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Hi! So today I opened my legs and then a fart just came out.. Up front! It keeps happening everytime I open my legs!! Please help, I'm scared! Is there something wrong with me?? Does it have something to do with me not starting my period yet?! (link)
i think its just the air which gets trapped in your vagina or uterus,when you close your legs.air stays there under pressure and when you open your leg it comes out.its normal.it happened with me many times.just forget it.its totally normal.


I recently found my old Env Touch cell phone that I stopped using when I upgraded to another phone a few years ago. I turned it on and discovered I still had a ton of pictures and videos in it that I would like to keep. I know you can plug phones into the computer using their USB cord (which I have and it's definitely the cord to this phone) and you can download the pictures/videos to your computer.

Well, I've been trying to do that. When I plug everything in, my phone screen tells me it's syncing my music (I have none on that phone) A window pops up on my computer giving me a different list of opinions and the last 3 are various ways to import pictures and videos. So far I've clicked on all three to try, but it won't work. My computer will tell me I have no new pictures/videos to import, which is false. I have about 10 videos and 200 something pictures still in this phone. The phone is fully charged, working perfectly fine. I can't figure out what's wrong. Can anyone help? (link)
after you connect your phone with computer,go to "computer".now look for a drive like"H:" or "I:",the drive which you didn't have before connecting your phone.now open the drive.you will find your files that were saved in phone.if the files were saved in sd card,then you can also use a card reader to find your files in the same method.just use the card reader to connect the sd card with computer.i hope you will be able to find your files in this way..


i am an advice columnist here on adviceanators. you know the small section a advice columnist's page, you can write a paragraph or so about yourself? does anyone know how to edit that? i wrote it last year, and now i would like to rewrite it. how? (link)
under registered user go profile settings.then you can edit your bio there.


This is urgent! I don't know how to stop devices on my cell from running all the time, and I'm using up tons of data! Can someone also please tell me why when I go to sleep my phone battery is fully charged and when I get up it's low battery even if I turn the power button off? I love listening to playlist.com's music. Does that use up lots of data too? Cuz I'm losing my GBs like crazy. Thanks! Btw I'm careful not to watch videos or listen to the radio online. What can I do not to use up so much data? your advice is really appreciated since this is a new phone, and I'm really confused. I would really appreciate if you can give me names of popular sites that use up a lot of data! (link)
yes playlist.com uses a lot of data.if you want to stop unwanted data use then you need to check your phone's settings on packet data usage.when you dont use internet then "turn off" the packet data usage.for battery saving check if there is a power saving settings in your phone or not.use low brightness.keep the volume as down as you can.close all background apps which you are not using.use a good quality battery.playing games also eats up battery.try to limit the time of your playing games.


Im 13 years old and im a Pakistani.I am inlove with my first cousin.He is 4 months older than me.We both are very shy.We see each other after 3 or 4 months.I miss him soo much.I even cried at night.We dont talk with each other coz we both are very shy.I tried to forget him but I cant.I miss him soo much and Im sure that he loves me too coz many times I caught him starring at me and when I caught him,he blushed.I love him soo much.My parents are also cousins. (link)
you are too shy to talk.then why dont you express your feelings with a letter or a sms?letter is an old idea but it can help you a lot.your parents are cusins too.but you didnt mention if it was a love marriage or not.if it was love marriage then they can understand you.but you are so young to have a boyfriend.so i think you should wait until atleast 16.but its your choice.


I'm a 17 year old girl, and I'm a very sensitive person. I'm quite self-conscious and constantly worry about being judged. I have been this way my entire life.

For as long as I can remember, my parents have been making snide and sarcastic comments to me about what I wear, what I eat, my acne, the fact that I've never kept up a sport or instrument, etc. It's not that they sit there and laugh at me for having a pimple, it's more like, "Sure, eat more of that greasy pizza, that'll help your skin." I guess I'm supposed to laugh it off, but I get offended and try to make some clever comment back, which is usually more rude than clever, and gets me in trouble.

I can tell that they're coming from a good place (trying to get me to change my behavior or improve myself), but they're doing more harm than good. I have told them repeatedly that I don't like it when they mock my intelligence, but they just get angry with me and tell me that I can't take a joke. Yup. I can't; I just have a private cry and a cigarette or two.

