My name is Christina, and I love giving advice. If you ever need advice, I will help you in the best way I can :).
Gender: Female
Location: Paris, France
Age: 15
Member Since: March 19, 2013
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I'm a 13 year old girl. My best friend is a girl. We've kissed before and I really like it. But she always backs away when I try to kiss her. What do I do to make her want to kiss me again? (link)
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Unfortunately, you can't make someone kiss you. They have their on decisions. As much as we all want that to happen, you can't just make someone want to kiss you.
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I am 16 and my boobs have been hurting alot lately i am not sexually active but I do masturbate. Would masturbation have anything to do with my boobs hurting. I also think its Because of my period, but my period isn't support to come until two more weeks. Should I be worried or does this just mean my boobs are growing.? (link)
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I think they're still growing.
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I'm 14, female, and oddly addicted to porn. I can't stop watching it. Yet, I have a hard time having an orgasm. Is it normal? I mean, I feel embarrassed after I watch it, but I can't help it. Also, I've been waking up and noticing that I'm really wet. What does it mean? (link)
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Many people have been/are in your situation. This isn't abnormal at all. If you can't stop, then don't. You just aren't ready to give this up, and that is fine. You will eventually, but "eventually" isn't "now". Good luck!
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13/m, i masturbate, and go to porn sites. Masturbation i understood that its normal, but i really want to stop visiting porn sites! What should i do? I dont want to be a pervert and i dont want my parents to catch me.. (link)
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Yes, it is normal. I have never done what you have, but I have been in a situation with this with a family member.
Distract yourself. As the previous answer said, eat or watch TV to get your mind off of it. If you're afraid you're going to get caught, just delete your history.
And just to say... You aren't a "pervert" for doing this. This is completely normal and there are thousands, possibly millions, that are curious like you. If you continue watching this (If you'd like to lock your door, go to a different room, etc.), then that is fine. Just don't think of yourself as a pervert because you aren't! :)
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I am 13 I've had white discharge for a while and recently it turned dark brown(a couple days ago) I have been getting cramps. When I looked at my underwear there was a stream of brown this happened 3 days in a row . Did I get my period or is it still discharge ? (link)
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Have you already had your period? If you haven't, then it's coming very soon. If I were you, I would prepare. Start by telling mom or someone else you live with that has been in this situation. Good luck!
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I am from Canada. My boyfriend is gone to Italy on an EFtour for easter break. I have the app, TextPlus on my phone , and i was wondering, can i text his Canadian cell phone number for free using that app as long as i have a wifi connection? I've looked it up, and the site for TextPlus says "free international texting as long as in wifi" but there doesn't seem to be an exact answer for this question anywhere. I've already texted him using this app and he has replied, obviously it costs him money, but will it cost me? (link)
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No. When I lived back in Ohio, I called my best friend all the way from France, using TextPlus! It doesn't even cost me a dime.
You'll be fine. And even if it will cost you, it'll ask you for your credit card and stuff like that. But it won't cost you.
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I have a band but we don't have a name at the moment, our sound is pop-rock or alternative rock some acoustic sounds too. I've been thinking abou "The Underscene" but I'm unsure and I also for some reason like the phrase "Red Cloud" Anyways what do you think? Any suggestions? (link)
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The Underscene is a great band name for pop-rock music. Reminds me of Hollywood Undead in a way...
Good luck on your band!
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I have a character in a book I'm writing, her name is Taylor. It's a girl and she needs a last name. I was thinking about Taylor Hart or Taylor Lane. What do you think? Any other good last names for Taylor? (link)
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I like Taylor Lane.
I don't know why... It just sounds like a good last name for the name Taylor.
Good luck on your book!
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My boyfriend ia always saying that he wants to die that his going to kill himself should I be woried and talk to him.what should I say to him? (link)
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Let him know that you are there for him; that you'll do anything for him. Make him feel like he's not alone.
I would talk to his parents or a family member privately and ask them if he had a rough childhood, or if he was ever suicidal like this.
It's sweet that you love him and you're concerned, so please look into this quickly :)
Good luck and take care,
Christina.
