Member Since: June 11, 2012
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How many tampons should I use a day? I heard you're supposed to take it out after two hours instead of what it says on the pack, but it hurts every time I take one out. I also wanted to know, will it ever stop hurting? I mean, a tampon usually feels ok going in, and I didn't even feel it when I used it, but when I took it out, it really hurt! I'd use pads all the time if I could, but since it's summer (and my family goes to the beach a lot) if I don't go in the water, it'll be really embarassing having to tell everyone I'm on my period. I hope you can help! (link)
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okay two hours isnt long enough it should be 6-8 because i take mine out after 8 that way it has soaked up enough blood that should be why it hurts so bad-been there-then after i started leaving it in for the actual 8 it didnt hurt as bad but it might hurt a bit because i mean youre pulling something thats INSIDE you OUT so yeah ^.^-hope this helps
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Ok so I broke up with this guy, lets call him brendan. So I broke up with brendan a couple months ago because I got pressured by this other guy... =/ Brendan is so sweet and funny and nice and cute and totally the perfect package. (Note: I wont use the guy's real names) Anyways, this guy uhm call him Ryan pressured me to break up with brendan and then he asked me out and I said yes =( I broke up with Ryan after realizing what a jerk he is (only lasted a week) Its been 3 months since I broke up with Ryan. Yesterday, we went to Canadas Wonderland for a band trip. Brendan is in band but Ryan isnt. I've always liked brendan and we've come to be good friends. I flirt with him occasionally, he flirts back =) After playing 3 songs at this band thing we got to go on all the rides at 1pm and had to meet back at 6pm. Me and my friend decided to ask Brendan and one of his friends that she likes to be in our group. They said sure and so we ate lunch then went back to the bus to get our band instruments. After we played our instruments, we went to the bus to drop off our instruments and then get clothes to change in to. We went to the bath rooms to get changed and we told Brendan and his friend to meet us outside after. They both ditched... =( I was SO pissed off!!! After at 6, I saw him and went over to him and said "Your such a ditcher!" On the bus he walked by and smiled and I said, "I've never seen more of an asshole to ditch someone" His friend didnt feel well so me and Sydney had to switch spots and surprise surprise, it was behind brendan... He turned around and said "Im sorry for ditching, why was it so important to you that I was there anyways?" and I said "if you knew then you would understand" Brendan:"You like me dont you" Me:"how did you know" Brendan:"its obvious" Then I wore his hat for the rest of the 3 hour drive back home. He asked Sydney for a pen then started writing hand notes to me saying, "I dont know if I can do this again, if you liked me then you shouldnt have broken up with me in the first place" ANd I said, "I know, Im so freaking stupid. I understand..." and then we got home and he leans over to me and whispers into my ear "What I miss the most is your hugs" and I almost started crying. TOday, his friend comes over to me and he says " DO you like brendan?" me:" what makes you think that?" him:"he told me everything, he likes you too" and yeahh. ADVICE? All of this is overwelming. My other friend Emily told Brendan the real reason I broke up with him. So um opinions? I dont know what to do! HELP!! (link)
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talk to brendan yourself face to face tell him everything it may be hard but do it that dont work theres more fish in the sea-hope this helps :)
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its all started out of my mom saying that I'm not a perfect daughter to her, and i told her so many times that i cant be a perfect daughter to her.
she got mad at me and after a couple of days i apologize to her, then went to green bay with my boyfriend.
I'm guessing she got mad at me, she was thinking that i only apologize to her so i can go with my boyfriend, but its not true.
she is trying to break my relationship with my boyfriend and I'm not liking that.
i know my mom is worried about my past because i was married once, but i mean if she except every guy that i date is going to failed me, then why am i even with a guy.
that's what makes me so mad at her is because she doesn't understand me at all.
i apologize to her because i loved her and didn't want that awkwardness between us, but i guess she didn't understand that.
so not she is not talking to me and i was fine not talking to her too, but she cut off my cell phone line cause she pays it.
i mean i don't know what to do, right now I'm having evil thoughts saying that i should pay back because i don't want to talk to her either.
i know I'm not that mean towards my mom and i don't plan to do anything to her.
but right now i felt like she hates me so much that she is willing to take away everything from me.
what do you think i should do? (link)
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family counseling i am 14 and had that horrible problem too (some what) it wasnt a normal teenage girl with her mom problem eigther hehe.. no matter you wanna keep your mom and your relationship i promise and my mom and i got over it it feels muches better i promise but yeah counceling helps there are free places trust me altapoint patient here counceling helps-hope this helped :)
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im 16 years old and I have a 28 year old math teacher She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She teaches my math class she is kind and sweet. I love everything about her her voice, her eyes, the way she touches her hair shes always nice to me and I think I am falling for her
she is driving me crazy I get aroused just thinking about her and just can't stop staring at her pic and she is all I think of at night. I fantasize about kissing her and sometimes more, do you think this is a problem that I should tell someone about? I have never had a girlfriend lots of friends but no one that has ever had a special bond, i feel this special bond with my young teacher and I keep fantasizing about her and crave her body, is that weird? every time i think of her
I feel retarded like i have marbles in my mouth and i can't speak she's that hot. It just makes me feel so crazy like I want to punch something, I want her so much I feel so mad I want to just punch something, if she has a boyfriend or husband I will be so jealous of him and I want him to die, I keep thinking she hates me or thinks I'm stupid as well, any help is welcome i think im in love with this girl she haunts my fantasies daily like other girls aren t good enough anymore all I want is here it ******* hurts so much (link)
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hi 14 year old girl here i honestly advise telling her no ring no husband but um that probably seems crazy to say thatbut tell her but dont do so as to scare her ok -hope this help :)
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It is sure that after having sex... If we take ipill than there will be no chances of pregnancy... (link)
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there is no positive preventative i say use condoms and take pills before -hope this helps :)
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I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He means the absolute world to me. He is, hands down, the sweetest guy I've ever known. However, he's black.
