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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)
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there is this boy that i really like hes gonna be a junior im gonna be a freshmen. my friends think hes too old. do u?
jaclyn
o by the way i found out he told his friends he likes me!
what should i do?
i don't think he's too old. i'm actually a freshman dating a junior, and it's fine with my friends. actually, my friends really likes him, so they all get along pretty well. :]
if he really does like you, he's most likely gonna ask you out, hopefully sometime soon. say yes, if you really like him. as for your friends. i think they should understand your situation. just because he might be a little older doesn't mean he's not good for you. it would be good to make sure they're all friends with each other to avoid having to choose between your friends vs. the guy.
good luck!
Im a white 17/F..and i like a black guy name Tyron..the more i see him and spend time with him the more i like him...we both know we are very attracted to eachother and we want to date but there is one big problem..my parents..my dad already told me that i was forbidden to date a black guy..and my mom is worried that i will date one..im soo upset because im not the racist type..when i see Tyron i dont see black..i just see HIM. Hes a wonderful guy..im sooo hurt over this..what should i do?
i'm going through the same thing you are right now. only i'm asian, which actually makes it worse, since i'm not supposed to be dating at all til after high school. but i'm pretty much disobeying them. this guy i'm with, he's black, is probably the best guy i've ever met and i'm not letting him go. my friends like him and think he's great, too, so i know i did right choosing him. i think that breaking the rules are necessary, despite the consequences, because things will be worse if you don't follow your heart.
if you need anything else about this, just message me. good luck!
i want to put picture quotes and stuff in my picture caption. i tried the code
but it dosent seem to work for me. i see other people that have it themselves on myspace but, they dont wanna help. i kno they use tinypic that's all i know. when i put that code in the box and press save cganges, this is what shows up "" two quotations :( ... Please help me!!!
well, that's the right code. assuming you know how to use the code, this is what i think the problem is. i used to use tinypic, but lately, it's hasn't been working for picture quotes. so i switched to imageshack.us. it's the same as tinypic, but imageshack actually works for picture quotes. try that out, and if that doesn't work, let me know!
Theres a song that goes SOMETHING(not sure if these are the real words) like this:
do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
do you feel better now, when she falls to the ground?
Can you give me the artist, lyrics & the name of that song?
thankss!
that's called Face Down by the Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
here's the lyrics::
Hey girl you know you drive me crazy
one look puts the rhythm in my hand.
Still I'll never understand why you hang around
I see what's going down.
Cover up with make up in the mirror
tell yourself it's never gonna happen again
you cry alone and then he swears he loves you.
Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now, as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.
A pebble in the water makes a ripple effect
every action in this world bear a consequence
If you wait around forever you will surely drown
I see what's going down.
I see the way you go and say you're right again,
say you're right again,
heed my lecture.
[ Lyrics found on http://www.metrolyrics.com ]
Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.
Face down in the dirt she said, this doesn't hurt she said I finally had enough.
Face down in the dirt she said, this doesn't hurt she said I finally had enough.
One day she will tell you that she has had enough, It's coming round again.
Do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.
Do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.
Face down in the dirt she said, this doesn't hurt she said I finally had enough.
15/F
at gym, we had to run 5 laps and i got out of breath.... i like running but i can only run so much, so i figured i should build up my stamina. i asked my mom if i could be one of those morning joggers, but she said no even when i told her i would stay on our street! if i run in the backyard, i have to dodge dog poop, trees, and my trampoline, plus i have to run in circles. i don't like running in circles.
i can't go to the high school track field everyday, and i can't join a gym or whatever.
how can i run everyday?
i really should do something to stay in shape, and i want to try running a little bit.
but where?
how can i convince my mom to let me run just on our street?
it would be so cool 'cause i have an ipod and i could use my moms athletic shoes.
what do i do
you can always go to the park, if there's one close to where you live. i get why your mom would be protecting you; you cannot know your neighborhood enough, you know? anyway. try going to the park. if you have younger siblings, you can get them to go with you, too, and they can play there with your mom or something. running on the street isn't the only way you can run. find places where there are people around, so there's a lesser chance of anything bad happening.
