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I have heard that there is a news story calling the famous "Whack-a-Kitten"(Actually "Whack-A-Kitty" but people seem to have taken over using the other title) video on YouTube animal cruelty!
Is this true? Have you seen it yet? Here is a link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_udqEp_YR4
I think it is cute as heck, and I don't see the cruelty in it.
I also can't seem to find that news story. Anyone?
Thanks! (link)
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No it isn't animal cruelty, because nothing cruel is being done to the animals. They are not in pain or anything like that. Case closed.
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how do you make it fun for a 11yerold boy to clean his room. (link)
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Give him ten dollars to clean it, and make him do some completelly boring, long, and useless chore if he doesn't. (Think mowing the lawn with scissors, washing the bathroom with a tooth brush)
The combination of positive and negative reinforcment will solve your problem in a jiffy.
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Okay, (Will be long . Sorry please read though. :()
Well, me and this guy like each other..but he started to like my friend also ,call her T well, I told him he will have to choose..well he chose me and that made me feel great. Well, we've been dating about a week now..and he's absolutely great,we were texting each other and he was joking with me saying that my friends his rebound if I ever break up with him. I told him if he was serious..and he said no sorry im bored..and well I told him not to do that it's not funny..than he said " I love you", it made me SO happy!! Than he changes his signature to his first intial plus my fist inital equals forever. So, it made me think that he liked me ..plus he looks at me and smiles at me and stuff ..but well my friend T told me that her other friend told her that my boyfriend said that he would break up with me for her.( The girl he chose over for me.So, that really hurt. T said that she said no because she's a good friend. Well, now I'm really hurt..;( why would he say that he loved me when he doesn't?? I texted him and asked him why he would say that if he doesn't like me.He hasn't texted back. Does he like me or my friend?? Im so confused!! This really makes me feel bad it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.. or less pretty than my friend..she's pretty to and she's small and this..I'm average height and im not super skinny, but Im not large. I was hurt before and its happening all over again. Please someone help me out. (link)
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It is very simple.
He is playing it safe. He has a back up plan, with no regard for you.
He wasn't kidding, he wasn't bored. He has lied to you, and he was using theatrics such as saying he loved you and all that jazz to make you not see it.
But its right there for you. Does that sound like someone you should date?
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okk so, theres a guy and hes my best friend and we went out 2 years ago for a longg timee, and i broke up with him but im still in love with him but yeah he has no idea. so hes been going out with this girl for about 10 months now and i dont think theyre going to make it much longer but who knows...anyway, she hates me and is trying to ruin our friendship and im starting to really hate her. i didnt mind her at first atall i thought they were cute, but he doesnt even see what she doing and how she hates me and everything...are there any songs or quotes that describe this situation or feeling of like your best friends boyfriend/girlfriend tearing your friendship apart? thanks so much! (link)
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Here is a quote, its from a poem
"He and her, and me and him
I love him, and she loves him
I don't want our love to be a sin
She hates me, and rightly so,
If she left him I WOULD go
To him and try to love him so
I am jealous of what I lost
She sees this romance from the past
And I wonder why they last
And the end of this poem goes...
It totally makes sense that she wouldn't like you
You are in love with her boyfriend
And your relationship DID end
I'm not saying she should be rude, or she is in the right...but you can't NOT understand why she is doing what she is doing"
...does it fit?
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okay so i've had an on/off crush on my friend anthony since last summer. he liked me the end of the summer & we sorta had a thing during winter break..i told him that i like him in april, but he said he was confused with a lot of things. as soon as i told him i started to not like him as much and then thought i didn't have any feelings for him (i do this with guys a lot) then like last week i found out that he likes my friend nicole and basically confessed his love for her. she doesn't want anything to do with him but i think she likes the attention she is getting from the situation. but i'm like jealous because i don't know why all of a sudden he stopped liking me (if he did). she thinks he started to like her because she was the only one home during the spring (they both go to community college) but now i don't know what to do, i don't want to ask him because i don't want him to think i'm jealous and being clingy. i need help. (link)
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Ok. Do you want an honest answer you should follow, or a magic answer that tells you what you want to hear? Because I don't deal in magic answers, I deal in truth.
The truth is, he doesn't like you. The only time I or any other guy I know ever "had a thing" with a girl and then said we were confused was when we didn't like her. Often times the girl was "played" or "used". (I know you may think this makes me a horrible person, but on the bright side I can now impart this to you with the promise people can change...after a few years and traumatic experience.)
No one "all of a sudden" stops liking someone, unless they never really liked them to begin with. At the very most he may begrudgingly date you, but he won't want to deep down. He has had his chance, and passed on it willingly.
He was probably glad you gave him an out by saying you didn't like him as much, that way he didn't have to feel like a jerk.
