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Member Since: May 28, 2009
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Last Update: May 28, 2009
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I'm not quite sure what catergory this was supposed to go in, so I just picked one that seemed relevant.


I just finished my first year of college and I met some amazing friends. It turns out that yesterday I found out that one of my amazing friends passed away. He lived in a different state so there is no way I can go to his viewing or funeral.

I want him to know that I will miss him and I'm sorry that I can't go to his funeral/viewing. I don't know how I'm supposed to do that. I want him to know that I'll always be thinking of him and he'll forever be in my heart.


I know you'll probably say "you just did" or "pray to him, he'll know" or "he'll know" but I guess I want more than that. I don't know exactly. I just feel so bad that I can't go. I don't know. I just need some advice or something.



May Angels Lead You In (link)
Well trying to pray to him probably is the best way but if you want his memory to live on with you forever and make sure he knows you could get a tattoo to represent him or maybe pick a day once a year that you go to his grave and put flowers down or something of that sort. trust me though he knows you love him and miss him whether he is physically here to see it or not. hope i helped


Okay well ive already wrote on here a couple times but. Im 15/f...Dont tell me im too young or anything cause i already know. Well i think i am pregnant. Im about one week late on my period wich is about the 21st or 22nd of each month. and when i was suppose to have it i was spotting for like two days.

I took a pregnancy test this morning and it says im not pergnant? This doesnt make since? What do i do? (link)
You cant imagine how many times i have had this scare. first off you are still young your body is going to do weird things as you go alone. when i was fifteen i would go sometimes 2 months without a period. it does not automatically mean you are pregnant. just stay calm about it honestly the more you stress yourself out the later your period may come. just take it easy, wait a little less then a week then take another test see how it comes out. if you go over a month without your period i would go and talk to a doctor because even if it is not pregnancy it could be something else. hope i helped sweetie!


I am engaged to marry a great guy next year. i love him very much. but i resently started having conversations with him about children. he got really distant about it. and the other day he came right out and said he doesn't like children and doesn't want them. I don't think its his real answer. he never had a dad( his dad ran off when he was 3) and his mother consantly tells him he isn't dad material. but one of our friends has a 4 year old and he always plays with her. people keep telling me that if he does't want children i should find someone else, but i love him so much i'm stuck i don't know what to do please help i need some outside perspective.

ann (link)
First off i would ask him if in the future maybe not right now will he ever want kids. now if he says no you need to tell him that you do and ask him how it will ever work out if you want kids and he doesnt. most likely he just doesnt want them now. there is not much you can do but talk to him about it. hope i helped.


I've been trying to break up with my bf for the past few weeks.
Every time i try tho, i just seem to can't and i say something else altogether.

I don't love him, and i don't like him the same way i did months ago before we dated.
So why can't I break up with him? (i'm not scared to hurt his feelings)
20/f (link)
Do what makes you happy sweetheart! if you are not happy with him wether it hurts him or not you have got to let go. there are many opportunities out there that you may be missing because you are stuck in a loveless relationship. i had an ex i couldnt break up with for anything but felt nothing for. honest story i ended up gettin the balls to do it and then i met an amazing guy who is now my husband!!! everything happens for a reason. your not in love with him for a reason. so just do it. hope i helped!!!


Hello! My name is Sara, Im 22/F And am getting married in August. I want to start taking some form of birth control because my fiance and I want to wait befor we have kids for a while. Heres the low down,
-Both myself and my partner have waited to have sex until marrage, so as far as birth control goes I have NO idea what to expect....
-As luck will have it, i will most likely be getting my period the 28th...my weedding day..ugh so I am looking for a method that can possibly alter my menstal cycle by then...
-I dont particularly want a vaginal ring as im scared it could be felt by my husband durring sex (and I one of you girls has used it and it doesnt please let me know too!!)
-Im a scatter brain, I work 2 jobs and would have a tough time remembering to take a daily pill...but if that is the best option I will try my hardest to remember!!!

So yeah, anything that anyone has tried that seems to work the best and is less of a hastle and gives u fewer periods, PLEASE let me know your opinions!!!! Thank you!!! (link)
My advice if you dont want to take a pill is doing the shot. i have never done it but my sister and one of my friends have. depending on your doctors order normally you get the shot once every three months and you get your period once every three months which is a plus for sure! if you do the pill i would say ask for yaz. i was on it for a very long time and it worked great! hope i helped.




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