hope i helped.
anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot?
for me, i really like it when guys would kiss/peck my neck and go up to my cheeks, then to my lips. i really get turned on when a guy would touch my breasts gently, you know? yea, legs. it really does depend on the girl, like the other advicenators said.
heeyy guyss,
would any of you reccomend any good books?
i like mostly teen fiction.
i don't know what kind of books you're into, but i've read a lot of pretty good books lately. one of them is called Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys. i really enjoyed it. any books by Sarah Dessen turns out to be one of the best books. Nicholas Sparks if you ever want romance. TTYL and TTFN by Lauren Myracle; truly, it isn't too good, but it's different-ish. and if you ever want to let out a good cry, Lurlene McDaniel has the saddest books, but i enjoy reading them because it's somehow inspirational and it turns out it might relate to you.
hope you like them!
ok my rele good friends now has a girlfriend i was happy for him because he has been rejected so many times but ney way i rele dont no the girl i think she is cool because she asked him out so anyway this happened during spring break so i just found out a while ago because i was away so now i found myself checkin his myspace like sum jealous gf but i would never go wit him i dunno if im like protecting him or sumfin i dunno
and when me and him saw her in the hallway he just lefted and dint even introduce her to me im not sure whether he should but it is weird when she is there so i just walk off i feel like i have to compete for him i fell rele pathetic i could say more but i need help.
i'm not sure if you like him or if it's just plain jealousy. i would think it's just jealousy. i've had enough experiences where one of my guy friends gets a girlfriend and i'm stranded in lala land thinking if i like him or not. don't look too much into it. even though he has a girlfriend and you think you might be jealous, it might be just that. don't mistake love/lust for jealousy. what i mean is just because you are jealous doesn't mean you have feelings for him. sometimes, when you're really good friends with somebody, you feel different if that friend starts hanging out with somebody else. just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean yall can't be friends anymore. all you can really do is show him how good a friend you are. always being there for him when he needs somebody to talk to, and if he talks to you about his girlfriend, remember that he's telling you all this because you're his friend and he trusts you. they will most likely not last together forever, but if you play your cards right and always be there for him, you two will last for such a longer time and may end up as something more.
hope i helped!
umm...ok hi.
i like this boy Dakota and he likes me. and wen wnt out for about 2 months but too much drama got started so we broke ^. but we REALLY want to go bak out but we r afraid that if we do drama will get started again but we still REALLY like each other....plezz help. we r just....so lost..
you can never get away from drama. i know somebody who switched schools because there was too much drama in the old one. but then she realized that drama is everywhere. you can't get out of it. now, if you two like each other so much, get back together. drama isn't gonna stop no matter what. if anything at all, drama teaches you to ignore the bad and cherish the good. i went out with this guy once, and once we did, everybody kept going up to me asking why i'm going out with him, is it a bet, etc. i just ignored them, saying i have my reasons, and if you don't like me and him together, well then, too bad. we stayed together for about 6 months. that was about 2 yrs ago, and i still wish i didn't break up with him. drama got between us. we ended up going to different schools the next grade and i heard something about him flirting with other girls and stuff, so i broke up with him. but i should've known that he's not that kind of person. and i still am sorry with what i did.
you don't want to regret not being with him especially if you like him so much. drama and gossip is not a reason to let go of somebody you like. so go on and go out with him, and prove the people wrong!
i want to hook up with this guy at the movies. i have hooked up before but never like sitting doen facing the same direction as the guy. how do i move my body to hook up with him? if he puts his arm around my shoulders what do i do next? how can i get him to kiss me?
if he puts his arms around you, put your head on his chest. it'll make him know you're interested. if you wanna kiss him, try teasing him. do something like, bite your lips while looking at him with a smile in your eyes, you know? or like, whisper to him something like, can i kiss you? or just make the first move yourself. kiss him in the cheek first, maybe close to kis mouth, then see if he would kiss you back. then just go from there.