As a disclaimer, I apologize beforehand for the blunt advice, but trust me. I know everyone thinks they are unique, but this situation has happened many, MANY times before. It will happen again, if you let it.
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Can i get pregnant being that i am a virgin? (link)
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Ok. To get pregnant you need sperm and an egg. If a sperm has gotten to an egg in some zany-non sexual way, it is still possible.
People have gotten pregnant without having sex...but by scientific means.
Parthenogenesis, which means virgin creation, is an asexual form of reproduction.
It has never happened naturally in humans.
Also, it depends on your beliefs on virginity. If you think that you lose your virginity doing any sexual act, then most likely not.
If you think that you lose it your first consentual act, then in cases of rape you could consider yourself a virgin and be pregnant. (Not that I'm saying this is the case, purely hypothetical)
If you mean the hymen breaking, then you have a better chances of a plane crashing on your house on your birthday, and having a heart attack right before it happens.
Its all relative to your definition of virgin.
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I've had this best friend, Amy for like 15 going on 16 years. I cheered my 7th Grade year, and we were really close, then I quit and we drifted apart, so this year, my 11th grade year, she wanted me to cheer because we had become close again, so I tried out, and made it. Now, she has these other friends, one of them in particular, Kara who has this boyfriend, Trevor, and his best friend Sam had sex with my best friend. Now she's like crazy obsessed, and he's not the cleanest guy, he's very controlling, he's compulsive, obsessive, an she just wont talk to me anymore.
Idk what to do, she's my best friend, and we both hate not talking to each other, but now, she seems like she'd rather have him.
I've talked to her about it, and she did choose him. He don't like me, so I guess neither does she.
I've talked to her in everyway, she says that she doesnt want to choose and that she isnt going to put up with me acting like that, when really I aint done anything.
BTW, her parents dont want her with this guy, and she knows it and still goes behind their back.
I just want MY friend back, not Kara's friend, or Sam's beneficial friend.
What should I do? (link)
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Okay. I am not the best at being supportive with advice, but take a leap of faith and trust me.
Relationship are and always will be the number one reason for breaking up friendships. If you have friends, it will happen. Its something you can certaintly try to fight against, but most of the time it will be futile.
When someone crushes over someone, massive amount of a chemical called seratonin is released in thier brain. It is legitimatly addictive, and mind alterting. Hence why people don't think straight while "in love" and all that jazz. Eventually it is replaced by oxytocin (not oxycontin or oxycodone) that give people the long term love. Ever notice how people act when thier long term partner is gone for awhile? Its honestly withdrawal.
The seratonin is replaced with oxytocin because it will literally melt your brain if there too long, and humans can't go like that forever.
So the reason it is going to be so hard is honestly, she is hooked on him, and like someone on heroin, its probably not going to make a difference what ever you do. All you can do is wait and let it die down, and odds are she will be your friend again.
I'm sorry if this post feels impersonal or cold, but trust me, its right, and I hope you at least take heed of it.
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my boyfriend admitted tonight that hes upset because he cant make me orgasm. it hurts me to be fingered, and we never have sex long enough to climax (he still lives at home and his parents sometimes interrupt).
i give him handjobs all the time, and it pleasures him, but he still doesnt know how to fully pleasure me. i keep reassuring him that i dont need him to pleasure me, but he really gets upset. maybe he feels like hes not doing his job or something? i dont know, im not in his head.
his friend mentioned that he should go down on me, and then i go down on him. he said it'll "drive me wild". i'm waaaaay iffy on oral sex. it took me forever just to get used to the idea of giving my boyfriend a handjob! and hes never seen my body before. im very modest and i guess a little old fashioned? i dont know how to prepare for that. i dont even know if i really want him down there...but i cant decide if i should give it a try or not.
can i get girls and boys opinions on this certain subject? if you're afraid you might get banned for answering a sex question, then just send me a private message.
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I am a guy, just so you now. As far as the advice, well honestly some people are not very good. It is normal for someone to feel guilty because they cannot please someone. It is even more normal for a guy to not know how to please a girl. I suggest looking it up online, its pure anatomy.
If that doesn't work, its also could be something mental in YOUR court. From personaly experience, some girls don't LET themselves relax enough to get pleased. If that is the issue, then you need to find a way through it, and learn to relax. Some girls who are very modest and uncomfortable have trouble letting themselves go in those circumstances.
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I think that we as a nation should pass legislation requiring people to love their country. My problem is that few other people think this way. Can you help? (link)
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Your question is a moral paradox.
America gives freedom of thought and speech, and is one of its defining traits that it is proud of.
Forcing people to love America would be against that, making them love an America that is not really America anymore.
Thus, unless you are saying you DON'T love America as it is now, then it doesn't make sense.
(None of this reflects my personal views one way or another, I love people not dirt.)
