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im not jealous i think ahhhhh


Question Posted Monday April 16 2007, 4:51 pm

ok my rele good friends now has a girlfriend i was happy for him because he has been rejected so many times but ney way i rele dont no the girl i think she is cool because she asked him out so anyway this happened during spring break so i just found out a while ago because i was away so now i found myself checkin his myspace like sum jealous gf but i would never go wit him i dunno if im like protecting him or sumfin i dunno
and when me and him saw her in the hallway he just lefted and dint even introduce her to me im not sure whether he should but it is weird when she is there so i just walk off i feel like i have to compete for him i fell rele pathetic i could say more but i need help.


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luvin_chick<3 answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:15 pm:
i'm not sure if you like him or if it's just plain jealousy. i would think it's just jealousy. i've had enough experiences where one of my guy friends gets a girlfriend and i'm stranded in lala land thinking if i like him or not. don't look too much into it. even though he has a girlfriend and you think you might be jealous, it might be just that. don't mistake love/lust for jealousy. what i mean is just because you are jealous doesn't mean you have feelings for him. sometimes, when you're really good friends with somebody, you feel different if that friend starts hanging out with somebody else. just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean yall can't be friends anymore. all you can really do is show him how good a friend you are. always being there for him when he needs somebody to talk to, and if he talks to you about his girlfriend, remember that he's telling you all this because you're his friend and he trusts you. they will most likely not last together forever, but if you play your cards right and always be there for him, you two will last for such a longer time and may end up as something more.

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runawayxlove answered Monday April 16 2007, 6:08 pm:
hey, in my opinion you definately like him. it seems like youve been friends with this guy and somewhere between all the jokes and laughs, you feel in love with him. you wouldnt want to ruin the relationship for him, so dont mention to him that you like him. if you still have the same feelings and he is single, you should tell him how you feel. who knows -- maybe something will spark.

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