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Im 20 heres my story i been Knowing my boyfriend
for 4years.we love each other so much.he dropout
when he was 17 right now his 19 goin to school to
get his G.E.D. My dad forcing me to breakup with
him i dont want to.how can i leave him when i love
him so much.i just cant..my boyfriend is a great
guy.he got a job.i did something stupid i told my
dad my boyfriend smokin weed..i dont like the fact
that he smoke weed.my dad hate him he said he
doesn't wanna meet him..but my mom smoke
cigarette my dad never say one thing about it
But my boyfriend did listen to me and go to
school...one thing
i didn't lie about my boyfriend.i know that my dad
want the best for me.but i love my boyfriend and he
love me.how can i leave him if im in love with
him.his the guy who lose my virginity and
everything.he made me promise to never let no one
come between our relationship i did promise him
and i wanna keep that promise..please i need help i
dont know what to do.and dont say im blind by love
because im not i been Knowing my boyfriend for so
long his not a bad person.he treat me like im a
princess.i did breakup with him once he called me
and start cry he said please dont leave me and i got
back with him.i dont wanna breakup with him no
more.my boyfriend is not a Lazy guy he got a job
helping his mom (link)
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You're 20, right? So that means you're an adult. Your dad shouldn't have to force you to break up with a person you dearly love. Unless you can convince him to leave you guys alone, just ignore him. You love him and that's all what matters. It's not right that he is forcing you to breakup with him.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
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So, I have a new girlfriend and I really like her alot. But one of my friends (who barely knows her) was telling me to be careful, that he sees a bad future because he thinks she "has no morals" I don't exactly see what he sees. She might be immature and rebellious, but she's clean, she ironically gets good grades, and she's very unique, she acts out sometimes but doesn't really do bad things. He was mentioning how she's always trying to hit me and says rude things sometimes, but when she's not playing around, she's not as bad, like around my parents and whatnot. My parents like her, I don't see what my friends are talking about (2 have mentioned it) They said she's likely to cheat on me, first of all, she's a virgin who basically stays home all day, second they don't know her like I do. idk. I don't think she'd do anything to hurt me. but my friends worried me and bothered me. (link)
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Ignore them. They just want to get involved in your relationship. If you don't see it, then it's most likey not real. Next time they say something about your girlfriend, just walk away.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
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Hey guys. Ok so I have a boyfriend; he is a junior, i am a softmore we are both in high school. anyway, he is going on this junior class trip to washington DC in a couple of days for like a 4 day trip with the whole junior class. I am happy for him and all, but I'm kind of worried. I know it might not seem like a huge deal, it may seem stupid, but I am afraid he will fall for another girl while he is gone:( Don't ask why, I dont know. But well, his ex girlfriend is going on the trip and theres gonna be tons of other girls too, what if they try to flirt with him? Or what if he starts to like his ex??:( I trust him but the thing is.., how would i ever know if he actally DOES do something like flirt while he is on that trip? How will I ever find out? I dont really know many juniors except him soo....please help:( (link)
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You have a great reason to be like this. However, you can't stop him from going on this trip. If he hasn't done stuff like this before, then I wouldn't worry.
If you like, I'd text and call him every few times a day so he'll remember you. Here's an example; If he does happen to flirt with a girl (Which won't probably happen) the same time you text him, you'll remind him of you.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
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there is a huge back story so I'll just bullet point in the chronological sequence of events however before that, I am M and was 16 when this happened.
1. I found out the person(lets name her X) I liked got an anonymous card for valentines day
2. I told my best friend that I liked X
3. Next day, best friend said He liked X and then told me he was the one who sent the card to X when I queried if he knew who sent the card.
4. I talked to X, if she knew who was the person who sent the card (since I know), she said no, she said she could 'wait'
5. I asked X a week later, about the card issue, turns out my best friend and X have already started going out secretly and privately for like a week after I found out best friend liked her. and they said they didnt want anyone to know and it was my best friend's Idea. (So B.P 4 was an act)
6. They both lied to me for a week, and thought their acting skills could last their whole relationship.
7. X actually already told heaps of people before I knew, so why am I left out, and i believe that B.F told X I also liked her.
8. BF has lied to me occasionally on important events before
9. I wasn't actually into her as much since the highschool courses are important for tertiary courses, and i knew being in a relationship would distract me. However my main issue is TRUST.
My question is "Should I trust the two of them again?"
My current stance is: No, B.F lied many times. X Followed B.F mindlessly, but even still, told her whole year level, apart from her close friends. So X followed like a sheep against me but also betrayed B.F by spreading it to the year level. But my way of knowing is simply reason and logic, not emotion, authority or morals (link)
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If your best friend lied MANY times before, then I wouldn't trust him. This seems important to you, so what if he does something like this again?
Now for X... If she also lied many times before, then I wouldn't trust her either. But if this is the first time, then I'd still trust her. It seems like she wanted to spare your feelings.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
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