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Friends and my 1st gf
So, I have a new girlfriend and I really like her alot. But one of my friends (who barely knows her) was telling me to be careful, that he sees a bad future because he thinks she "has no morals" I don't exactly see what he sees. She might be immature and rebellious, but she's clean, she ironically gets good grades, and she's very unique, she acts out sometimes but doesn't really do bad things. He was mentioning how she's always trying to hit me and says rude things sometimes, but when she's not playing around, she's not as bad, like around my parents and whatnot. My parents like her, I don't see what my friends are talking about (2 have mentioned it) They said she's likely to cheat on me, first of all, she's a virgin who basically stays home all day, second they don't know her like I do. idk. I don't think she'd do anything to hurt me. but my friends worried me and bothered me.
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Ignore them. They just want to get involved in your relationship. If you don't see it, then it's most likey not real. Next time they say something about your girlfriend, just walk away.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
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When you're in a new relationship, there is always going to be people who are trying to get involved.
This is your relationship and it should only be the two of you. Not you, her, your friends and her friends.
They friends maybe be looking out for you, that's fine, but they can't tell you to dump her all because they "think" she's a bad girl. You're giving her the benefit of the doubt.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is letting everyone tell you who you should date. I mean it's ok to let someone know that a person might not be that good but you can't let that control your relationship.
Anyways, you like her. She's your girlfriend and enjoy it.
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This is the problem nowadays, Who the hell cares whst someone eles thinks?
If you like her then give her a chance. Sounds to me like these "friends" are quick to judge. This girl may actually be nothing like what they assume she may be. Infact she could turn out to be a very nice person. The truth is no matter what you do and who you decide ti date someone somewhere will have their opinions. Who gives a shit? You need to decide for yourself and not have others decide for you. If you decide to date her and people are still telling you crap then you need to tell them it is your choice and they need to mind their buisness. Decide for YOU if your friends can't grow up and learn to have some respect then you need to find dome new friends. If I listened to what other people told me I wouldn't be married right now and not listening to my friends opinions about my husband was the best thing I ever did.
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