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why can't I do it?


Question Posted Thursday May 28 2009, 3:46 pm

I've been trying to break up with my bf for the past few weeks.
Every time i try tho, i just seem to can't and i say something else altogether.

I don't love him, and i don't like him the same way i did months ago before we dated.
So why can't I break up with him? (i'm not scared to hurt his feelings)
20/f


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laynemayhem answered Thursday May 28 2009, 11:31 pm:
i dont know what went down between you two while you were dating, but if you're positive you dont love him, or even like him, you should just do what your gut tells you: break it off.

the only reason you wouldnt be able to is because of what someone thinks, or that you're afraid to hurt his feelings. even if you say you arent, maybe deep down you really are. your subconcious is telling you to maybe try a little longer to see if those old feelings will pop back up. usually they dont. dont beat around the bush, just do it.

:) good luck

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MissUnderstood116 answered Thursday May 28 2009, 5:03 pm:
Do what makes you happy sweetheart! if you are not happy with him wether it hurts him or not you have got to let go. there are many opportunities out there that you may be missing because you are stuck in a loveless relationship. i had an ex i couldnt break up with for anything but felt nothing for. honest story i ended up gettin the balls to do it and then i met an amazing guy who is now my husband!!! everything happens for a reason. your not in love with him for a reason. so just do it. hope i helped!!!

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