Me and my boyfriend have only made out so far. If we were going to do anything further, would it be weird to do it at the movies? I just mean him fingering me or me giving him a hand job. The movies is the only place I can think of that is possible for us to be able to do anything like that. Any other places?
i actually did this about 2 years ago. me and my boyfriend then went to the movies. we made out, but then he started fingering me. it wasn't really all that weird since there was like, 3 other people watching the movie, and they were all very far from us. it was kinda awkward at first, and i got a little nervous since somebody might see us and get us in trouble. but it didn't turn out too bad. i liked it, and it was great. if you don't have any other places, though the movies isn't all that romantic, you can try. just don't do it when there's a lot of people around you and stuff. don't wanna get caught doing all that naughty stuff at the movies. other places. the park maybe? or somewhere secluded. as long as it's with that significant other, it doesn't matter so much. just don't overdo it.
this boy really likes me and is apparentely goign to ask me out. Im not sure what to do, i really really like him but im not sure if i can be in a relationship right now because of other peoples cocky comments like haha hes going out with her! what shall i do, shall i say yes or no?
the advisors before me gave really good advices already. but i wanted to give you my personal point of view of this, b/c this happened to me with my first boyfriend.
it was two years ago, when we were 6th graders. he told one of my friends that he was gonna ask me out soon, and my friend told me. my friend wasn't really supposed to tell me, but atleast it made me prepare to what i was gonna say. it was my first boyfriend, after all. he asked me out friday, and by monday, everybody knew about it. everybody came up to me and asked me, "are you really going out with *****?! EWWW. why him?!" blah blah blah. honestly, at first it got to me. but then i was like, "they're criticisms doesn't make my life. i make my own decisions. good ones and bad ones. if this turns out as a bad one, atleast it was my decision and not everybody around me. they would just have to get used to seeing us together, b/c it's not gonna change anytime soon."
i'm glad i didn't listen to them. we went out for almost 6 months. not bad for a first-timer, huh? we were only 12 then, so it was pretty long for our age. and it really surprised everybody how long we went out. afterwards, we didn't talk to each other. i still have feelings for him, for he was my first boyfriend and kiss. but nowadays, we're kinda friends.
never let other people's bad voice get in the way of what you want. if you like him, say yes. it's not gonna do anything bad to you, other than teach you. if it doesn't work out, then that's it. stay friends as long as you can, cuz you'll want it.
hope i helped!
go ahead and message me if you need anything else.
Should i send this to the girl i really like. she has been sending me the most confusing signals possible!
" , I hope what I can write here will clear things up a bit. I apologize for causing distress. I am to much of a character to not rip apart the people I wish to do only good for. But there are things I do I regret, and actions I take which I don’t know why. All I want is you. for all your amazing personality traits and amazing attributes. There is nothing I think I can do to win your love. Nothing would feel right around you. ther is always this qua-zay odd feeling. One of those people who I don’t hug when we depart, yet the one who I would love to embrace for an eternity. Why is there such distance. I kno I say things I barely mean, and even make you wonder about how much you really are attracted to me. Because I get confused between love of the person and desire. I want all that you provide, and I have no good means of obtaining it. I think that if the feeling of attraction was equal you may be willing to help me get through the rough patches. If this is true, how do I bring them about. How can I get it so there is no uneasiness between us. No need to hide my emotions. And no need to draw them out. I can provide almost everything you ask of me. Just ask. I already inquired about your actions but I don’t understand your answers. Why hold back when it comes to me. What have I done to receive such treatment? What do I strike you as. Do you really think this way? Why not openly talk about this. And just accept the truth of the answer. "
awww. yes, i think you should. if a guy gives me that, i would probably cry. it's sweet. i think she would love it. i know i did. and if things doesn't go your way with her, just know you tried. that's all you can really do.
good luck!
