Member Since: January 7, 2006
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Alrighty. So my junior year of college I developed a most excellent friendship with this guy, a senior, who we'll call Joe. Joe and I got really close and I asked him to my prom, and we were both on a band trip for a month that summer, so eventually we got together. Joe went to college 2 hours from home and we managed to make the long distance thing work for a while. As much as I loved Joe, he wasn't the greatest boyfriend... he rarely called/IMed/e-mailed, and I sent letters all the time, never to receive any back. I visited him a few times and he came home once or twice.
I thought we were doing ok til I went to visit March my senior year and he was really distant, and then in the beginning of April (this would be 2005) he dumped me over the phone, kinda out of the blue. I found a few things online and assumed he cheated on me, blah blah, we had a fight, and made up, and I know now he didn't cheat on me, and we still get along, which is good because we have a tight-knit group of friends who still hang out together on breaks.
So the problem with this is, I'm still having problems getting over him. We went out for pretty much a year and a half, and I know that I deserve better treatment and more attention than what I got... but it's difficult to hang out with him without thinking back to our relationship, and I often get super jealous of other girls I suspect he's interested in. I don't want to believe he's over me, but I know that I'm fooling myself, and I feel like a really pathetic person. I know there's no easy way to solve this, but any advice on how to "get over" him as more than just a friend would be appreciated. (link)
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I also had a friend like same situation as you.. They have same friends and when they broke up, it was really hard for her because they always see each other at school, and like what i said, they do have same friends.. I think you should just ignore him for a while, i know it's hard but try to do it.. When he talks to you then cool, but if he doesn't, then ignore him too.. CAn't you hang out with other friends that doesn't know him or doesn't hang out with him? If so, then start hanging out with them.. I think your friends will understand what you feel. Just explain to them what you feel.. CAuse i know that it really hurts seeing your love flirting with other girls or something like that.. So don't punish your self about this.. Don't think of him too much and be busy.. There are still lots of guys there that will like you.. You're a special girl, so you also need a special treatment.. Smile and be happy..
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Well, I like this boy who I liked forever!. I'm 18/f.
I liked this boy named Nick for a LONG time. I mean like seven years. Since my 5th Grade. I never told my friends because they think I got over him after middle school. I still have feelings for him. I know this will sound too juvenille, but I told him I liked him in 5th Grade. He never said anything.
During middle school, I didn't really see him too much. Whenever I would pass him, he would act so cool and mean around me. Well, not really mean, but sarcastic. Like he would say "Get out of my way!" In a sarcastic way. He still does that. I know this sounds kinda eager, but I think he likes me.
I REALLY like him. I never liked anyone else. If I did, I still liked Nick.
Please help me!!!
Signed,
Loving Long (link)
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Oh... I don't think he likes you... If he does, he would be nice to you, that's what i think... SAying "GET OUT OF MY WAY" is really mean.. Ok, why don't you talk to him and tell him what you feel about him? If he feels the same way too then cool... But if he doesn't, move on.. There are still so many guys that would love you in return. If he doesn't like you then you're too good for him, enough said..
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ok my best guy friend told me he loves me over and but then my girl friend asked him out he said yes. he dumped her the next day and stuff. but i asked him out and he wont go out with me! he still tells me he loves me and i love him very much too. im starting to think he is lieing about loveing me. do you think hes lieing? i need help!
**sleepiesheep** (link)
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hello... I really think that he's just playing with you.. If he really loves you then he would go out with you.. And you can't trust that kind of guy. He went out with your girlfriend and dump her the next day... That's insane.. You'll get better guy who truly loves you... Don't worry... Take Care and Goodluck..
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