What can I say to make them realize that I am NOT okay with such comments? Thanks :) (link)
i am a teenager too and this happens with me.but whenever they comment such things i just dont say anything cause it makes the whole thing worse.i just keep quite.and after sometime when they are in a relaxed mood i talk to them and say it indirectly that what they said realy hurted me.and try to make them understand that if someone said that to them what would they feel like.but dont try to argue with them.they are doing this so that you can change your bad habits.they are your parents,not your enemy or something like that.they always wants your best.tell them nicely that their joke hurts you and tell them not to do so.try to tell this with any other topic but not directly.tell them about your feelings.i hope they will try to understand you.





I am 27, I am an introvert and I also suffer from depression.

I have no friends, I have not had real friends in about 3 years now. Each time I think of the idea I seem to shoot it down. I even had oppertunites to hang out with a few people and I find myself with very little interest in proceeding what seems to be no more then hi and bye. I ask myself " Why aren't. I interested in friends?" I can't seem to find a real valid reason other then they are drama and always hang out. I am young and should have friends but don't really want them?. (link)
you are an introvert.its one of the common problem of introverts and i had this too.try to find things that seems interesting to you.now look for people who are also interested in that.then you can be friend with them and talk about the things which makes you both interested.i know introverts are not conversationalists but try to talk.its a good idea to choose an extrovert as your friend.because introverts like to listen people talking than talking themselves.so extrovert people can help you as they likes to talk.


Okay so im in highschool (10th grade) & i hang out with a group of people. At first i really liked them all. but for the past 3 weeks i can't stand ANY of them. Everything they do annoys me. I get to school in the best mood but when i see them it just goes down. I don't want to be with them anymore. It really sucks because i don't even know what the hell is wrong with me? Did i just kind of outgrow them or something? im not happy anymore with them & im thinking of leaving them for another group . How do i tell them? or i don't tell them & just leave? Like honestly they are so BORING. Like i want to have fun & go to parties, go to amusement parks etc. but they just want to do all the boring bs. like watch movies & stuff like that. What should i do? time for new friends? (link)
you can find new friends but keep in touch with your old friends.then slowly move away from them in a way that they are not hurt.or you can be friends with both new and old ones.


Do you guys believe in those pictures or comments that say something like "Repost in 4 minutes or else"? I'm scared of those things... (link)
this things are stupid and fake.dont believe those stupid things.i read them many times and never reposted.trust me,nothing happened to me.


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Whenever I'm mad, I harm myself. For some reason I just scratch myself really bad. I don't use objects, I just use my nails. What's wrong with me? I do this pretty frequently. I used to cut myself, but I don't really do it anymore. I keep scratching myself and I can't stop :( (link)
this also happened with me.whenever you are angry take a deep breath,countdown backward from 100 to one.try to leave the place if you can.go to another room.write down whatever is coming on your mind.then tear the paper into pieces and throw it in dustbin.doing this helped me a lot.


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So my friend got mad at me and we were texting, and she said the whole school knows I'm "mean"... I honestly don't care, but do you think she meant it? (link)
she was angry at that time thats why she told so.try to talk about this with her.i think you have told her something which realy hurted her.if you can find the thing and say sorry about that.a situation like this also happened with me and my friend.i told her sorry and everything became alright..


Hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have acne, who doesn't at this age! does anybody know how to calm it down or get rid of it? i have very sensitive skin and can only use certain creams and stuff on it so i find it quite hard to find anything. if anybody knows let e know, thanks x (link)
if your skin is oily then you should wash your skin twice a day.Try to avoid the cosmatics which irritate your skin."Acne Aid" cleansing bar is perfect for acne.If you wash your face with it regularly,then new acnes wont grow.Stop using the cosmatics which clogs pore.Ask a doctor to prescribe you a gel or cream to use on acne.My doctor prescribed me "Fona gel" which realy worked.I dont know if it will work on you too.so it will be better to ask a dermetologist.


Im really stressed about my first ever violin competitikn tomorrow morning. Im competing in a traditional and pop compwtition and ive been practicing like crazy. Whatre ways i can keep myself calm ? Helpnplease! (link)
To get best result you need to be attentive and confident.You are attentive.But you need to be confident.You have practiced a lot.So take a deep breath and think that no one can beat you.You will play it perfectly on the competetion.Take a break from practice.Enjoy a little time doing whatever you love to do.I love listening songs.So whenever I get situations like this I usually take a break and listen a song.If i cant, I sing one.And that makes me calm.All the best! :)


i am currently studing for A levels (english equivalent of senior year finals i think) and everyone else that i know has FB but i dont however i find that i miss out on social interventions because i am not on FB what should i do? (link)
Ofcourse you should get one.But make sure you are using proper privacy settings.Avoid sharing personal information and photos with strangers.It will be the best if you choose only known person as your friend.All the best! :)




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