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Hello! My name is Sara, Im 22/F And am getting married in August. I want to start taking some form of birth control because my fiance and I want to wait befor we have kids for a while. Heres the low down,
-Both myself and my partner have waited to have sex until marrage, so as far as birth control goes I have NO idea what to expect....
-As luck will have it, i will most likely be getting my period the 28th...my weedding day..ugh so I am looking for a method that can possibly alter my menstal cycle by then...
-I dont particularly want a vaginal ring as im scared it could be felt by my husband durring sex (and I one of you girls has used it and it doesnt please let me know too!!)
-Im a scatter brain, I work 2 jobs and would have a tough time remembering to take a daily pill...but if that is the best option I will try my hardest to remember!!!
So yeah, anything that anyone has tried that seems to work the best and is less of a hastle and gives u fewer periods, PLEASE let me know your opinions!!!! Thank you!!! (link)
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Ok, please don't try using the "pull out" method.
Its doesn't work.
Just go onto birth control pills and use condoms if you really don't want to get pregnant.
You would really have to f*** up to mess those two up.
The problem is most people don't want to use condoms, and don't understand the pills. People always say "I got pregnant on the pill!" but its ussually because they don't follow the EXACT instructions. Like taking it the same time everyday.
Me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half, and have lots of sex. We only use birth control pills and have been fine, so adding a condom would definently cement it.
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I'm not quite sure what catergory this was supposed to go in, so I just picked one that seemed relevant.
I just finished my first year of college and I met some amazing friends. It turns out that yesterday I found out that one of my amazing friends passed away. He lived in a different state so there is no way I can go to his viewing or funeral.
I want him to know that I will miss him and I'm sorry that I can't go to his funeral/viewing. I don't know how I'm supposed to do that. I want him to know that I'll always be thinking of him and he'll forever be in my heart.
I know you'll probably say "you just did" or "pray to him, he'll know" or "he'll know" but I guess I want more than that. I don't know exactly. I just feel so bad that I can't go. I don't know. I just need some advice or something.
May Angels Lead You In (link)
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Ok. As others have said, what you want to do, what you are striving to send, is completely for you, to make you feel better. Not that there is anything wrong with that.
It depends on your belief system. If you believe in praying, pray. If you believe in writing a letter, write.
Ask yourself what you believe you have to do to communicate something to a dead person, then do it.
If you really don't have any beliefs on how to do that, than just accept he is dead and you can't.
Besides, its not like he will miss you being there. If you believe he is in heaven, then they arent with the body. If you believe that he is a spirit that can actually go to the funeral, than why couldn't he go see you?
How about on the day of his funeral (or whenever) you hold a private, personal ceremony? That way you are still paying respect, and depending on your belief system it'll get through.
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Well,the guy that I've been talking about that I've liked for like three,coming up to four years now.
I decided not to tell him,cos we've become pretty good friends and I don't want to ruin it and I know him well enough to know I would rather stay friends with him than lose him altogether. But the problem is,this has been goin on for SO long that I dunno how to get over him?
Any one any tips?
Don't say getting with other guys,cos tried that a few times and just ended with me still liking him and the other guy getting hurt because I still like this guy,so don't want that to happen.
I'm female,16 by the way
Thanks to anyone who helps. (link)
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I have been in this situation before, as the guy. If you don' think that they will like you deep down in your gut, they probably wont. In that case you are potentially ruining the relationship by holding on to it.
So pretend you don't feel a thing until you don't, you will eventually get over it or be driven mad enough to DO something.
Or make a move and see how things turn out.
Everything will work itself out eventually, its not having the courage to do anything that eats away at a person, and besides, I have seen people lose those they said they could not live without, and they end up fine. They get over it eventually, its human nature.
If you just let it eat away at you, you will probably just make it akward for the guy if he doesn't like you, and it will drive him away.
Its not what you want to hear I'm sure, but its the most logical thing to do.
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honestly, I love my boyfriend so much. I want to be with him for such a long time and it may even be that big 'I'm in love with you' step.
So, my friend was telling me dreams are inner secrets. I've been having 2 dreams the past 2 nights about kissing/making out/hooking up with some of my good guy friends.
i don't want to, and I don't look at them that way.
why this is? I don't understand why I'm having these dreams about other guys when I'm perfectly happy with my boyfriend.. (link)
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Okay. First of all, don't listen to your friends. Dreams are different things. They can be desires, things you like, or complete nonsense. No one even really knows what dreams are. There are only theories.
As for why you are dreaming about doing sexual things with friends, it wouldn't be a secret. It could be you aren't being honest with yourself but you would know deep down. You are sexually attracted to your friends. That is it, it has nothing to do with love.
Just be honest with it, and then learn to cope with it because its not a big deal. The worst thing you may be dealing with right now is self-delusion.
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