shyness is nice And shyness can stop you from saying all the things in life you'd like to, so if theres something you'd like to try, ask me i wont say no, how could I?
Gender: Female
Age: 26
Member Since: September 29, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: September 30, 2005
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Hey, I'm going to Greece for the holidays, and I was wondering if anybody has ever been to any of the Greek islands besides Mykonos and could tell me a few things about them. I get to choose which island besides Mykonos we get to visit and I was wondering if anybody has ever been to any of them and has any particular suggestions and stuff. I'm sixteen, by the way, so if the island you've been to seems to be revolving around adulty stuff, then yeah... (link)
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We went to Rhodes and stayed in Lindos. It was really lovely, beautiful clear water, and the town is not too touristy, but theres still plenty of bars/restaurants/and a few clubs. Highly recommend it, but make sure your accomodation isnt too basic, ours was sort of ghetto!
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i need to loose my belly & thighs, what's a good way! it doesn't need to be quick, but i need a way, i'm sick of being self concious!
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sorry if this sounds obvious, but you have to exercise. do 30 min at least 3 times a week of cardio (gets your heart pumping) and cut down on your calories as well.
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you know how ppl say they have an evil stepmom or stepdad. well i DO! my stepmom kicked me out of hte house for the second time. all because i postponed college a year. and she hates me so much, but my dad has chosen her over me twice and i dont know what to do about it. (link)
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My stepmother also kicked me out of my fathers house when I was 19. I didn't communicate with her for a couple of years, finally we talked about it and she apologised. Your stepmom is probably threatened by you, by the unconditional love your father has for you.Your dad does not love you less because he has 'chosen' her. The best thing you can do take this as an opportunity to be independent-Enjoy your year off from school. If you go to college when your not ready you waste the opportunity.
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hey i have a question 4 u! i'm 14 n i'm a freshman in hs, there is dis cute guy in ma class and i have a crush on him. I THINKK he likes me too but i'm not sure, do u kno any signs dat i should look out 4 if he likes me? and if he doesnt like wat could i do 2 make him like me?
~lost n confused! (link)
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If you have the feeling that he likes you then you're probably right. My advice in MOST situations is to trust your instincts. The best thing to do, especially at your age, since boys tend to be more shy than girls, is to be very friendly and talk to him, find out what kind of music he likes and have a listen so you have a good topic of conversation. Smile at him and make eye contact, or if youre really brave-give him your number!
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Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy? (link)
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The amount of hair that is considered "sexy" on different parts of men OR women's bodies changes with the passage of time, like all fashions. Look at Magnum PI - big mustache, hairy chest etc. Now smooth chests happen to be popular for guys, I, like most women, am attracted to a guy for his intelligence, personality, and lovely eyes and smile. The amount of hair on his body is only something you find out about once you've ALREADY decided you really like him.
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?
P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
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First Answer:I know a lot about this subject because I'm 26 and my husband (of 4 years) is 48. However, I was 22 when we met and you may not realise it now, but there is a Huge difference between being a teenager and a young adult. When you are 25 you will realise how much you and your life has changed since you were 17. I would be suspicious of a 25 year old man who dates a 17 year old girl, I would think that there is something lacking in him that prevents him from engaging with older women, or maybe he has control issues, as in, he doesnt like being challenged and is insecure. I think it is important to experience the life that surrounds you, be a part of the social scene with your peers, you have the rest of your life to engage in 'mature' relationships.
Reply to Rating: Im sorry, I didnt mean to patronise you, I would say the difference is that when my husband and I got together I had dated many different people and had had lots of experiences like going to college in another state, living and working away from home, traveling to europe etc. When your 17 you should have fun and not grow up too fast-that's what I meant to say, sorry if I came across as being too judgemental. Best of Luck!
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I'm 13 and i wanna start wearing makeup. My parents would probably only let me wear light stuff.. so nothing too drastic..
Can you tell me good products to start off with and where to get them (not too expensive please)
I have medium-dark brown hair, brown eyes, oval shaped face, I'm sorta on the pale side, and i have slightly red cheeks from acne.
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Im 26, have many years of experimenting with makeup-this is my advice
forget foundation and eyeshadow for now, some translucent powder to take the shine and redness down a little would be good. go for a lip gloss thats not too sticky, like a lip balm with colour added.The best changes you can make are to make sure your eyebrows are well groomed and use mascara. I Always wear blush, but if your cheeks are naturally red-no need.
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okay this is for girls but hey if your a guy and you know what your talking about go ahead...so i put eyeliner on and like by the time im at school its wearing off and when i get home its gone and like under my eyes..ahh what can i do..
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same thing happens to me, this seems to work though-
first put pressed powder over your lids, put on your eyeliner as usual, get a small eyeshadow brush and retrace your eyeliner with eyeshadow in the same colour (most likely black, right?) the eyehadow sets the liner and gives a more subtle look.
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Since I had to stop my all-star cheer squad last Dec. I`ve put on a few pounds. I eat 3 small but healthy meals a day, I do 200 crunches in the morning and night and I only drink about one soda a weekend. I still can't seem to lose that last inch or the last couple of pounds off my stomach.
.. anyone got any tips to lose em faster? (link)
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doing crunches only strenghthens the muscles underneath any fat you may have, to burn fat you have to do cardiovascular excercise, that means running, swimming, aerobics or anything that gets your heart rate up (and keeps it up for 30 mins)at least 3 times a week.
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Can anyone recommend a good mascara that doesn't clump easily? (link)
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i love panoramic curl by loreal.
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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates. (link)
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you sound like a very sensitive and emotionally intelligent person, however, sometimes we have to stand up for ourselves, despite how it may affect others. your son, and the peace in your family home, is more important than a 'friendship' with a co-worker. you were articulate enough to write this well thought out question, i'm sure you can find a way to say in a kind yet firm way -NO.
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Hiya my friends obsessing over her weight can someone tell me if being 10 stone is heavy if you are a girl of 5 ft 8. please respond ASAP.
will rate high for good answers and quick response.
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I am 5'6'' and weigh just over 10 stone, that is 2 inches shorter than your friend, and a person can acceptably carry an additional 10lbs for every inch over 5'. I go to the gym 3 times a week, am happily married and get lots of male attention, your friend is a very healthy weight, and is most likely quite thin. worrying about your weight is pointless, just eat healthy food, exercise, and smile a lot!
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I would like to try tampons but wonder if they will break my hymen? (link)
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I broke mine when i was about 12 with a tampon, however, many girls 'accidentaly' break thiers(horseback riding for example), or infact are born with only a partial covering or no hymen at all. Tampons make life easier, in my opinion, especially if you have a heavy flow, but just make sure you are relaxed when you try them the first time, it can be an uncomfortable sensation at first.
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ok this will sound so weird... but i really have to know. is it bad to shave down there because i really dont know what to do. please help x (link)
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if you shave you will inevitably get razor bumps, where the hair folicles get blocked and sometimes cause pimple like bumps. the best way, if you want a smooth result is waxing, however, I am assuming you are quite young, so therefore it's probably too expensive/not appropriate. you can use hair removal cream, but it can be harmful to your genitals if you want to remove more 'intimate' hair than just your 'bikini line'.I have found the best way to keep pubic hair trimmed and neat is with the sideburn attachment on my husbands electric razor, cuts the hair very close, but wont remove it all like shaving. This question isnt weird, it's one that every one thinks about and you have to experiment with different methods till you find one you like-OR-just let it grow-nice guys really don't mind either way!
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