away
Now im really starting to worry about him

Does anyone know any information to help me?

you should talk to your boyfriend about. i mean the key factor in a great relationship is communication right? talk to him hun.

hope i helped. pelase rate =]

--jESSiCA*

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sooo i was thynkin one day ..
can dudes pee w|out holdin on 2 thea ding-a-ling?? can they ???

if not y ...


& can dudes pee sittin down without shootin out of da toilet ??

well..they can pee actually w| out holdin it..it just might get a lil messy..

and yeh they can sit down on the toliet like girls..they just gotta tuck that thingy in to the bowl..

hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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i am OBSESSED with CHRiS BR0WN & imma marry him & hav kids wit him & yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
its possible ryte ryte ryte ???

well..duh!
anything is possible

hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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i gots dis frend dat has whyte hairs alreadii
& hes onlii 15 ... y ?!?!? lols

well..you can tell him to dye his hair with hair dye or he could always pluck them out with tweezers..or he can buy a new hat!

hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?

thanks

i rate!

well..this site might help you.

http://myjellybean.com/flirt/phone.html

hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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15/f

I just had sex for my first time 2 nights ago. I'd like to get checked by the doctor for any diseases. Is it possible for me to ask a doctor and get a test done without my parents knowing anything? Including the results. Even if the results came out positive, I want it to be kept secret. Do you know if doctors tell parents this kind of information?

it really depends on the disease. like say you got HIV or AIDS, then they would defintly need to tell ur parents because it is a life threating disease. but if it were syfilis or sumthing like that..i'm pretty sure they don't need to tell them.

hope i helped =]

--jESSiCA*

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so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate

i know how that feels hun. i went through the same thing but i never gave into it. what i did was that i told him that i wanted more outta the relationship then just sex and he was hesitant at first but then he got the jift on what i was saying. so talk to ur man. =]

hope i helped

--jESSiCA*

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Sir,

I want to know that during pregnancy is intercourse is possible.
I am married and my wife is 12 week pregnant, may I have sex with her.
I also know detail about Intercourse during all weeks of pregnancy till delivery? thank you

Asif Jah
a_sifjah@yahoo.com

yes it is possible. infact it makes for an esier labor.

hope i helped..please rate =]

--jESSiCA*

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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


Thanks
Tami

there is no "legal" age to have sex. it all depends on your maturity level and how comfortable you are in the situation.

--jESSiCA*

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Can you have sex if you're 3 months pregnent?

yes you can..
&& it is even better for an easier labor when you are a few days before ur due date.

hope i helped =]

--MENiNA*

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Hey, i have a girlfriend who i will be going out with for about 3 months on Xmas. I was wonderin if any of yall had any romantic ideas? not gift wise, but like something to do? im 17 shes 16.

aww well i think its really sweet that you wanna do sumthing special for your girl..that tells her that she can always be suprised by you and it keeps thigns interesting..=]

some romantic ideas would be:

1) You can get 3 boxes ranging in size from big to small..and i have her open this huge box for her..have her open it..and it be another box..and keep doing this until she gets to the 3rd smallest box..there, in the box, you can put something like maybe a necklace..or sumthing small you know that she would love.

2) You can give her 24 real roses..and 1 fake rose and say to her..when the last rose dies..that's when i'll stop loving you..

3) You can make her a little scavenger hunt..you can start from the place where you first met her..then make her go to at least 4 or 5 different locations that you 2 love being together in..and at each spot..write her a little sumthing..

EXAMPLE:: if you met her at a fair or a carnival..you can write sumthing saying..
"you stood out to me out of all those people..your big (color of her eyes) eyes caught my soul and my heart forever.." and at the last location you send her to..you must be there with a gift that you know she'll love..



hope i helped =]

X0OX
MENiNA*

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My breasts began to get bigger around May. I went from 22 A to a 28C in around a month. Now I have little purplish reddish lines on them. They look like little scratch marks leading from the nipple out on. I have the 3 marks on each breast. The 3 scratch marks are on one side of the nipple. What are these? Are they just stretch marks or something, will they go away ???

these my friend are stretch marks..they are perfectly normal because ur skin is stretchin because your breasts are growing..and since it was in that short of time..thats why they have that color..they most likey will go away..but if not they have lotions out that make stetch marks go away..
hope i helped =]

X0OX
MENiNA*

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Hey what if someone wanted to have sex and u didnt want to and they layed you on his bed should you have sex of call for help?


DO NOT LET SOMEONE TELL YOU YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX IF YOU DON'T WANNA!!

however, if u do wanna then go ahead..but use a condom! =]

X0OX
MENiNA*

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Hi
I'm 15 years old and i've had my period for a little bit over a year now. I have always used pads, but i'd really like to start using tampons. But there's only one problem, im so scared of them. I've tried using the before, but im just scared to leave something up there...please help me. Are there small tiny tampons for teens to use? im sooo freaked out.

please help

ill rate hight

thanks

hmm...tis is a tricky one..
tampons are better used when you are NOT a virgin. they are easier to use in your vagina because it isn't, how should i say..closed up anymore..the skin has been broken so it is much easier..so i'd stay away from tampons until you lose ur virginity..

however..if you are not a virgin..i'd stay to the tiny tampons made by tampax..those were made for teens or people with small vaginas..

hope i helped

xo0x
MENiNA*

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