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2 boys are asking me out. which should i choose?


Question Posted Tuesday March 19 2013, 9:33 pm

so my friend told me that this guy, Luke, was going to ask me out tomorrow. she is basically the gossip central and has never been wrong in things like this. well, she just called me and told me this other guy, Spencer, was going to ask me out. I have liked Spencer for awhile, but i dont know him that well and i am very good friends with Luke but havent thought about him in that way. which guy should i choose?

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lightoftruth answered Wednesday March 20 2013, 1:35 am:
Well if you don't see your friend Luke that way, don't date him. You don't know Spencer very well so it might be weird and awkward to date him.
These are two of the things I would do if I was in your situation.
I wouldn't go out with either of them.

Or, I would think about which one I'm more interested in and instead of going straight to being their girlfriend, I would hang out with them and go on a couple dates to see if you really are interested.
It would work with either guy in your case. If you want to try things out with Luke, then go out with him a couple times and see if you can see him as more than a friend. If you want to try things out with Spencer, go out with him a couple times and see if he is a good guy who is your type.

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