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why am i having weird dreams when i have a boyfriend..
honestly, I love my boyfriend so much. I want to be with him for such a long time and it may even be that big 'I'm in love with you' step.
So, my friend was telling me dreams are inner secrets. I've been having 2 dreams the past 2 nights about kissing/making out/hooking up with some of my good guy friends.
i don't want to, and I don't look at them that way.
why this is? I don't understand why I'm having these dreams about other guys when I'm perfectly happy with my boyfriend..
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Okay. First of all, don't listen to your friends. Dreams are different things. They can be desires, things you like, or complete nonsense. No one even really knows what dreams are. There are only theories.
As for why you are dreaming about doing sexual things with friends, it wouldn't be a secret. It could be you aren't being honest with yourself but you would know deep down. You are sexually attracted to your friends. That is it, it has nothing to do with love.
Just be honest with it, and then learn to cope with it because its not a big deal. The worst thing you may be dealing with right now is self-delusion.
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Alright, I'm a psychology major and one of the first things that we learn in general psychology is about dreams. There are a ton of people that have their own theory of what dreams mean or what they are, but sometimes a dream is just a dream. Your mind never stops working unlike your body, so even when your body is not going and is resting, your brain does not. Some people think dreams bring deja vu, but it may just be as simple as your brain working things out from your everyday life. Often when people dream it's te brains way of relieving stress. If you are a sigmund freud believer, then it's your subconsious mind, but I'm not a huge fan of some of his ideas. I really think that maybe there is just some thing going on either consciously or subconsciously that your mind is using something that means a lot to you in your dreams. I wouldn't take anything completely to heart though. Dreams can get very scary sometimes or just out right annoying if the same one happens more than once. You just need to remind your self that it is just a dream and that is not how you really feel. If it is stopping you from getting a good night sleep then try to do some yoga, or just do some meditation right before bed. IF none of that helps, try to figure out what has possibly changed since you've started dating this guy and try to get to the root of the stress or whatever it is that is making your brain work in over drive while you sleep. Anyway, I hope this helped a little bit and if not I apologize and good luck to you either way.
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dreams are dreams you cant stop them. and you can make these dreams not happen in real life if you are possibly in that "in love" stage.
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