13/f, kinda popular.
so i am desperatley in love with this guy
i have liked him since last year. we have been pretty good friends. my friends have told him alot of times about me liking him but he just ignores it. my guy friend is friends with him and tryed really hard to get us to go out but he didn't. then this girl asked him out and he was pressured to say yes because everyone new she asked him. then a couple weeks later he broke up with her and said that he never really liked her and that she was annoying. i kinda stopped liking him during that time but now i sit by him in science and fell for him again. i no i can never forget him so i really need help. i cant just go up and ask him to go out with me because i am really shy with guys, but i have talked to him as friends. a school dance is coming up if that helps. i really need your help asap! thanks in advance!~
that's perfect. i've had this happen to me. i fell in love with my best guy friend. it wasn't easy. i ended up asking him out, but he rejected me. you should ask him to go to the dance, if he's not really a go-to-dance person. MAKE him go, if he really doesn't wanna. just make sure he goes. then, when he is there, ask him to dance with you in a slow dance. just talk to him. easy-talk, you know. like, "hey. how's it going? you liking the dance?" blah blah blah. it's one step to being closer with him, even for 3 minutes. before and after the dance, you should keep talking to him. get to know him better, be a better friend, since yall are already good friends. you should wait, though. since you know that you like him, it's up to him to feel the same to you. if you ask him out at the wrong time, that might be the end of that. and you can't really afford that right now. if he asks you out, and you don't like him anymore, it'll give him something to think about - why he never asked you earlier, etc. just wait. patience is the key. yea, very cliche, but it's true.
hope i helped.
if you need anything else, just message me!
Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lsaying on a couch watching a movie and while we were facing eachother i whispered i love you. (this was the first time either of us has said it in person) and he just kinna smiled and kissed me. now i'm not 100% sure he heard me but it seems like he did.
should i see this as a bad thing? i expected him to say i love you too. please tell me what you think. thanks.
i guess you shouldn't really expect anything as big as that. but then again, it kinda depends on how long yall have been together. it's not really a bad thing; don't worry about it. my first boyfriend that told me i love you was when we were dating for a little more than a month. i didn't say it back to him until a month later. i guess he was expecting an i love you back, but i didn't say it to him cuz i didn't know if i felt the same way for him. but throughout our relationship, i realized that i did feel the same way, and started saying i love you back. just be patient. he'll say it. it's better to wait for it, than have him say it without meaning it. hope i helped!
if you need anything else, just message me!
heyy, okay well im 13.
i really like this boy in my class and last year in 7th grade i thought he liked me to. i mean we started to become really close friends last year and i had a feeling that something good was going to happen. but then school was over and the summer started, i saw him a couple of times and we hung out a little but then in 8th grade [he was in most of my classes] he just became very distant and started hanging out with a different set of people. we still talk but it's talking like we just met and i still like him. what do i do? how do i rebuild the friendship that we had?
this just happened to me. feels really crappy, doesn't it? knowing that you can't even talk to your friend the way you used to? yea.
well, good thing is, you still talk. even a little is good enough to start with. just talk to him more often. since you have enough classes to talk to him at, take the advantage. he might be feeling the same way, if you were really that good of friends.
in my experience, what i did was to just come up and talk to him as much as possible. it was VERY AWKWARD, and you can't help that. but ever since then, it just kept getting better and better. talk about what you used to talk about. maybe say something like, "remember that time when ....." bring back old memories. funny ones, mostly.
act like you like him, but don't make it too obvious. be a little more flirty towards him. he'll get the message, i'm sure. if not, well, there's always confrontation - just tell him you like him. but, through personal experiences, don't do that unless it's the last resort. telling a friend your feelings for them doesn't always help your friendship. so just keep talking to him. it's better than acting like strangers with each other. if it was as bad as it can get, it can only be better from now on.
hope i helped!
if you have any other questions or whatever, just message me!
