I find myself caring way too much about what other people say, especially when it comes to my family. Last night I cried myself to sleep because two of them had said something nasty about my boyfriend -- which I should be used to, since they've loathed my boyfriend from the day I met him four years ago and they've made no secret of it. I really can't go on like this, getting upset every time they say something nasty to me (not just about my boyfriend, anything). What are little tricks you can play with yourself so you don't care quite so much about what other people say?
I don't think you stop yourself from caring but I think you should tell them how it makes you feel when they say these mean things. Teir your family and shouldn't say mean things like that about you or your boyfriend. good luck. Leave one in my inbox if you need anything from the advice chick
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I don't know if anyone could possibly give me any tips but .. everytime I curl my hair, I part my hair into two parts on each side of my neck. The right side always looks perfect but, for some reason, the left side always comes out flat with a little bit of curl to it - not like the ringlets that come out on the right side. Is there anything special I can do to prevent this?
you should get someone in your family to do your hair for you because I don't think many people can do it perfectly themselves. from the advice chick
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My friend and I want to record all of our memories on a skirt and frame it. However, we're clueless on some cute ideas for what to do. We don't want to just put our insiders on it in permenant marker we want something creative. You guys got any ideas?
You could stick pics and stuff on and get little sequence and glue them around the border of your pics. You could use gel pens or coloured permenent markers and write what each photo represents you guys did hope I helped from the advice chick
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Hi, my name is Ali. My mom is taking me to a hair salon to get my highlights touched up. I have dirty blonde hair and blonde highlights. Could someone please give me ideas on what else I could do to my hair. Like maybe dye it or add different color highlights. If you want a picture of me just ask.
thanks in advance =)
I think you should go brunette. Believe it or not I am actually a natural blonde. But bleaching your hair blonde will eventually distroy your hair. My friend was like a natural dirty blonde. Then she died it like white blonde and it wouldn't grow and it always looked sizzled. Then she died it a dark color and her hair started to look much better and much fuller and much more helthy. It is never a good idea to bleach your hair good luck from the advice chick.
Leave one in my inbox if you have any more questions thanx and best of luck!
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well my dog, molly, is a shitz tzu. and so well she pees and pooops in this certain room for aber 7 years +
and so for those 7 years, we cleaned it off the floor, maybe let it sit for a hour or 2 so i dont abrf (i barf over that smell)
today my hosue smells like shit.... dog piss. so i never have ANY friends over! its not fair!
and the hard wood floor is cracking... does anyone know how much it would be to get a new hard wood floor for about 100' 100' room? for a nice smooth wood?
&& if you dont, do you know any REALLY good clraning products? like i know 409, and that shit, but do you know a expensive one that acually goes on wood and works?
also, any GREAT strong air fresheners? becasue its so strong you can barf when yyou walk into the house!
so any suggestions? i tried frebreeze, it is to not sented and doesnt work thats how discusting it smells.. like any REALLY good air fresheners?
ill rate 5's for good answers!
I think that you should send your dog to doggy obedient school and teach it to piss and shit outside!!!! I know everyone probably gave you that advice but it will work!!!!!!
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I am a 14 female so I don't know if that is going to help. I have a little sister who is 8. Me and her usually get along great, we don't fight unless we mess around with each other. I love messing with her and she likes it too because that is the only time we have to be together and act stupid. I don't have much time now that school started, so we don't talk too much. I don't play with her as much. I am not allowed to get on the computer when my parents are home so I get on when they go somewhere. My sister never really minded this but lately she has been telling on me on a lot of things that I do wrong. Sometimes she even makes up lies up about what I do. My parents are really getting annoyed. They think I am changing in a bad way. I don't know what to do anymore. My sister is always telling me how she hates me and wants me to die. She doesn't even want to be in the same room as me or eat the same food as me. What is her problem? Can someone help me please.What do I do?
Your the older one here take charge. Play her game. Every time your sister comes close to doing something wrong tell one her. Make up lies like she does. If you try talking to her it will never work because little bratts like that don't understand. I am 15 and I have an 11 year old sister and she is really anoying! but just try be nice to her I guess.
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ok im 13 and a female. my period is three months late! its has been coming steady and iv had it since i was 11 so i shouldnt have missed it. I told my mom and she said i could be pregnant but iv never had sex before! the farthest iv got with a guy is makeing out i wont even let him take my shirt off. im worried that it is something serious. i know it could be stress because im under a lot this month but i wasnt last month OR the month before. somethings really wrong i know it. if i dont get it this month then what am i meant to do? im afraid to ask my mom to take me in to the doctor's about this and my family doctor is a guy! please help what should i do?! and im very sorry this is so long.
