|
Im worried :(
Hey guys. Ok so I have a boyfriend; he is a junior, i am a softmore we are both in high school. anyway, he is going on this junior class trip to washington DC in a couple of days for like a 4 day trip with the whole junior class. I am happy for him and all, but I'm kind of worried. I know it might not seem like a huge deal, it may seem stupid, but I am afraid he will fall for another girl while he is gone:( Don't ask why, I dont know. But well, his ex girlfriend is going on the trip and theres gonna be tons of other girls too, what if they try to flirt with him? Or what if he starts to like his ex??:( I trust him but the thing is.., how would i ever know if he actally DOES do something like flirt while he is on that trip? How will I ever find out? I dont really know many juniors except him soo....please help:(
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You have a great reason to be like this. However, you can't stop him from going on this trip. If he hasn't done stuff like this before, then I wouldn't worry.
If you like, I'd text and call him every few times a day so he'll remember you. Here's an example; If he does happen to flirt with a girl (Which won't probably happen) the same time you text him, you'll remind him of you.
Good luck and take care,
Christina
]
I get worried like that all the time when bf has yto go on trips like that too so you are not alone! I would suggest if you have a cell phone and he has a cell phone you could text him at night or something. Because you can't spy on him just like the last answer said. Like text him stuff like, "Hi how's the trip?" or even "I love you and miss you so much" I hoped this helped! :)
-Tay
]
Well, you can't spy on your boyfriend whenever he goes away.
Trust is the key in a relationship and you do say you trust him but if you think he might flirt with other girls or fall for his ex then you don't trust him.
If you did trust him, you wouldn't let these things get to your head.
I don't think you have anything to worry about though. If he's a good guy, he wouldn't do that behind your back. I'm sure you wouldn't be with a guy who is a jerk. If girls flirt with him, who cares, that means you have an attractive guy and he is yours, be happy.
Don't over think what's going on.
Now, if he does fall for another girl while he is away. Then he's not a good guy and you don't deserve him, you deserve much better.
Don't let these things get to your head or it will ruin your relationship. Learn to trust him, everything will be fine.
]
More Questions: |