i'm with my very first boyfriend. i've been with him a couple weeks and everything has been great. except one thing, i hardly ever see him. i've only seen him once and we've been dating since the end of Febuary. I really want to see more of him, but i don't really know what to do. almost all of my friends have a girlfriend or boyfriend (guys and girls btw) and they've already been saying "i love you" and stuff. I guess i just feel kind of prude because i've never even got kissed before. i'm kind of afraid to be kissed too..even though i know he wants too. and i really want to go for it. but how do you do it?
don't follow everything your friends do. just because they say "i love you" to their "significant other" doesn't mean you have to. most of the people i know, they say i love you to their boyfriend/girlfriend, but at the end of the relationship, they act like they never liked the person they were with and stuff. my first boyfriend, was when i was 12 yrs. old. i said i love you to him about a month into our relationship. though, i now know that maybe i didn't LOVE him, i knew that i really did like him ... A LOT. i miss him [we broke up about 6 months after we started going out and stuff], and i'm still kinda friends with him.
just because you haven't gotten a kiss before doesn't mean your a loser or whatever. that boy i was talking about was my first kiss, too. yes, first boyfriend = first kiss. atleast it was to me. but you don't have to do that. kiss when you feel like you really want him to be your first kiss, not because you feel like if you don't kiss somebody now, everybody's gonna hate you. what my ex did, he actually asked me if he could kiss me. of course i said yes. but it wasn't til about 15 mins. after he asked me that we really did it. he flirted with me first, holding my hands, hugging me really tight, saying i love you every 2 mins., etc. then, he kissed my cheek, then i moved and we kissed in the lips. now, you don't have to do that, but it sure was pretty sweet.
as for wanting to see him, you don't have to see each other every day to have a relationship. yes, that would've been so much better, but a relationship isn't all about seeing each other. it's also about getting to know each other, enjoying each other's company when you can. i suggest you go to the movies every now and then. or go to bowling. just do something together. get some friends to come with you if your parents don't want you all alone with him. but just try to find time to spend with each other. in your case, and mines too back then, cherish every minute you have with each other. it'll feel so much special.
if you have other questions or problems, just message me!
ok well i sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago and i have been off crutches for 1 and i love sports and i never sprained my ankle before so im new to it.Ok anyway i kinda got in to sports but im not suspose to (baskettball 4 days a week and competive volleyball on sunday ok well im 13 and a girl should i just not play and let my ankel get better or what i dont no and im comfused ....after basketball my ankel always hurts and in volleybal mu coach make me do 200 situps instead of 5 laps thanks in advance
you shouldn't play for a while. til your ankle is as good as before. if you don't, it's gonna get worse. i play volleyball, too, and a little of tennis and soccer, and i've had so many encounters with sprained ankles. i had to sit out, even though i didn't want to. but it really is better to just let it heal. it heals faster, too, since your not putting pressure on your ankle. just watch and cheer, and that does help, too. so just hang in there! good luck with your ankle and sports!
im 15 years old and i would like to start modeling...my parents said they would look into agencies for me. the problem is im conserned about mmy weight i have been trying to eat healthy to lose weight and it helps that i am very active but for some reason i dont lose weight easily...
i am 5 foot 6 1/2 and i weight 138 pounds should i lose weight? does anyone have tips on how to lose weight fast?
well, in my opinion, as long as you keep eating healthy and you look great, there's no problem. i think maybe you should keep your weight to 130. but since you're kinda pretty tall, you don't really have to. tips on losing weight - the classics: working out, running, eating healthy. if you have high metabolism, it's not that much of a problem. don't overwork it, though. don't be one of those models who doesn't eat just to keep their weight down. good luck with modeling!
adriana lima:
1- how tall is she?
2- how much does she weigh?
3- What is her bra size?
gisele bundchen:
1- how tall is she
2- how much does she weigh?
3- what is her bra size?
adriana lima:
1 - 5'10"
2 -
3 - her measurements are 33-23-33
gisele bundchen
1 - 5'11"
2 -
3 - her measurements are 34-24-34
sry. i couldn't find her weight