**sleepiesheep**
Well I am 15 and I know that sometimes if you are doing alot of physical activity like dance and if you are very skinny your pereod can stop. it isn't a big deal unless you are pregnent and by the sounds of things your not. Maybe ask your friends if they have excperienced this before
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Okay, here what I need help with..see I live with my mom and my grandma and we have 2 cats. We havent had a dog sense our last dog Max died. That was like 2 years ago and I have asked my mom if I can get a dog and shes like no..you have 2 cats you dont even take care of. I do take care of them. How do I show her that I am responsible enough where I can have a dog and take care of my 2 cats..I would do anything to have a dog. It would take like 2 days to get attached and yeah..I just want a dog!! Please Help me!!
I rate high!!
xoxo
Tell your mum that dogs are way more offectionat than cats and you want a full time pet not one that just comes and goes like a cat. if she is worried that the cats and the dog won't get along tell that the dog will respect the cats because they were their first and normaly dogs will respect the cats in these cases. tell her that you want a small dog and that she won't have to lift a finger to help you with it. also you could rais some money to put into bying a dog and show her how commited you are. I sugest a king charls spanial they are clean and easy to keep! good luck e mail me and tell me how it turns out
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im 14/f and i want to get a job but i dont know any. i tried looking it up on the internet but i didnt get anything ill rate 5! and leave good comments! thanks so much!
you are 14 and a half you are old enough now to work at like coles go out do it! but not full time remember school comes first good luck the advice chick
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For a little over a year, I've been trying to train my voice myself. I would like to get voice lessons, but that would take the place of guitar lessons.
My question is: How can I build support with my voice? I can't sing very loud or I go out of tune.
And do you have any other tips for singing?
Thanks much in advance!
Well I personaly think that pinapple juce helps and you are right with the caffien. not so much the caffien but the dairy milk. If your going for any kind of singing comp or anything lesson whatever never drink milk or eat chocolate within 24 hours before you perform nothing dary. thanx for the ratings you can Email me anytime by replying this message if you have any other questions. P.s it's really great you are getting a vocal coatch But be wise with who you choose. If you are into pop singing you should find someone who deals with pop. But if your into classical singing you should find a classical vocal coatch and I don't mean old. You should also form a bond with them and let them know what songs you like to sing good luck and have fun, You will go far from the advice chick
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I'm a 12 year old with the biggest dream!! I want to become a singer so bad. I have the right voice. All my friends and family wanted me to try American Juniors, but my school district had a strike and now we dont get out of school until July 19th!! Too late for American Juniors!! please help!!
~Amy~
Well I am a singer and I am 15 I don't live in America. I can advice this. I go to a special school for singers, half the day is achedemic and the other half is music. You should try out to get into a music school forget the American juniors go for the school!!!!!! have fun and use your gift to shine from the advice chick p.s I would love to here what kid of songs you like to sing !
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My Mom & Dad are having problems. Atleast that's what my Mom said. My Dad is worried about money issues and is mad at my Mom for not having a stable job (she helps the hospice with living assistence and doesn't get solid hours) He's also worried about my Mom's heart procedure coming up. She's getting her heart..."zapped"..I guess you could say..And he won't talk to me anymore. He shows no emotion other than anger. When he goes out he just leaves without saying where he is going. And he totally favors my sister, even though he says he doesn't. For my birthday this summer (august), he didn't get me anything. And my sister's birthday is in March..and he just recently bought her TWO electric guitars...and she doesn't even play!!! I just get so mad around him and I want him too atleast talk to me...at my softball game I got a homerun and he didn't say anything. I just don't know what too do anymore. =-/
You should defenatly confront him, I don't know if he will listen but if he does do it calmly. you maybe should talk to your sister to. She might be able to ask your dad why he favours her. This is wrong and you have to sort it out If you have any other problems you can always E-mail me back and I will try my best to answer your question. from the advice chick
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i plugged in my ipod video. after 5 minutes nothing happend, so i went to the toolbar at the bottom [ i use windows xp ] and manually made it so that it would disconnect. it sed it was safe to, but on my ipod it still said it wasnt. i disconnected it and nothing happend. the screen that says do disconnect is still there, and when i did this it was on hold, so no buttons or anything works. its not on hold anymore. what should i do - will give five for ideas that work.
well you should get a refund on a crapy item because everyone knows you can't spen lot's of money on un working products and no I don't want 5
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Whats a good way to lose weight that works and takes little time? What kind of foods do i eat? Or should i eat at all? If any one can give me some good ways to lose weight fast that actually works..that would be amazing!! I'll rate all 5's!!
thanx!
You should never stop eating because your body says your starving and that you need food and you actually end up eating more that you were before. You should eat healthy excersize and if you still don't lose weight you should see your doctor because you should be loseing weight. But to anilize the problem properly I need to see what tecneques you have been using to lose weight. E-mail me your tecneqs and I will give you an answer of what to do from the advice chick!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.
Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.
Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.
Please get some reason that would explain this!
Well I think it is a good sign if he is worried. He obviesly loves you very much. Maybe he just needs a little reasurig. Show him that he is the only one for you and I garunte he will stop worrying so much. from the advice chick
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