I'm 14, female, and oddly addicted to porn. I can't stop watching it. Yet, I have a hard time having an orgasm. Is it normal? I mean, I feel embarrassed after I watch it, but I can't help it. Also, I've been waking up and noticing that I'm really wet. What does it mean?
adviceman49 answered Saturday April 13 2013, 10:45 am: Additional response: Wet dreams are a part of life and a part of teenage life caused by all the new hormones brought on by puberty. As your body adjusts to these hormones the wet dreams will subside though it is possible you will have them throughout your life; though not as many as you may be having to day. They are totally normal and really nothing to worry about or anything mom will ask you about if your panties are being stained. She is well aware of what you are going through and I doubt would embarrass you in this manner. So relax and enjoy the feeling.
One way you might diminish the dreams is to relieve the sexual tension through masturbation. Fingering yourself before going to sleep. This may help relieve the hormone build up and relieve the wetness you wake with.
Your 14 in the throws of puberty to be "addicted to porn" as you put it is all a normal part of being a 14 year old teenager. I'm old enough to be your grandfather and in my day we did not have the Internet, we had to try and steal the old mans copy of Playboy magazine, Playgirl had not been thought of yet. Great for the guys not much for the girls. There were some 8mm & 16mm porn movies available but they were hard to come buy.
Fact is that teenagers from the beginning of time when they enter puberty become sexually curious. Porn is a normal way to satisfy much of the curiosity.
Waking up wet in the morning most likely means while you slept you had the female version of a wet dream.
A wet dream is when you are sleeping, you mostly will not remember, you have an erotic or sexy dream. When boys have them they actually have an ejaculations, women get wet for that is what happens when they have an orgasm. It is normal; your body has relieved itself of some of your sexual tension. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
NiceAdvice4Teens answered Saturday April 13 2013, 2:00 am: Many people have been/are in your situation. This isn't abnormal at all. If you can't stop, then don't. You just aren't ready to give this up, and that is fine. You will eventually, but "eventually" isn't "now". Good luck! [ NiceAdvice4Teens's advice column | Ask NiceAdvice4Teens A Question ]
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