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is he too old?
there is this boy that i really like hes gonna be a junior im gonna be a freshmen. my friends think hes too old. do u?
jaclyn
o by the way i found out he told his friends he likes me!
what should i do?
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Go out with him.
No he is not to old.
My best friends parents are 10 years apart.
It only seems old until you get in your 20s.
Then it feels normal for someone to go out with another person that is 2-5 years older than them.
Maybe even more.
If you like him and he likes you then go out with him.
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don't mean to burst your bubble. i know everyone already answered your question with answers that you probably want to hear but im going to give it to you from experience. when i was 14 i dated a guy who was 17. my parents were furious. he seemed like a really sweet guy. he always told me he loved me and we always hung out. we lasted 5 months before he started asking me for sex. when i wouldn't give it to him(because i was 14!) he told me he liked another girl, so i broke up with him. this may mean nothing to you. you might say "oh my guy is different" well all teenage guys are the same. a 17yr old boy is at a different maturity level than a 14yr old girl. im not trying to say you're immature im just saying that you really really really need to think about it before you get deeply emotionally attached. when i was your age i didn't think it was too old but now looking back on the experience, i don't regret it but he was deffinately too old for me. i just see it now as a learning experience. you're going to do what you want, i hope i helped you a little.
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i don't think he's too old. i'm actually a freshman dating a junior, and it's fine with my friends. actually, my friends really likes him, so they all get along pretty well. :]
if he really does like you, he's most likely gonna ask you out, hopefully sometime soon. say yes, if you really like him. as for your friends. i think they should understand your situation. just because he might be a little older doesn't mean he's not good for you. it would be good to make sure they're all friends with each other to avoid having to choose between your friends vs. the guy.
good luck!
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That's not too old at all. People in highschool always go out with people who aren't their own age. Chances are, you'll end up marrying someone who isn't your age. Go for it!
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I think it is fine. Look at it this way- if you were later on in your life, and you were 23, and he was 25, or so- not that big of a difference. There is probably an age gap inbetween almost every married couple today, so even if you are younger and not married, it doesnt matter.
Go for it, and good luck!
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I don't think it's too old. My friend is in this exact situation, only the guy's gonig to be a senior! If you really, truely likke each other, I say go for it!
Ask him if he's interested in you, and let him know that you're interested, too. Then suggest hanging out sometimes, maybe to go see a movie or something? Good Luck! =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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No, he's not too old. It might seem like it while youre still in high school, but my aunt married a man 15 years older than her.
If he likes you, start talking to him. Don't act slutty. Just be yourself. Smile a lot, and laugh at his jokes. If things go weel, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime :)
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