My dad was perfectly fine with that fact that I had a boyfriend, until I told him that he's black. He won't even give him a chance. My dad knows that my boyfriend is important to me, but all he does is complain.
I told him that if he's just going to act this way, then I'm not so sure I want him around. He said that that was his plan and that if we ever get married or have children, he won't be there for us or for his grandchildren.
It's really upsetting me that my dad is doing this. I'm not too sure what to do. Help? (link)
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my advice is to talk to your dad once more tell him how much your boyfriend means to you tell him how much your and your fathers relationship means to you and tell him that you would love his support if this dosent work then just keep in touch with him and only on occasion slightly bring up your boyfriend or ask for them to meet-hope this helps :)
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My mom and I do NOT get along. She's very manipulative,mentally abusive and borderline bipolar She fights with me on everything and threatens me all the time and demands money out of me.
I just got out of school last Friday and I graduate on the 9th.
Every day she comes home and screams at me that I haven't started working yet (I've only been home 5 days). She claims Im just "effing around' at home and wasting her money and time (Even though she gets 1k in child support every month until I turn 18) and no matter how many times I tell her I've filled out over 40 applications already she never believes me and continues to call me an idiot and worthless. She refuses to pay for anything and never saved up any money for me at all yet she wants to take money away from me (she says she wants half of every paycheck when I get a job on top of the child support she already gets). I've always taken care of myself and I've done really good in school. I'm an Honors student with college level certifications and the presidential volunteer award before I've even graduated from HS.
Anyways. Today out of the blue an idea came into my head on how to get out of here.
I have an older brother (about 32) who lives in a fairly large city with a house right by the beach. He's having some trouble paying for things because his roommate totaled both his cars and she's unemployed with only minor social security/disability coming through. My brother is the only one working. She has a 10 year old son she loves dearly but she can't see him because she doesn't have a car to get to him to and from school so she lost custody of him.
I'm thinking if I start looking at jobs where they are now I could most likely find one there much easier than finding one here (I live in a small town) and if they let me take one of the rooms or half even of one of the rooms I could help them out with the bills and watch her son and even help put in money for a car for all of us to use and my brother could teach me to drive it. I can cook and clean as well so it would take a lot of responsibility off their shoulders and they could just relax. I'd be in a much better home and in a town with much more possibilities.
I would just need to find a way to get past my mom on it as I'm sure my brother (we get along very well) and his roommate would love any help they can get. I would also be closer to my dad so if I ever needed help from him or vice versa it would only be a 30min drive away vs the 4 hour drive I have right now living where I am.
I just need some ideas on how to get there without my mom trying to pull something insane over my head to trap me into staying with her.
Thank you so much for any advice. :) (link)
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ok as far as job searching there goes i'd apply for a few jobs there and when you accually find one is when you could move there have your brother sit with you and your mom and help you talk to her about it.if she disaggrees then talk to your brother about fighting for custody in court i know it sounds horriable but its not really just try not to damage you and your moms relationship because if your brother wins you should still visit your mom and/or go to like a coffee shop or what have you so yeah -hope this helps :)
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im 12 a femal and i dont have my period. every day when i go to the bath room i see clear goo on my underwear that must have come from my vagina. some times i find it dry and see it turns a tiny bit yellow. im scared what is this stuff. does it mean im going to get my period? (link)
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its called discharge its completely normal you get it before and after your period im a 14 year girl and i know all about it! :) its okay to have i suppose we (all girls) will always have it its just another way for your body to clean its self out-hope this helps :)
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I am startong summer camp and we go swiming on my first day of my period need help it is tomorrow!!!!
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ok so theres a diagram in the tampon bow on on the side and you can take it with you in a duffle bag or if its paper it can go anywhere but i sugguest finding the hole with your finger first i do haha butif you put it in wrong/wrong hole it would go in even maybe two inches before it hurt extermely (not just a little) you should probably talk to your mom or a female relitive for further advice (im 14 year old girl)-hope this helps :)
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we have become close friends and even few times came very close to kissing, but nothing ever happened.
what am i to do? (link)
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its completely normal.you cant choose who you fall for and love conquers all so it dosent matter the age.tell him how you feel he obviously feels the same.dont be afraid to put your heart out there,no matter what theres always someone else if that dosent work out-hope this helps :)
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So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not? (link)
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yes he does.he's not paying attenion to you while you are looking because he is shy and probably afraid of rejection but i suggest talking to him its hard addmittedly but i'd try getting his phone number from him that way its more comfortable than looking at one another.if you want something done you must do it yourself :) thats how i got my boyfriend-hope this helps :)
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Ok my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for the last two months now and we aren't having any luck...what things I could use or do to help me get pregnant? (link)
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well you could see a fertility doctor.i wouldnt advise to have more intercourse than usual because that could have a negetive effect on your body.but i do advise that during intercourse you make sure that he has ejaculated while his penis is inserted in your vagina-hope this helps :)
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I'm 13 and I loove Emo style or their music(BVB)
1st question is...I don't cut myself. Do I have to do it if I wanna be a real emo? And also I'm a cheerful person so, am I not Emo for that? I have nothing to be sad about in my life. (link)
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ok so i signed up JUST to answer this! ok so YES you do need to cut yourself to be emo,emo is IN NO WAY a style/fashion im sorry i just HATE when people act like it is and by the sound of it you'd be better off scene look it up haha i love you for asking this really,phew glad i got that off my chest! hope this helped (14 year old girl) by the way i person can seem happy even if emo i suppose but still SCENE bye
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