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I don't know what to do..Im so hurt.
Okay, (Will be long . Sorry please read though. :()
Well, me and this guy like each other..but he started to like my friend also ,call her T well, I told him he will have to choose..well he chose me and that made me feel great. Well, we've been dating about a week now..and he's absolutely great,we were texting each other and he was joking with me saying that my friends his rebound if I ever break up with him. I told him if he was serious..and he said no sorry im bored..and well I told him not to do that it's not funny..than he said " I love you", it made me SO happy!! Than he changes his signature to his first intial plus my fist inital equals forever. So, it made me think that he liked me ..plus he looks at me and smiles at me and stuff ..but well my friend T told me that her other friend told her that my boyfriend said that he would break up with me for her.( The girl he chose over for me.So, that really hurt. T said that she said no because she's a good friend. Well, now I'm really hurt..;( why would he say that he loved me when he doesn't?? I texted him and asked him why he would say that if he doesn't like me.He hasn't texted back. Does he like me or my friend?? Im so confused!! This really makes me feel bad it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.. or less pretty than my friend..she's pretty to and she's small and this..I'm average height and im not super skinny, but Im not large. I was hurt before and its happening all over again. Please someone help me out.
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It is very simple.
He is playing it safe. He has a back up plan, with no regard for you.
He wasn't kidding, he wasn't bored. He has lied to you, and he was using theatrics such as saying he loved you and all that jazz to make you not see it.
But its right there for you. Does that sound like someone you should date?
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When he was "joking", think about how he responded to you. It doesn't seem quite right. And the I love you to try to make you forget about it?
I'm not really sure if he does like her, if he can't decide, or actually wants both of you.
If he really did say that he'd break up with you for her, then I don't think he's worth the trouble. A lot of people like to toy with others to make themselves feel better. Don't let it get to you.
It's better that you confront him in person so if he's lying, it'll be easier to see it.
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